How to Strip for Your Man - Sexy Strip Tease Tips
Men are very visual creatures, so a sexy strip tease can grab their full attention like nothing else.
But before you run off to tempt your man with your sexy moves, make sure you take some time to prepare everything first.
It will kill the mood if you suddenly have to stop and go in search of a missing prop, or if you have to ask him to wait while you set up the next part.
A good strip tease is something for a special occasion and deserves a little bit of planning, so to ensure the show is smooth and memorable, have everything ready in advance; lighting (try using candles), the music, the clothes, and any props you will use.
So how do you go about planning such a memorable show? Well here are a few tips:
Tidy your space
Begin by preparing your “stage” (usually your bedroom) and making the area neat and attractive. You don’t see people tripping over used pyjamas in strip clubs. Keep your clothes, books, CDs, shoes or anything else away from the “stage”. As an added bonus, you won’t have to worry about tripping over random items while doing your performance.
Set the atmosphere
No matter how attractive you are, flattering lighting helps in a sexy situation so warm, dim lighting is your friend. Notice how most people always seem to look better at night or in bars and clubs? Get a dimmer switch in your room or use the bedside lights only. Light some scented candles to add drama bit more atmosphere.
Sexy lingerie is pretty much a given if you’re going to put on a strip show. If you don’t have some, or your current set doesn’t do you justice then start looking now.
At least one set of good quality lingerie should be compulsory in the wardrobe of any girl. Start a collection if possible to always keep your man guessing.
Sexy stilettos (the higher, the better) and stockings that attach to the underwear are also mainstays of sensual outfits.
Keep in mind though, your underwear shouldn’t be too revealing. The point of the strip tease is mystery, and to leave them begging for more right up until the end. Garter belts, stockings, and corsets are all extra items which can be removed (slowly) to prolong the tease.
Try to make sure that the last items of clothing to come off (usually your top and panties) are attractive, but easy to remove. As these items are coming off right at the end of the tease, you want the finale to be carried out smoothly and without too much fuss, so try to avoid too many buttons, zips or clasps.
Props
A lot of people find that when they’re in standing front of an audience (even just one person), with attention focused on them, they have a hard time figuring out what to do with their hands!
This is where props come in. A tie or scarf, a straight-back chair and even a whip are all simple additions which can make you feel more comfortable and also add an element of drama to your performance.
All that jazz
Decide on some sensual music that you can move in time with. The choice here is very broad and will depend on what you and your partner like, but we would suggest something that has few or no lyrics and has a relatively smooth and slow beat.
Make a playlist so you do not run out songs.
The Main Sexy Strip Tease Event!
When planning your strip, make sure it’s done a day that you’re feeling relaxed and confident. If it’s the first time you’ve done a strip tease for you partner, they may even be as nervous as you! A small bit of alcohol can help calm their nerves and let them focus on the moment, but we’d recommend that you stay sober to avoid putting all that strip tease planning to waste.
Try to maintain eye contact and your best come hither look. Touch yourself; bite your lips, mess with your hair, and caress your breasts. Keeping your movements slow and deliberate can be tricky in the heat of the moment, but will give the best results. Make the most of your body and tease him by playing with yourself, but make sure he isn’t doing the same. Playfully spank him when he tries to touch you; or even tie him up beforehand. Make sure he can only get involved once you’ve finished your show.
Each item of clothing that comes off should be seductively thrown away from you and remember to remove your underpants last.
The moves in a striptease do not have to be complicated; it is mostly about the hips and buttocks. It should be slow, sensual and include regular pauses to let your significant other admire what they can’t touch (yet).
We’ve included a clothed example below, but there are many more risqué examples online, and you’ll find that many gyms actually have classes on how to perform a strip tease.
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