THINK OUTSIDE THE BED: SEX AROUND THE HOUSE
Have you been wondering how you can spice up your sex life? Have you ever thought of having sex anywhere else apart from your bed? Here are some fun places you can have sex around the house besides your bed: The kitchen table, laundry room, against a wall, and in the closet.
The bedroom is the most obvious place where people can have sex when things get hot and intense. Next time you want to have sex, try spicing things by visiting a different location. You might be surprised by how fun it will be to have sex somewhere other than the bed. Below are some hotspots that could help you if you're looking to have sex outside the bedroom.
The Kitchen Table
Most people have seen others have sex on a kitchen table in movies. If you want to feel like a movie star, try making out on a kitchen table. This is one of a unique setting for sex that everyone should try. You can also try some dirty talking or role-playing to make things more interesting and memorable. Harris (1995) stated that dirty talking is one of the most distinguishing features of sex. Take your time with foreplay. You can sit on the edge of the table and lift your legs, allowing your partner to go down on you without straining his neck. Your partner can spread your legs and hold them while going down on you to make things more enjoyable.
Sex on the Living Room Couch
Next time you and your partner feel like having sex, try having it on your living room couch. It might sound absurd at first, especially if you are used to having sex in bed; you'd be surprised to find out how amazing it feels to have sex on the couch. You can have couch sex by lying on your right side as your partner kneels over your right leg, straddling it, and curling your left leg around his left side. This position allows you and your partner to connect better as you face each other. Another way you can enjoy sex on the couch is by having your partner sit at the edge of the couch, having your butt on his lap as you face down with your hands placed on the floor. Bend your knees on any side of his legs as he holds your thighs for maximum penetration.
In front of a Mirror
Instead of the usual bedroom sex, you can take things to your bathroom, closet, or other location with a mirror around your house. Watching yourself have sex in front of a mirror will take you to a different level of pleasure. Another advantage of having sex in front of a mirror is that it might help you figure out some complicated sex positions that you've always wanted to attempt. One of the best positions is doggy style. A mirror allows the penetrating partner to get a perfect view during doggy style. You can put the mirror to good use by turning it sideways to see the length of your body instead of just staring at your face.
Another Person's Bedroom
If you stay with someone else and you're willing to take a risk, you can consider having sex in their bedroom. The thrill of being caught will send you both over the edge, but you should be careful not to upset anyone.
The Laundry Room
The laundry room is a perfect place to get sexual, especially while standing up. The vibration of the washing machine provides much-needed stimulation. The loud noises would also come in handy because they might cover up your moans, preventing you from being caught if you have roommates.
Against A Wall
Sex against a wall is underrated. If you want to have an extraordinary sexual experience, try having it against a wall. Before you have sex against a wall, make sure there's nothing on it that could hurt you. Once you and your partner are comfortable against the wall, you can start making out or stimulating each other's sensitive body parts with your tongue and fingers. The wall is also a perfect place to serve as a surface while performing oral sex.
In the Closet
The closet is the best place to try it out if you consider role-playing. You can pretend you are at a party and both are sneaking away for a quickie, or pretend the two of you are strangers who want to have sex.
The Backyard
Backyard sex is one of the best sexual experiences you could ever have. If you have a swing set in your backyard, it would be the best spot to get naughty with your partner. You can also spread a blanket across the grass and have some memorable sex.
On the Staircase
The staircase is more equipped to handle intense sex than it looks. Try getting into a doggy position while straddling the stairs if you have doubts.
Against a Sink
If you want to have sex against a sink, one of you should brace yourselves against the sink and let the other take charge. Many couples use this to substitute shower sex since lubrication underwater is usually a struggle.
Against the Front Door
The risk of being caught having sex adds more excitement to sex. That is why having sex against the front door is perfect for couples who want to be a little naughty. The thought of having someone walk in on you while you're making love can make you both experience pleasure on a whole new level.
Conclusion
We have learned different spots around the house, apart from the bed, where couples could have sex. You should try going out of your comfort zone if you want your sex life to be enjoyable. Try finding out from your partner where they want their next sexual experience. The options are endless. Having sex in different areas around the house is a great way to break the monotony.
References
Harris, D. (1995). Dirty Talk. The Baffler, (7), 91-97.