12 Extreme Sex Practices

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Do you know there are more different sex practices than what you know? Herein are some of the practices; pegging, double penetration, dominance and submission, fisting, fluids, pup play, Vora, sex parties, electrifying sex.

Extreme sex is not what everybody thinks it is. What you think is extreme might not be extreme for other people. If people can think of it, get turned on, and find a way to satisfy themselves. What you consider just another day at the office might be extreme for others. The weird and extreme sex practices will create themselves continuously. If everyone is having fun, it doesn't matter how extreme it is. They get labeled by people whether to further or identify with it. You aren't the one to judge as long as you can do it. Here is a few extreme sex act you may be curious about;

Pegging

Wassersug et al. (2017) explained that men enjoy prostate massage's pleasure and benefits, specifically when shared with a partner. Men enjoy this massage because they know its importance to their health. The top list of women's fantasies is to play dominant. Playing dominant being up there at the top. Domination is not always topping; try strapping on so you can strap into some intense sex. Li et al. (2019) explained that when a man is pegged, it leads to greater sexual satisfaction and orgasm. Pegging works with male prostate pleasure, which happens to be male G-spot. Switching gender roles, a woman, wearing a penis, and playing with power can all be a turn-on for a man. Trying a new sex position can be good for your relationship.

Double Penetration

It doesn't always mean more than one partner or more than one person. It can be through masturbation and vibrators. Some toys work as a double as it's a two-in-one. If a person fantasizes anal penetration and vaginal, they can try sex toys. Toys used anally should have a base to prevent getting lost within you. Makes sure to clean it thoroughly and cover it with a condom to prevent bacteria to your vagina. Have a chat with your partner about what you want to happen in the sexual experience, which hole will be penetrated, what lube will be used, and what sex position you want to try. It's enjoyable if you know what you want.

Dominance And Submission

In this case, a dominant partner controls the whole scene while the other person submits to this control. Most partners drop the act after having the pleasure. However, other couples choose to bring the act to their daily lives. Every relationship looks different, but it doesn't mean receiving spanking throughout the day. Means some fun daily like sexting and challenges.

Fisting

It's an actual thing people do, counts as extreme, and it's believed to be commonly in lesbian couples. It can be a really enjoyable and intimate sexual act if done properly. Pay attention to hygiene, use lubricant, leisurely speed, and physical and mental foreplay. It's a delicate art you must be careful with; although it's risky when done wrong, it provides mind-blowing pleasure.

Vorarephilia

Lykins & Cantor (2014) stated that it is also known as vore; it's an erotic desire to be consumed whole. It's not physically possible to take this to your test run. Most vore is represented in video games, pictures, fantasy stories, and sophisticated animations that will impress those who wish to stay swallowed. It's like a goat being swallowed by a boa constrictor.

Sex Parties

At these parties, everyone has made it their goal to look sexy. Race (2015) explained that the best thing about these sex parties is that all levels of participation are always going on. You do as little as you like, whether playing with the partner you arrived with or diving in headfirst. What about having an orgasm with your partner while people are watching if you're an attention person, of course. Most people who attend the parties are looking for mind-blowing experiences. They all share a similar mentality that you must enjoy life. You need to bring lingerie because you don't know how you'll feel when you get there. You can also bring an open mind.

Figging

The actual figs are involved in a sex act. It's not for the fainted heart. An actual fig or ginger root is inserted in a person's butt. A butt plug is carved from the ginger root, inserted so that wearer will feel a tingle sensation that leads to amazing pleasure.

Electrifying Sex

Some people like an extra danger, and they get it through electro-stimulation. Electro-sex extreme focuses on painful electricity current. Its mainstream is the use of toys designed with like ten units you get for physiotherapy. Always read the instructions and warnings of your toy. Whichever way you like to play to get the pleasure.

Fluids

They are common fantasies for many folks, from spit, sweat, and vomit, to semen. It's important to differentiate that just because someone has a fantasy about something doesn't mean they desire it in real life. They are a fascinating source of sexual arousal. This kinky has a strong audience, and these liquids represent the physical manifestation of pleasure. The body represents its thought.

Breath-Play

It is a contentious side of BDSM play. The fetish itself will take your breath away. It requires a restriction on one's oxygen access to heighten their pleasure. It can be archived in many ways, from smothering to using a gas mask to wearing a corset. This play poses many risks; you shouldn't do it unless it's executed safely.

Pup Play

Although it is a fetish, it has nothing to do with bestiality. It has everything to do with the power dynamic between learning and growth. It's part of the dominance and submission category. It's not for everyone and works for those who need liberation from everyday reality; entering a new space takes doggy style to a new level.

Sounding

It is a medical sound used to keep the urinary open in individuals who have to enlarge the prostate. Anything that exists as a medical procedure can be a fetish. Maybe blame it on sex doctors. It's a highly sensitive part of the body, combined with the need for sterile instruments and extreme care as extreme sex practice is on the list.

Conclusion

Extreme sex practices are a debated topic with many opposing and supporting. Since not everyone is a kinky person, one should choose what works for them, whether extreme or soft. Those who enjoy the extreme ways should be cautious since some practices are risky, and you can get hurt. Keep exploring and have the best pleasurable moment.

References

Li, D. H., Remble, T. A., Macapagal, K., & Mustanski, B. (2019). Stigma on the streets, dissatisfaction in the sheets: Is minority stress associated with decreased sexual functioning among young men who have sex with men?. The journal of sexual medicine, 16(2), 267-277.

Lykins, A. D., & Cantor, J. M. (2014). Vorarephilia: A case study in masochism and erotic consumption. Archives of sexual behavior, 43(1), 181-186.

Race, K. (2015). ‘Party and Play’: Online hook-up devices and the emergence of PNP practices among gay men. Sexualities, 18(3), 253-275.

Wassersug, R. J., Westle, A., & Dowsett, G. W. (2017). Men's sexual and relational adaptations to erectile dysfunction after prostate cancer treatment. International Journal of Sexual Health, 29(1), 69-79.