HOW TO MASTURBATE WITH A PILLOW (AND GET OFF)

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Masturbation is the trend of the days where most people get sexual pleasure worthy those for solo play or with a partner. Herein is about masturbating with a pillow, including; setting the mood, letting your mind wander, and gathering requirements.

Masturbation can be done by both genders, male and female, and get their sexual desires met. Sexual exercise relieves stress and excites you since, like penetrative sex, the feel-good hormones release the feel-good hormones that will make you happy, relieving the body and the mind from stress. Masturbation is also a natural way to discover your body and release the built-up sexual tension. There are various types of masturbation, including vaginal stimulation, clitoral, anal, and other erogenous parts. Most women are aware of masturbation; they practice masturbation using their fingers, sex toys, and pillows. People go about masturbation. Most people love sex toys and lying flat on their backs, like in most porn videos and movies. This is mainly because most sex toys are designed and favored by the position. You can have the sensation of masturbation using the pillow and get off. People with penises also can masturbate using pillows by folding or using two pillows to make crevices making the entire session enjoyable. Humping of the pillow is used by tones of people and can be pleasurable. You might have heard of the idea and get to wonder how this can be or similarly have ever tried, but it never got you anywhere. This article highlights how to masturbate with a pillow and get off.

How To Masturbate With a Pillow

Set the Mood

Without setting the mood, you cannot stimulate sexual arousal during masturbation or vaginal penetration sex. The mood can be set depending on the environment; make the environment of the room you want to have the game look romantic to add up to the stimulation. Frederick et al. (2017) revealed that setting the mood includes dimming the lights and using candles and music before having sex. You can level up the mood by using scented candles to make the room smell nice. In the background, have some soft cool music; instrumentals can be worn best too. The bedding can be changed; use the clean ones such as the pillowcases and the sheet since they will contact the genitals since they are sensitive and avoid infections. When you've set the mood, the environment is favorable, enhancing the relaxation of the body and mind, leading to a pleasurable moment.

Let Your Mind Wander

Letting your mind wander is another way to make the session more captivating and motivating. You should not think about work or anything not associated with sex while in the mood. You can let your mind linger about a recently hot, handsome man you met or a romantic moment you had with your boyfriend. This will help you have more stimulation, leveling up the mood. Feed your mind with the reason why you are having masturbation which is to broaden the pleasure. All these thoughts will tingle the 'girl down there and make her active as required.

Gather The Requirements

Masturbating with are pillow does not limit you to having pillows for the session alone. Döring (2021) suggested that you could incorporate other things, such as the dildo nor vibrators, or lubes when having sex. You do not want to get in the middle of the game; that is when you remember that something is missing, and you have to stop and get them. When you do that, you will be forced to start from square one to build up the sexual tension for a spicy and enjoyable pillow humping.

Explore Without Shame

You have everything set mentally and physically, and it is time to explore. Robert (2020) noted that you could play with the erogenous parts of your body, such as the nipples and the thighs, to get the sexual spark when using the pillow for humping and grinding, the pillows between your legs, and apply pressure using your body weight. You will rub the clitoris simultaneously with the vulva, stimulating it for sexual intercourse and mindblowing orgasms. According to Stoller (2018), you can use the girl boy to top style, where your nipples, thighs, and face are stimulated by whatever surfaces there, increasing orgasm' pleasure, enjoyment, and likelihood.

Know-How To Do It

Like any other sexual activity, you need to do it right. Humping Is fun, and there is the right way to hump and grind, and they include;

• Try lying down on a single pillow and start grinding away
• Make the pillow firm and elevated by rolling it up so you can explore more and get more stimulations.
• Place the pillow at the edge of the bed, and crouch as you hump and grind. You can also stand to make a direct stimulation.
• Seat on your knees and tack some of the pillows under you as you grind and alternate the motion.
• Try out underwear sex vibrators for more friction.
• Try moving from the top to the bottom by rubbing your nipples against it to increase the stimulation.

The tips mentioned earlier give you a wide range to masturbate with a pillow. You will have more pleasure if you combine all the positions. Similarly, you can explore using a vibrator and a dildo.

Conclusion

masturbation is a safe way to explore and learn about your body for better sex life. There are benefits of self-pleasure,  like any other sexual activity. For example, it is readily available for you and can be an option for those people in a long-distance relationship. Masturbations are not complicated to be practiced since you do not need to have any special equipment. You can use your fingers and masturbate with a pillow if you can not access sex toys. Masturbation can also be used as foreplay, leading to a happy ending moment with your partner. Set the mood in the room by lighting candles, freshening the air, and playing soft and romantic music. Let your mind wander about romantic things to help you arouse. Fantasizing is fun, and it boosts your sexual desires. Whatever makes you happy, go for it.

References

Döring, N. (2021). Sex toys. Encyclopedia of sexuality and gender. Cham, Switzerland: Springer.

Frederick, D. A., Lever, J., Gillespie, B. J., & Garcia, J. R. (2017). What keeps the passion alive? Sexual satisfaction is associated with sexual communication, mood setting, sexual variety, oral sex, orgasm, and sex frequency in a national US study. The Journal of Sex Research, 54(2), 186-201.

Robert, K. (2020). The Beast (Vol. 4). Trinkets and Tales LLC.

Stoller, R. J. (2018). Sexual excitement: dynamics of erotic life. Routledge.