BDSM Restraints 101 – Hogtied And Happy For Beginners

Bondage restraints are the top three kinks of BDSM. You may like all the restraints, but stressful restraints can leave us with injuries and even cause bleeding.

Why Do People Love Bondage Restraints?

Redirecting Power  

BDSM restraints such as cuffs, balls, ropes, nipple clamps, blindfolds, floggers, and collars have stronger redirecting power. You can give or gain power over another person for many different reasons. For instance, you may be weak or have little power in your daily life. Sometimes, you can be in control and hold your partner strongly, leaving them begging for mercy.

Being Free From Guilt

Guilt is mostly associated with different sexual acts and sexuality. You may feel helpless or not responsible for what happens to you when tied up.

Security

Submissive partners may feel more secure when bound.

Erotic Effects            

Erotic effects are the prettiest and most obvious among those who love bondage restraints.

Meditation and Relaxation

Some BDSM restraints leave people immobile. This way, you remain lying with your thoughts only or even slip into a meditative state, making the submissive stress free.

Aesthetic Purposes

Bondage looks pretty, especially when tying the knot the Japanese way.

Replaying or Escape

Play and have fun with BDSM restraints, especially on a mini-vacation. People love bondage restraints since they are fun and give mind-blowing experiences.

Tactile Sensations    

When some materials are placed on the skin, they leave a wonderful effect. Bondage restraints give nice sensations. Therefore, some people love experimenting and appreciating the instruments for the nice feeling.

Types of Restraints

Ropes and handcuffs are the common BDSM restraints, though they are not perfect. The best restraints include armbinders, gags, bondage belts, hoods, tapes, cock rings, diapers, sleep sacks, and shackles.

These restraints are available in different materials such as plastics, leather, canvas, silk, velcro, padding, rubber, and metal. Each material has its pros and cons.

How to Choose Bondage Restraints  

The type of bondage you choose greatly depends on the type of play you are seeking to try and your level of experience. Beginners need to be well educated on the anatomy of pressure joints and points.

Restrictions, Challenges, and Games

There are voluminous things that you can use in your play. Tying someone up does not necessarily need restrained intercourse.

Use blindfolds to experience the lightest form of bondage play. Your movements will be limited since your eyes are closed. However, other sensations increase when one is taken away.

Wearing a ball gag or dental equipment as you recite a poem can make you cringe or laugh. This creates fun moments while experimenting and exploring bondage restraints.

Tapping up your partner's curves is another fun play. To avoid injuries, you can also tap the thighs and upper arms but not the ankles, elbows, and knees.

Roaming with a chastity belt under your clothes in a public place creates more fun. Ensure that your partner is paying attention to you. Try a dirty little talk, and it will be much more erotic.

Safety    

To make sure you are safe from injuries and harm, consider the following tips:

Start With Basics

Beginners in bondage restraints and plays should communicate with their partners before experimenting. This will help in avoiding unnecessary pain and injuries.

Be Safe, Sane, and Consensual

Besides being safe, sane, and consensual, you should also be sober. Don't participate in bondage games when drunk.

Bottom Line

BDSM play can be harmful. Therefore, you should be responsible and be in the right state of mind when playing. Bondage restraints are fun and interesting. Therefore, you should consider trying them out. Ensure you are comfortable with the restraints to have the best experience