POLISHING YOUR SKILLS: METHODS OF FEMALE MASTURBATION

Most sex toys companies have always been dedicated to enhancing pleasure in women through a diverse range of sex toys, but the fashion of female masturbation has never been defined. Herein are the tips for female masturbation and how you can polish your skills, including clitoral stimulation, grinding, and using sex toys.

Men and women use slang such as 'fingering' or 'flicking the bean' to define female pleasure, confusing many people. Masturbation is great if you are looking for an outlet for your thoughts or need to learn what works. This article outlines some common masturbation modes that you can incorporate during solo or couple play. 

Methods of Female Masturbation

Clitoral Stimulation

Making direct contact with the vulva, especially the clitoris, is the most common method of masturbation. You can experiment with the different types of finger motions till you find the one that works for you. Some women opt to rub circles using one or more fingers on their clitoral hood, while others focus their motion on the left or right side of the clitoris. The clit can be compared to an iceberg. Martin‐Alguacil et al. (2008) noted that there are numerous nerves on the surface compared to what you see outside. Do not neglect your labia, gently massage it for added stimulation.

Grinding

Grinding can be performed on a toy, a hard surface, or a pillow. Most women can reach orgasm by grinding their clitoris against all three. If you prefer to grind rather than any other stimulation mode, you can use sex toys such as the smart wand. Lay it on a hard surface and ensure it has a strong surface to support your body weight. While grinding may prove uncomfortable to some women, especially those with flexibility issues, it is a perfect masturbation method that guarantees mind-blowing orgasms.

Using Sex Toys

Sex toys are fun if you want to ditch the monotonous finger game during masturbation. Most toys come with a wide range of vibration modes, and all you need to do is find the motion that works best for you. Most sex toys also come with a guide stating how and where to use the sex toy for maximum stimulation. Sex toys can be intimidating, but on the brighter side, they help you to be your most authentic self during solo or partnered play. 

Non-Direct Stimulation

Not all women strip down for their masturbation sessions. Some women’s clitoris is extremely sensitive to touch and may prefer to please themselves through clothing like undies or light pants. If your clit is too sensitive, there are some sex toys you can use that will work in your favor. Some women derive their pleasure from running water over their clits, but this move may be hard to achieve because some bathtubs are hard to maneuver.

Fingering the G-Spot and the A-Spot

Most women stimulate their external naughty bits when masturbating. Some may alternate this act with internal vaginal stimulation using vibrators and dildos. Different things work for different women, which is fine if you get the most satisfaction from your preferred method. If you feel like internal stimulation will work best for you, you can use your fingers to massage the vaginal canal. Some women derive pleasure from gently massaging the opening of the vaginal canal, and some like to focus on the G-Spot.

Why Do Women Masturbate?

Like men, women masturbate due to the sexual satisfaction they get from it. Masturbation is pleasurable and releases the feel-good hormones that put you in a better mood. According to Leonard (2010), masturbation can also help with many health issues like stress, insomnia, and boredom. You should not feel weird if you get these sexual urges. They are completely normal and whether you decide to act on them is up to you. The clitoris has more than 6000 nerve endings, more than those found on the head of the penis. It is the only organ that is specifically designed for sexual pleasure. Women should know that pursuing self-pleasure is healthy for their minds and body. If you are doing it twice a month, once a day, or once in a blue moon, it should not cause concern as long as you are comfortable. Masturbation is important for your relationship with pleasure because it tunes you to your sensuality.

Most people had never understood the push behind female desire and orgasm until recent studies, and research projects came into the limelight. However, these desires vary from one female to another. Films like Fifty Shades of Grey play a huge role in switching on our erotic thoughts. Our eyes visualize it, and then our brains start forming these sensual images in our minds, and before long, you are lying on your back with your fingers between your legs. 

The Bottom Line

Masturbation has numerous mental and physical benefits, and aside from that, it allows us to explore our desires in the only way we feel works for us. In the long run, solo masturbation gives us the confidence to tell our partners what we need and how. Many women underestimate the power of indulging in solo play, terming it as a back door to pleasure. They do not know that masturbation and healthy sex walk hand in hand. There are various ways to masturbate, as outlined in this article. If you have never tried any of them, now is the time.

References

Leonard, A. (2010). An investigation of masturbation and coping style. In 38th Annual Western Pennsylvania undergraduate psychology conference.Martin‐Alguacil, N., Pfaff, D. W., Shelley, D. N., & Schober, J. M. (2008). Clitoral sexual arousal: an immunocytochemical and innervation study of the clitoris. BJU international, 101(11), 1407-1413.