MEN AND MULTIPLE ORGASMS – WHAT WE KNOW

People are not conversant with male orgasms and what it takes for a man to reach climax. Some people often associate male orgasm with ejaculation, not knowing that the two are separate processes that come into play when different brain parts are activated.

Orgasms are the height of sexual arousal; it is the essence of any sex session for several people. There are a ton of magazines and online blogs that focus on orgasmic sensations and how to achieve them. Often, the goal is to help people experience at least one orgasm, but if your body can give you more, the merrier. There is a lot of science behind male orgasms and how they affect the brain, but despite this fact, the male and female orgasms are entwined on the same base.

Multiple Orgasms In Men

Women, unlike men, have a higher chance of experiencing multiple orgasms due to their anatomy. Research on men and multiple orgasms is still in its infancy compared to other issues that touch on men's sexuality, like erectile dysfunction. There isn't much data to back up the science behind multiple orgasms in men. However, men can still experience multiple orgasms even though the number of men who experience it is low. Multiple orgasms are different in men and women because the refractory periods for both genders differ.

According to Wibowo & Wassersurg (2016), there are two types of multiple orgasms in men; condensed and sporadic. One is experienced multiple times, while the other has a latency period of a few minutes, respectively. Scientists cannot coin more information concerning these types of multiple orgasms. People shift their focus to the refractory period, which is the period immediately after an orgasm. According to Rogers & Rogers (2001), the refractory period is characterized by the man's inability to maintain an erection and psychological disinterest in sex, all of which can last for minutes or days to recover because each man is wired differently.

Multiple orgasms in men are dependent on certain habits such as; drug use, sex toys, sexual habits, and delayed ejaculation. However, the likelihood of experiencing multiple orgasms tends to lower with age. You go on a solo or partnered session and know your body better if you wish to experience multiple orgasms. A partnered session is the best because most people cannot continue stimulating their erogenous zones after an orgasm. A hand-free vibrator may be a good option if you want to go solo because it reduces manual labor. It may take time before your body gets accustomed to the sensations of multiple orgasms; therefore, time and patience are key.

Preparing Your Body for Multiple Orgasms

The science behind multiple orgasms in men is not rocket science because all you have to do is practice semen retention and orgasm without ejaculation. Some people think that ejaculation and orgasms are two activities dependent on each other because often, an orgasm is followed by ejaculation. However, this is not true because it is possible for a man to orgasm without ejaculation. Training yourself to orgasm without ejaculating may be the key to experiencing multiple orgasms.

Use The Start-Stop Technique

The start-stop technique has dominated the sexual scene, especially when building strong orgasms and stamina in bed. There isn't much science behind this technique other than denying yourself an orgasm. The start-stop technique is stopping the stimulation when you are about to orgasm, waiting till the need to ejaculate goes away, and then starting again, as Ventus et al. (2020) described. Holding back an orgasm may build your tolerance to the after-effects of an orgasm, allowing you to experience multiple orgasms.

Pelvic Floor Exercises

Pelvic floor exercises, also known as Kegels, are common among women because they help with urinary incontinence and other pelvic floor complications. Siegel (2014) revealed that Kegels help men build stamina to control the urge to ejaculate. Weakened pelvic floor muscles are the main cause of premature ejaculation in men, the inability to get or maintain an erection.

The Squeeze Technique

Out of all the methods people use to experience multiple orgasms, the squeeze method is the most unpleasant because most people have reported feeling sharp pains along their shafts. Use the squeeze technique by holding the tip of your penis between your fingers and squeezing it to reduce arousal. Hold for 30-60 seconds, and repeat it severally to get to your pre-ejaculatory levels.

Do Not Focus On Intercourse

Sex is the act itself, but what about all the sensations culminating in the most fulfilling sexual experience? Shifting your focus from the activity to the sensations has increased men's chances of experiencing multiple orgasms. Some people are for the barbaric idea that the climax of any sex session is the wrong orgasm. Trying to foster deeper levels of connection and intimacy while also focusing on things that cause a surgeon your sexual levels can help build your chances of experiencing multiple orgasms.

Safety Advice For Multiple Orgasm

Multiple orgasms are a blissful experience. The biggest concern is the risk of over-stimulation. Any form of sexual stimulation when a man is in the refractory period can be painful due to the oversensitivity of the genitals. Therefore, if you are helping your partner experience multiple orgasms by stimulating their genitals during the refractory period, you should stop if you notice any slight twitch or uncomfortable reaction. Long levels of stimulation after an orgasm can cause bruising or chaffing of the genitalia.

The Bottom Line

Multiple orgasms are seen as the focal point of any sexual activity, especially from a woman's point of view; one orgasm is bliss, but two are merrier. It is vital to note that multiple orgasms are not exclusive to women. Men are also capable of unlocking this level of orgasms. However, unlike women, the process of achieving multiple orgasms is dependent on two processes. Men obsessed with experiencing multiple orgasms in bed can practice delayed orgasms. You can choose several methods to train your body for multiple orgasms and ultimately for the best sexual experiences.

References

Rogers, W. S., & Rogers, R. S. (2001). The Psychology Of Gender And Sexuality. Mcgraw-Hill Education (UK).

Siegel, A. L. (2014). Pelvic Floor Muscle Training In Males: Practical Applications. Urology, 84(1), 1-7.

Ventus, D., Gunst, A., Arver, S., Dhejne, C., Öberg, K. G., Zamore-Söderström, E., ... & Jern, P. (2020). Vibrator-Assisted Start-Stop Exercises Improve Premature Ejaculation Symptoms: A Randomized Controlled Trial. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 49(5), 1559-1573.

Wibowo, E., & Wassersug, R. J. (2016). Multiple Orgasms In Men—What We Know So Far. Sexual Medicine Reviews, 4(2), 136-148.