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HOW TO HAVE GOOD SEX: THE NO-BS GUIDE TO IMMENSE SEXUAL PLEASURE

How To Have Good Sex: The No-Bs Guide To Immense Sexual Pleasure

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova
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How To Have Good Sex: The No-Bs Guide To Immense Sexual Pleasure

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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✨ Article Summary ✨

  • 🌟 Key point 1: Sex is all about communication! 👄 Make sure you're on the same page with your partner.

  • 🌟 Key point 2: Explore your desires and let go of inhibitions! 🔥 Pleasure is for everyone.

  • 🌟 Key point 3: Trust the process and have fun! 😜 It’s about the journey, not just the destination.

🧠 Key Advice & Tips from Our Experts 🧠

  • 💡 Tip 1: Communication is the spice of life! 🎤 Talk openly, laugh, and learn about each other's desires.

  • 💡 Tip 2: Don’t rush it! 🕰️ Take your time and savour every moment. Slow and steady wins the pleasure race.

  • 💡 Tip 3: Let go of expectations. 🎈 Relax, have fun, and let your body guide the way!

Have you ever thought of engaging in pleasurable sexual intercourse but do not know where to begin? Herein is a complete guide on having good sex for immense sexual pleasures.

According to Philpott et al. (2006), sexual pleasure is the physical and/or psychological satisfaction and enjoyment one derives from any erotic interaction. Generally, everyone desires to engage in satisfying sex with their partners. While reading through this amazing guide, you will find different amazing sex techniques, positions, and tips. All these will help you attain amazing and pleasurable sensations with your partner. There are always enough things in the sex world to explore with your partner. Enjoying good sex also depends on what you introduce in your sex life. You can always consider different sexual activities to make the experience pleasurable. Below is a guide with complete information on good sex. You will also be introduced to different sex tips and techniques to help you have pleasurable sex.

What Is Good Sex 

Technically, good sex is felt differently, making it have no general answer. People have different meanings and perspectives regarding good sex. Good sex changes once you get older since you are learning more about your sexuality. What was good with your previous partner might be better or worse with your current partner. Good sex will always leave you sexually satisfied. However, satisfaction may also vary depending on individuals. Some people will go for physical pleasures and orgasms, while others prefer extreme or kinky sex. Some will also go for vanilla or lovemaking. Generally, good sex is all about knowing yourself and what you want before engaging in sex. Most women will go for low standards when it comes to good sex. Whereas men tend to choose extreme pleasures and orgasms.

Before Foreplay

Whatever you do before sexual intercourse matters a lot when having good sex. This is quite open when you have a great connection or sexual attraction toward your partner. However, if you are not on good terms with your partner, you will have a bad sexual experience. Moreover, understanding this will help you get what you want from your partner. Always learn to prepare your partner sexually, physically, and mentally before sex. Little touches will increase their sexual drive. Foreplay is the way to go if you look for good and satisfying sex.

The Buildup to Having Good Sex

When you decide to engage in sexual intercourse, there is no need to rush things. Instead, consider preparing yourself for a pleasurable and sensational sexual experience. Take all the time you need to buildup. Generally, building up before sex allows you to understand your partner more. You may want to;

Flirt and Tease 

According to Hall et al. (2010), flirting shows romantic or physical attraction to another person. It is an effective way of building intimacy between you and your partner. Flirting and teasing your partner is all you need to build up your sexual moods. This will increase sexual tension. You can consider giving your partner an intimate kiss before rushing into things. Generally, women need stimulation to achieve orgasms. Therefore, the longer you buildup, the higher the chances of having good sex and a pleasurable orgasmic experience. 

Get Comfortable 

Take your time before engaging in any sexual activity. Relaxation is one of the key aspects of good and pleasurable sex. As much as your emotional comfort is essential, you also need to consider your physical comfort. Ensure all your sheets are fresh and your room's temperature is comfy. You might consider doing the following to be comfortable;

  • Have dental dams or condoms on your hands.
  • Cuddling to get used to your partner’s physical preferences.
  • Turn the lights down if you do not feel comfortable with them on.

How to Have Good Sex with Your Partner

Here are the things to consider when engaging in sexual intercourse with your partner;

Protect Yourself

Consider buying body-safe latex condoms for protection purposes. Only engage in penetrative sex when you know you are protected from unwanted pregnancies and STIs. This will make you feel comfortable and relaxed, therefore enjoying sex.

Use Lube 

Lubricants are the best choice for anyone who wants a comfortable, intense, and safe sexual experience. According to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. Penetration is always easier and more sensual when you have the right lube. Apply plenty of sex lube on your sex toys or genitals before penetration to help reduce unwanted friction that might cause injuries during sex. Dry sex also increases the chances of contracting diseases during sexual intercourse. 

Intimate 

Consider making your sexual experience intimate and memorable. You can always begin by stripping your partner's or your clothes off while straddling them. This is a great way of showing how intimate you are and how you want sex badly.

Show Enthusiasm 

This is one of the aspects that enhances good sex. You can always smile or make eye contact. Touch your partner romantically from one part to the other to increase the pleasure. You can also consider talking dirty to your guy to let them know you enjoy every moment with them. Moreover, make your guy feel your presence.

Take Control

Most men think that nothing looks hot when their partners take control. You can try ridding your partner to let them know that you are fully in charge. Ride your partner for extreme sensations and pleasure until they reach their orgasm. You can also be dominant and tell your guy whatever you want. Consider doing this while they are tied and introduce spanking to make the whole experience pleasurable.

Stay in the Moment

Consider staying in the moment to maintain your sexual drive. This will automatically lead to a good and pleasurable sexual experience. Also, avoid judging, especially regarding your looks and performance. This might be the greatest turn-off and will likely lead to a bad sexual experience. 

Ask for What You Need 

For a better sexual experience, it is always good when you ask what you need before or during sex. This applies to both genders. Being open allows your partner to adjust where necessary to give you a good sexual experience.

Switch Positions 

You can always explore different sex positions to experience different sensations and pleasures. Also, consider a sex position that works perfectly for both of you. This will help enhance your sexual pleasures.

References

Philpott, A., Knerr, W., & Boydell, V. (2006). Pleasure and Prevention: When Good Sex is Safer Sex. Reproductive Health Matters14(28), 23-31.

Hall, J. A., Carter, S., Cody, M. J., & Albright, J. M. (2010). Individual differences in the 

Communication of Romantic Interest: Development of the Flirting Styles Inventory. Communication Quarterly58(4), 365-393.

Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of Vaginal Lubricants on 

in-vitro progressive Spermatozoa Motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health21(3), 96-101.


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