Going Down? If it’s on a Woman, you need to read this!
Going Down? If it’s on a Woman, you need to read this!
These days, most men think they are experts at going down on women and their oral skills are second to none. Guess what, guys? You CAN use a few extra cunnilingus tips! If you want to make sure your woman is completely satisfied in bed, studying up on oral sex skills and techniques is crucial!
First of all, as a guy you are probably wondering why women would prefer cunnilingus over having your penis going in and out of her. The easiest response for this is that oral sex allows you to stimulate the clitoris directly, which is something your penis won’t be able to do. It also allows the woman to feel a lot more intimacy during the act and a lot more close to you. However, the bottom line is that cunnilingus, especially if it is done well, simply feels fantastic! Having an unsatisfied woman will never cross your mind once you can master oral sex!
One of the most important things to remember that every woman is different, which means different likes and dislikes during oral sex. One woman will like one technique, while another woman won’t like the same thing (or even detest it!). Some women will prefer it really rough, while other women will like it softer and more gentle. So how do you know what she likes? Simple….ASK HER !!! This will show her that you are actually interested in doing some she likes, not what YOU think she SHOULD like! What worked fantastically on one woman may be totally inadequate on another woman, so be prepared…your ego might take a bruising if you aren’t prepared to learn! Like the whole relationship, keeping the lines of communication open is extremely important.
Another one of the most common pieces of advice from women is the many prefer their men to take it slowly with oral sex. You should adopt the attitude that you need to take your time to get there. Most women won’t care if it took them 30, 60 or more minutes to achieve an orgasm if they are with a caring partner! One technique that works well is to use your tongue to make small circular movements starting at her navel and working your way downwards. Once around the area, you can kiss, nibble, lick or suck around her inner thigh. This is a very erogenous zone for most women, and some even report they orgasm just from this! If you want to learn some more techniques, this site offers a free 5-day e-course on some of the best techniques around! It won’t cost anything, but may result in a lot more screaming and loud moaning from your woman!
If you find going down on a woman to be hard on your neck, try propping her lower torso on a pillow. Not only does this relive your neck strain, it also allows you better access!
Some men will be uncomfortable with the smell, and this could cause a lot of tension between the two of you. While sometimes it is warranted, why not ask her to take a shower before you go down on her? To disguise the reason why you want her to have a shower, if you join her in the shower and make it a sensual experience, she won’t even realise why you asked her to take a shower. Once you do that, it will be a lot more relaxing and enjoyable for the both of you.
These are just a couple techniques that can work wonders! Remember guys, there’s always something to learn with oral sex and one of the best teachers is the woman you are with!