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How To Use A Strap-On

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How To Use A Strap-On

  • by Katie Peachesa

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✨ Key Takeaways in a Nutshell ✨

  • 🔥 Master the art of the strap with confidence!
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  • 💖 Lube is your best mate—don’t skip it!
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  • 🎭 Communication is key—chat before, during, and after.
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  • 🔄 Slow and steady wins the race—ease into it!
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  • 🎀 Keep things clean—hygiene is sexy!
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🧐 Key Advice and Tips from Our Experts 💡

💬 "If you're new to strapping, start with a harness that feels comfy—like your favourite pair of knickers! Comfort = confidence." - Expert Advice

💬 "Don’t go in dry! Water-based lube is your best pal for smooth sailing and extra pleasure." - Insider Tip

💬 "Explore different positions—it’s all about what works for you and your partner!" - Pro Recommendation

By Ksenia Sobchak

When you first purchase your Peaches and Screams strap-on dildo and harness there are few simple tips to making the experience more fun and pleasurable for both your and your sexual partner.

Make sure you have plenty of lubricant on hand, strap-on sex is more sensational and pleasurable with lubricant.

Use a waterbased lubricant or a silicone compatible lube such as LubeXXX.

Practise putting your strap-on harness and dildo on and taking it off –in front of a mirror is helpful- so you feel confident when you are in the mood and quite possibly in the dark, with your lover.

Being able to slip your strap-on on, with ease and quickly will ensure that you can make the most of the excitement without losing momentum.

Once you are strapped in, lube up your dildo and slide your dildo into your lover

Female: Strap-on for Male sexual partners

If your lover is new to strap-on play, we recommend starting out with something a little smaller than a dildo, such as a butt plug or fingers and plenty of lubricant.

Once your partner is comfortable or just down right eager for anal penetration, the time is right for strap-on exploration.

Bend him over and slide in from behind…taking your time and giving him time to relax. This allows your hands the freedom to stimulate his nipples and penis. You can start gently and build up to faster stronger pumping action depending on what he can handle.

For total intimacy, try sliding inside him as he lies on his back. Many men enjoy the feeling of surrender and this position can be arousing, emotional and orgasmic.

Female: Strap-on for Female sexual partners

Girl on girl strap-on sex is hot and sexy. You can take her on her back or from behind, vaginally or anally.

You can strap-it-on during foreplay or whip your strap-on harness on quickly mid session without missing a beat. It is quite a work out and good for improving your fitness.

If you or your lover are new to strap-on play, start slow and build up momentum. Remember to keep breathing so you don’t run out of puff.

For bigger women, sliding into your lover from behind can allow for greater penetration, grabbing her by the hips or shoulders can give you greater thrusting power

Strap-On Sex Toy Reviews

Triple Pleasure Strap-on

How To Use A Strap-On

Pink has always been my favorite color and any sex toy that’s pink and sexy is definitely a sure buy, hence the Triple Pleasure Strap-on. It is really, really sexy and fits nicely around the contours of my body. I’m sure it will also fit into any body type. (I know because my aunt has one. Haha!)

The best feature about this female sex toy is that it functions as a clitoris stimulator and an anal prober. The gecko which is made of high grade silicone hugs your clitoris and stays in place while the vibrations are sent throughout your entire genital region. I was weirded out when I first saw it, but when I put it to the test and felt how smooth and soft it was against my skin, all my negative impulses were put to an end. (I can’t believe how hard and fast I climax whenever I turn it on and play with it!) This adult novelty has three pleasure modes: escalating, vibrating and pulsating. These can be controlled via the wired control pad which is easy to use compared to other remote-controlled sex toys for females.

Moving on to the anal probe…

This butt plug is attached to the tip of the gecko which extends perfectly towards the anus for pure anal pleasure! The width is not too overbearing which makes it an ideal toy for beginners. It was actually my first time on rear end adventure when I got to try this sexy toy out.

I love the feel of the straps. They are comfortable and padded. I don’t get to worry about having scratches or anything like that.

 


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