Stripping 101: The Beginner's Guide To Perfect Striptease

Do you know you can strip for your partner and give them a good time? Here are the moves and rules on what to do; create the atmosphere, make a playlist, commit to it, use eye contact, and learn from professionals

A striptease is putting on a seductive act for multiple people or someone in which you remove your clothes piece by piece. Burlesque dancers perform this act. Striptease is a visual experience with no touching involved, and you don't have to be a professional dancer to use this undressing technique with anyone or yourself. Whether you have been in a relationship for many years, stripping is a simple way to add a little something extra to your bedroom if you're brave enough. Below is how to give a sexy striptease dance to your partner or other people:

Rules

Establish a set of ground rules that will help your performance assert control and add a level of professionalism, which contributes to the drama's raunchiness. No talking and touching are the few rules, but you feel free to experiment as you fit your show. Use handcuffs or pleasure ties to tie your partner's hands since they won't keep their hands to themselves. The restraints combined with desire will be hot to handle.

Preparation

Remember you're putting on a show, and like all performances, you have to prepare.

Creating the Atmosphere

Set your performance space and dim the lights enough to set the mood. Make sure you and your partner can still see what's going on. Make adjustments to your space. Use light fixtures with dimmers and covers for soft, romantic lighting and light candles.

Choose Your Costume

Wear a racy little costume and loose-fitting, so it's easy to take off and step out of it. Clothes that are too tight may leave undesirable marks on your skin. Add a theme to your costume; think of any fantasy you think your partner or people will love and enjoy. Stoller (2018) stated that the longer it takes to remove your clothes, the more you can build your anticipation for foreplay. You can use a garter belt, opera-length, and props like fans or feathers to reveal and conceal.

Make a Playlist

Your playlist songs will set the mood and provide time. It can range from three to ten minutes long if you have choreography. So you'll need one or two songs. Select a genre that makes you feel good because it's your striptease.

Commit To It

The playlist, costumes, and scenery aren't for your audience. All the elements help you get into character. Part of burlesque fun can be exploring the other side of your personality.

Use Eye Contact

According to Austin & Pinkleton (2015), eye contact can be a tool for teasing and connecting when performing for an audience. Moreover, Phutela (2015) highlighted that prolonged eye contact shows confidence, making you and your audience or partner feel closer. Start by staring into one eye instead of darting back and forth.

Learn From Professionals

Exploring striptease can be fun. As silly as it sounds, you can find a professional stripper to learn from. Creating your show can be fun, but if you want it to be a sexy dance routine to the next level, you have to look for a professional for some guidance. You can watch a strip class or watch dances to do your routine online. They will give you ideas of your own.

Practice

Don't expect to know the dance striptease on your first try. You need to practice until you feel comfortable and have all of your moves down if you want to impress your family and friends. According to Brennan & Jay (2013), watching yourself strip in front of the mirror can be a turn-on and fun before a self-love session.

Prepping Your Partner

You can give your partner a sensual massage before the show. If you're stripping for the audience, they will have enjoyed the drink before you come to perform. Maintaining a professional demeanor and deciding on the rules can work particularly well at the stage. Moreover, the role play and sense of control will help settle nerves as you prepare your partner for future pleasures.

Showtime

Your well-laid plan has gone as planned, and you have the undivided attention of your audience.

Start Slow

Take off each of your items slowly to build anticipation. Don't rush your striptease routine because you want them to enjoy it. Ensure to position your partner so well so they can enjoy the best view of the show at all times, and use the first minutes to set your rhythm. Let the music tease your partner; once you get where you want, what follows will come naturally.

The Strip

When you feel the time is right, you can start to strip. The speed you remove the clothes should be slow, but it is up to you. Make sure it's not too slow or too fast. Start with the accessories while maintaining your sexy, dance-like rhythm, strip tease rock with your hips until you've turned away from your partner, strip off your first layer of your shirt, and throw it over your shoulder to fall onto your partner's lap. Maintaining the dance, bend over until your butt is at the perfect curve and slide your skirt down your thighs. Make sure your touch yourself back up; your partner's love is watching you caress your sexy body. Play the breast touching and the thighs rubbing.

Continue with the dance moving your hips side by side, feeling the music biting your lips and playing with your hair. You want your partner knows how sexy you're feeling; back up against the wall or chair and slow down as you move to the music. Get your foot on the chair and drop your shoe to the ground; peel off your stocking and garter while keeping eye contact. The more eye contact, the more intense your sexy strip will be. Spin around again and remove your bra; slowly let it fall to the floor and cover your boobs with your hand. Turn around and let your partner feel teased by seeing you topless. Slowly remove your hands from your boobs and lose them in your hair. When you feel your partner is sufficiently teased, keep going with your striptease.

Conclusion

Stripping is a choreography of dancing that can lead to the best sex. What's wrong with that? It's your chance to go for it. Learning to strip for your partner may seem overwhelming initially, but you can do it if you practice and master it. Everything changes when you have faith in what you're doing. When you are self-assured, you feel empowered. Confidence is also sexy, so even if you don't feel super confident about strip teasing, especially if it's your first time, be confident, and we guarantee you'll succeed. Striptease isn't just for the audience; it's also for you. Have fun with it. Allow it to be fun, funny, spontaneous, or whatever else you want, and enjoy yourself.

References

Austin, E. W., & Pinkleton, B. (2015). Strategic public relations management: Planning and managing effective communication campaigns. Routledge.

Brennan, T., & Jay, M. (2013). Vision in context: historical and contemporary perspectives on sight. Routledge.

Phutela, D. (2015). The importance of non-verbal communication. IUP Journal of Soft Skills, 9(4), 43.

Stoller, R. J. (2018). Sexual excitement: Dynamics of erotic life. Routledge.