MUTUAL MASTURBATION: 9 TIPS TO MAKE IT CRAZY HOT FOR BOTH OF YOU

It is a great feeling to masturbate with your partner. The 9 tips that can make it crazy hot for both of you include; giving hand jobs, fantasizing, and using sex toys.

People think having sex with your partners is the greatest feeling. You can try masturbating with your partner to experience a different feeling. You will connect more with them and have some fun you never thought you would experience in your sex life. You can try masturbating while they are watching or vice versa. They can also help you masturbate. Below are tips for mutual masturbation to make you crazy;

Have Dirty Talks

Whenever you are together and decide to masturbate, this will be the perfect time to have dirty talks to turn you on. It can be dirty talk but in a loving way. You can tell them what you want them to do to you and how you love it being done. Tell them how you feel when they touch you in some way so that they can do it to you. Your partner can also tell you how they like it being done to them to give them a mind-blowing orgasm. Dirty talks with your partner also help to keep you in the mood for sex.

Try Masturbating on The Phone

According to Neustaedter & Greenberg (2012), you could video call your partner if you are far from them and desire mutual masturbation. You can masturbate while your partner watches. Have some dirty talks as you both masturbate, and you will have mutual and sensational feelings.

Use Of Sex Toys

Try using different sex toys on your partner or yourself. You can ask your partner to use a specific toy you like and tell them what to do with it. Your partner can check on you and the feelings aroused by it. You can do the same thing to your partner and let them experience the pleasure you get. Both of you might end up coming at the same time. You can try using lubricants on the sex toys to avoid injury if you get some friction. According to Komisaruk & Whipple (2011), you can consider using vibrators for clitoral and penile stimulation. You can grind on a pillow while your partner watches. It enhances clitoral orgasms.

Be In Control

You can look at your partner as they masturbate. You can tell them what you like them doing and how you feel when they do it. They can try to rub their balls gently or suggestively stroke their penis. You could also switch roles. You can rub your clit or touch your breast as they watch. They may have some fun as they watch you do it. Ensure you orgasm simultaneously.

Fantasize

You can share your sexual fantasies with your partner as you masturbate. Tell them what you have always wanted to do. You can also remind them of the best time you have had sex with them. Employ your fantasies and attain orgasm as you masturbate mutually.

Watch Porn

Watch porn movies together while masturbating. You can imitate what they are doing and get to feel the same pleasure. Park et al. (2016) noted that watching porn videos makes you desire sex more and reach orgasm faster. You can also try and read erotic books or novels aloud that will turn them on. Your partner can also do the same to you, and you will have the same sensational feelings.

Take Turns

You don't have to masturbate simultaneously. You can take turns as you watch each other masturbate. Ensure you do not force it on them if your partner is not in the mood to masturbate. They can watch you do it while touching their genitals. They may get stimulated and masturbate as well. This mutual masturbation will lead to a mind-blowing orgasm.

Edging For Concurrent Synonym

It may be difficult for partners to cum at the same time. There is always that partner who achieves orgasm faster than the other. Men often cum first. Your man can edge ejaculation and wait for you to stimulate fully (Pokras, 2007). The man can help stimulate the woman's clitoris for faster ejaculation. Partners can have simultaneous ejaculation when ready. However, partners can only know they are about to cum when they pay attention to their breathing at specific times.

Give a Hand Job

You can both give a hand job. You can stroke your partner's penis or gently massage their balls. Your man can also rub your clit to stimulate you sexually. Striking and holding the penis seems normal, but it depends on how you do it. Be creative. You can use both hands to stroke the penis and sometimes use the other hand to massage their balls simultaneously. You can also use lube while giving them a hand job.

Give a Blowjob

Some men like their penis in a woman's mouth. You can lick your man's tip of the penis to arouse him. Concentrate on the ring around the head as it's filled with sensitive nerves. You can suck your man's balls and insert the whole penis into the mouth (Comfort, 2003). Vibrate your throat and tongue with the penis in your mouth. It will cause pleasurable sensations on the penis. Your man can also lick your clitoris to bring pleasurable feelings. You will cum simultaneously.

Conclusion

Some partners are afraid to masturbate in front of their significant other. Some believe their partners do not get sexual satisfaction if they masturbate. Some people masturbate because they do not want to have sex at that time or feel like it. It is right for someone to date someone who understands and can be comfortable with them. Someone who you can lay down in bed with and masturbate together without judging each other. A person who is comfortable seeing you masturbate gets turned on by the events. The pleasure you will experience will be worth it. Practice mutual masturbation with your partner to attain a simultaneous mind-blowing orgasm.

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