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Sexual Positions for Strap-on Sex

Sexual Positions for Strap-on Sex

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Katie Lasson
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Sex and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
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Medical Doctor
Barbara Santini
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Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Advisor

🌟 Key Points Summary 🌟

    • 🍑 **Strap-On Delight:** Discover the thrilling world of strap-on play and unleash your creativity! 🎉

    • 🚀 **Variety of Positions:** From classic missionary to daring doggy, there's a position for everyone! 🤗

    • 💖 **Communicate & Connect:** Talk to your partner about desires and boundaries for a more pleasurable experience! 🗣️

    • 🧴 **Lube is Your Best Friend:** Never underestimate the power of lube; it makes everything smoother! 💧

  • 🔒 **Safety First:** Always choose body-safe materials and ensure proper hygiene to keep things fabulous! 🛡️

💡 Expert Tips & Tricks 💡

    • ✨ **Experiment with Angles:** Try different angles to find what feels best for both partners! 🎯

    • 🍾 **Add Some Spice:** Incorporate toys and accessories to elevate the experience! 🌶️

    • 📅 **Take Your Time:** Enjoy the journey; there's no rush, just pleasurable exploration! 🕒

  • 🎊 **Celebrate Each Other:** Focus on mutual pleasure and enjoy every delightful moment together! 🎈

By Ksenia Sobchak

A strap-on harness offers a great range of sexual positions for partner play and gives both the wearer and the receiver differing sexual positions for orgasmic penetrative play.

Most of the strap-on positions discussed here are for a traditional front sitting strap-on harness and dildo combination such as the Groover or Hipster, however many are suitable with a thigh harness as well.

We recommend plenty of lubricant for strap-on sex. This allows you to go harder for longer, reduces friction and makes strap-on sex more pleasurable. To make anal penetration more comfortable try Innuendo – a natural muscle relaxant for sensational anal penetration.

Strap On Sex Requires Fitness

Strap-on sex requires a good level of fitness, especially for the thruster and will work out your thighs, back and stomach muscles. The more stamina you have the longer you can go for.

Missionary Position

The strap-on missionary position describes a range of positions where the receptive partner is on their back and the thrusting partner is face to face with them.

By no means is the receptive partner required to be passive and by lifting their hips they can more easily grip and squeeze against the strap-on dildo. This tilting can also increase the depth for your partner to thrust deeper. The flexible receptive partner can place their feet against the shoulders of the thruster for deep and full penetration.

The receptive partner can be on the receiving end of vaginal and/or anal penetration. Either a front sitting strap-on harness or a thigh harness can offer great positions for missionary strap-on sex.

On Top, Strap-on Sex

The receptive partner on top allows the receptive person greater control over the depth angle and speed of penetration. This position can be done partners facing or receptive partner facing backwards.

The strap-on wearing, thrusting partner can fondle breasts, twist nipples, stimulate the clitoris or penis and generally get hot and horny with your lover. You can get a great rhythm going and for women receptive partners switch from vaginal to anal penetration.

Strap On Sex With Pregnancy

Side by Side Strap-on Sex

Side by side strap-on play or spooning, works well for g-spot penetration, where one partner is pregnant or both are different heights.

Each partner can get into position for greater or lesser penetration. The thrusting partner can hold the hips of the receptive for greater control. This position works well for slower more gentle thrusting movements.

Get in Behind, Rear Entry Strap-on Sex

Doggy style covers off a range of actions with the strap-on dildo coming in from behind. This can include bending your partner over the bed, grabbing their hips and sliding then thrusting from behind with them standing, pushing their head down and grabbing hair or shoulders and thrusting. This can be a great position of power play with strap on sex.

The thruster can reach around a fondle breasts, nipples, penis or clitoris during vaginal or anal penetration. The thruster can also slip in from behind with the receptive partner on their knees, this can be a good position for pregnant women. The angle can be altered to more easily achieve g-spot and or prostate stimulation.

Sitting Strap-on Sex

With the receptive partner sitting on a bench, the thruster can easily slip inside the vagina or anus of your partner. A bench such as the bathroom sink can enable the receptive partner to be tilted back and thighs wrapped around the thruster.

Alternatively the receptive partner can slide onto the strap-on dildo when the thruster is sitting on a chair. The receptive partner can ride the strap-on and get up a good rhythm and reduce the amount of effort required by the thruster.

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