Love Fisting? Try A Fisting Toy!

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Fisting is a sexual activity involving a person using their hand or fingers to insert inside the vagina or anus. Some fisting toys a person can use include; the famous hand dildo, the infinity fist, and the building-up dildo.

Different people have different fetishes, and because you are disgusted with some kinks does not mean you should shame them. Commonly, the hand is the most known accessory when fisting. Some people into fisting are fond of using their hands or fingers. This is probably the first thing you use when you are a beginner. Well, some toys can help you if you want to first. While you feel your hand is tired of the fisting activity and your woman wants to fill the pleasures in the vagina, the most realistic thing to do is try a fisting toy. Some fisting toys you can explore with are;

The Famous Hand Dildo

This fisting toy was molded from a human hand. The human was a porn actress. It is almost the same extent length as the human hand. This will make it easy to feel like the human hand is the one that is inserted into the vagina during fisting. The famous hand dildo has some lovely details. Its fist is firm and flexible. It is not made of latex. This makes it feel like the human hand is the one that is involved during fisting. That is why it has the "most famous hand dildo."

The Closed-Fisted Dildo

According to Reay (2015), a closed-fisted dildo has a fitted and tight fist to get into the vagina. It is also molded from the porn actress, just like the famous hand dildo. It is not made from latex which makes it great when fisting. It has the same features as the famous hand dildo. You can also use it on water.

The Infinity Fist

The name might make you think it will give you infinite power, but it won't. What is great is that it will make you have a great feeling of sensations. It will also make you achieve some great orgasms. It is made from silicone which makes it a great fit. It is also waterproof and can be used in the showers, pool, or bathtub. It may be heavy for some people, but it won't be that heavy if you believe in your game. The great thing about this fisting toy is that it is soft and not that big.

Using Your Hand as The Fisting Dildo

You do not get to use your hand literally but wear a long mitten made of x when fisting. You can use this material for various kinks and fetishes. In this case, you can use your hand during fisting activities. Putting it on may seem like tiresome work, so you must use some powder and apply it to your hand. The powder will help you to slide the mitten over your hand. It simply acts as a dry lubricant. It is long, and it reaches the elbow length. The only negative thing about fisting toys is that you cannot use oil-based lubricants. This is because they are not well suited for each other. They may react, and still, you shouldn't use the oil-based lube on your vagina. This one seems perfect because it does not give a scratch.

The fact that you enjoy fisting does not mean that you love the presence of fists in your vagina. Some of the reasons you enjoy it might be because you love to feel like your vagina is full. Some of the toys which you can use in this case are;

Build-Up Dildo

According to Fabian (2020), a build-up dildo is handmade from silicone. The great thing about this dildo is that it is very soft; hence one will not feel the roughness when inserted into the vagina. The fact that it is firm makes it easier for different sensational feelings. It is also waterproof and hence can be used in water. While you plan or want to get some pleasure and different sensations, be sure to twist it when penetrating or thrust it into the vagina.

Inflatable Dildo

An inflatable dildo will work magic If you plan to get your vagina full. This dildo will inflate your vagina how you like it and according to your desires. Be sure not to use the oil-based lubricant cause it will likely damage the dildo. The best thing to use will be a water-based lubricant. If you want to feel different sensations, you should pump the dildo slowly. You can release the air in a dildo through the release valve if you feel much pressure and pain, as Seshagiri (2012) suggested. The inflatable dildo is also waterproof; you can use it in the water bodies like in a bathtub or an ocean. This will make it deflate instantly. Try using this pump, and you will get to pump your vagina to your desire.

Conclusion

Fisting can feel uncomfortable, although it shouldn't if done properly with instructions. Consider the right lubes to incorporate in fisting activities. Consider the place to perform fisting to determine the best lubes to use. Use water-based lubes if you are fisting in a bathtub or ocean. According to Lawal et al. (2013), consider avoiding using the oil-based lubricant in water, for it may not work. Oil-based lubes can also damage your dildo. The best one that will seem to work is the water-based lubricant. Before fisting, make sure your hands and your toys are clean. Warm yourself up and not go forward by inserting all of your fingers in the vagina. Start by ensuring your vagina is stimulated before fisting. Your partner or yourself can start by massaging your clitoris. Once you feel like you are about to get an orgasm, that will mean that you have already stimulated your vagina. You can then go ahead and try fisting. However, if you are a beginner, do not use the bigger toys on yourself. Communicate with your partner before engaging in fisting to avoid judgment. Communication also helps learn your partner's sexual desires. Engage in fisting to explore more sexual pleasures.

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