READY TO HAVE SOME BONDAGE TOYS?

People who have been in a relationship for a long can disconnect and lose the spark. People try to spice their relationships and make their sex life more enjoyable by using bondage toys, including; sex pillows, handcuffs, thigh cuffs, and blindfolds.

Some people add fun into their sex life by putting more effort into exploring and making sex life in their relationship. The use of bondage toys can be the solution partners need to explore, whether single or multi-partner sex, to add some flavor. Are you ready to try some bondage toys? This article identifies and discusses some bondage toys to help spice a relationship.

Bondage Toys

Pillow

The sex pillow is a bondage toy, and partners can use it to stimulate a penis or a vagina. According to Hutcherson (2003), a woman can grind on a pillow to stimulate the vagina. It can lead to sensual stimulations and orgasm if done continuously. Sex pillows also support partners in every sex position they desire, allowing them to get the most erotic sensation.

Hund cuffs

They come in different material forms and designs to choose a favoring one. They include;

Orion Cuffs

They have a strap used on doors where it can be hung to give more options when trying to enjoy the pleasure. Kiki handcuffs are not easily identified as bondage toys because they can be worn as bracelets and sex traps. These handcuffs are favorable for beginners; they are made of soft fuzzy lining. They do not irritate the skin, and partners get pleasure during sex.

Blindfolds

Reducing vision while making love to your partner increases the sensitivity and arousal to enjoy the session. Choose a blindfold that blocks light from reaching the eyes. The concentration will be on the focus, making love, and enjoying your sex life.

Nipple Clamps

Nipple clamps are adjustable to fit the test of a partner. They are used for teasing, and increasing sensation and arousal, as Zussman & Pierce (1998) suggested. It is great for beginners because they are not complicated to use. Partners can try the best bondage toys if they want to rekindle their love and spice sexual activities.

Thigh Cuffs

Some partners use handcuffs as sexual restraints. Put the hands in the position, and attach the thigh cuffs to the hands to help the partner access the anus as it faces up, as Taormini (2012) showed. Thigh cuffs are comfortable and safe when using them. Position your partner, bend on their knees and the chest flat on the bed, pull the arms back tie the hand attached to the legs. The pillow can support the chest to avoid chest pains, and this position is best for oral stimulation and anal sex.

Bed restraint kit

A bed restrains kit comprises different bondage toys with different functions. They include a nylon arm and ankle restrainer. Also, they have the bed straps attached to the back and fix the whole thing under the mattress so the straps can easily move and enhance access. This is a BDSM bondage sex toy couples should try to experience new sexual pleasures.

Bondage Sex Positions

Box Tie

A partner can use two long ropes to tie their hands behind their back. This should be loose to avoid bruises on a partner's arms. While in that position, you can play with their most erotic positions to keep the aroused and keep them yearning for the moments you share. Caress the most sensitive parts, including the nipples and genitals. It is a way to spice a relationship, giving it the spark it had from the beginning.

Sexy Spoon

This is a sex position where the lady's arms are tied together, and a basic wrist ties while a lady sleeps on the side, as Brooks (2009) explained. The left-hand side is tied to the left leg using the same rope to give a nice spooning sex position. The body looks sexy and desirable in the same-sex position, satisfying a partner before accessing the area. This is an amazing sex position for lovers to try. remember to make the ties loose not to hurt your partner

Interrogation Chair

An interrogation chair is a sex position used where a partner sits on the chair, and the arms are tied behind the chair and the legs attached to it. It is more of a submissive one that you can use to make your partner give you attention. Put the back chair against the wall for stability to avoid accidents during the love-making session.

Reverse Chair

The reverse chair sex position is the opposite of the interrogation chair sex position, where a partner faces the backside of the chair with the booty closed to the edge of the chair and the wrists tied behind her back. Put it against the wall or bed to stop the chair from tripling; Ensure the chair used has no arms. This position is good for anal stimulation.

The Yogi

This is another stimulating and pleasurable sex position entailing the bondage toys. Partners need the bed restraining kit to spice it and add the blindfold. Your partner lays on the bed, the hands gently tied on the side of the bed, and the legs using the thigh straps raised somehow higher but where they are comfortable. The position is good for everything, like the oral stimulation, because it makes a partner sexy and vulnerable.

Conclusion

Sex is not only about penetration, but it has advanced by using different bondage toys, spicing people's love life, and making the relationship have the spark that had vanished from their relationship. There are different ways you can spice up your relationship by giving a trial to the use of the bondage toys. Some are beginner-friendly, and others are advanced; everyone is catered to. Remember that before giving a try to any toys, get advice from the people experienced in using them. It is advisable to read the manual and follow the instructions to avoid damages that might come with using the bondages. Those that use the electricity should not be carelessly used because they have different voltages; hence be careful while purchasing one to keep yourselves safe. Bondage toys change the domination and submission of the bedroom game but initiate powerful emotions and feelings that make you as partners sexually bond and strengthen the relationship.

References

Brooks, G. A. (2009). Dirty, Sexy, Vanity: An Examination Of The Power Of Condé Nast In Shaping Public Opinion. Georgetown University.

Hutcherson, H. (2003). What Your Mother Never Told You About Sex. Penguin.

Taormino, T. (2012). 50 Shades Of Kink: An Introduction To BDSM. Cleis Press.

Zussman, M., & Pierce, A. (1998). Shifts Of Consciousness In Consensual S/M, Bondage, And Fetish Play. Anthropology Of Consciousness, 9(4), 15-38.