TONGUE-TIED: 6 GENUINELY INTERESTING KINKY THINGS TO TRY

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What are some of the kinky staffs that one should try during sexual intercourse? How effective are such kinkiest during arousal and sexual intercourse? This article explains some of the six genuinely interesting kinky things that an individual can try out.

Sex is always in constant motion, just like our lives. Essentially, no one sex position or sex toy will give you all the satisfaction you need. If you want to lead a fulfilling sex life, there are certain kinks you ought to try regardless if you have a partner or not. For folks looking to boost their sex lives, the article below will equip you with the various interesting kinks there are for you to try.

Most people believe that certain kinks are better off spoken about in hushed tones because bedroom matters should remain to be bedroom matters. However, thanks to the mainstream media, topics to do with various kinks have become more popular. Individuals should note that kinky pays homage to various sex activities outside or within the BDSM bracket. 

Interesting Kinks To Try

Thumb-Tying Bondage

Whenever the term bondage is mentioned in a room full of people, most people's minds swim to using cuffs to restrain hand movement. Thumb-tying has been around the block for quite a long time now, with many people openly letting it be known that it is their preferred mode of bondage. Thumb-tying is similar to cuffing someone's wrists. The only difference is that one method focuses on the thumbs while the other focuses on the wrists. This type of kink is a cult favorite because it brings a feeling of emotional complexity and the ability to distinguish between an unpleasant and pleasant feeling. Most often, the emotional complexity is brought out by the handcuffs. At one time, the wearer of the cuffs may feel like they can break free from the cuffs, and for them to break free, they have to restrain their minds from breaking free from the cuffs.

Mindfold

According to Lam et al. (2020), a Mindfold is a relaxing mask designed from high-density padding. The most interesting feature of this mask is that it allows you to experience total darkness regardless of the time of day. A Mindfold has many uses, making it a favorite tool in various kink activities. Such activities include;

• Meditation
• Airplane travel
• Massage therapy
• Blindfold for games
• Sleep mask etc.

However, among kink lovers, blindfolds can be replaced with a Mindfold. A blindfold and a Mindfold are similar tools; the only difference is that with a Mindfold, you have the freedom to keep your eyes open or closed. If you keep your eyes open, you will be blind to your surroundings but very aware of your body. 

Toe Wax

There is something about temperature play that gives most people an adrenaline rush. For most people, especially that neck-deep into the kink world, temperature play is the ultimate form of pleasure. The most common form of wax play is pouring hot wax on the back, stomach, or bum of the submissive. According to Schori et al. (2019), this method of wax play is extremely popular that it has also been featured in some films such as Fifty Shades of Grey. Body waxing aside, toe waxing is also a thing in the kink community because it has a devious yet sexy thrill. You can ask your partner to sit and pour hot wax on their toes.

Tongue-Tying

There is tongue-tying out of every kink, which is less talked about. However, this does not mean it is down on the to-do kink list. All you have to do for tongue-tying is tie a string around your partner's tongue while making sure that it is long enough for you to hold with ease, more like having a leash. The restraints on the tongue allow the dominant to control the sub while the sub also focuses on what their tongue is doing and where they are being led. Most people feel like this type of kink needs to be scrapped off the kink book because the submissive may feel that their dominant partner is being abusive. However, this is not the case because, with any kink activity, there has to be a dialogue between both parties. 

Leash On A Cock Ring

Spitz (2018) stated that a cock ring is used to improve and maintain the strength of an erection, and most standard cock rings do not have the leash feature. Worry not, though, because the cock rings with a leash are specifically designed for kink activities. You may use this kink tool on any gender, but most often, it works great on men because they have a penis. To get the most out of the leash on a cock ring, put the leash on him and ensure that his penis is in a flaccid state. You can try to give him a light hand job to get things started. Once they are erect or slightly erect, you can hold the leash and lead your partner to whichever place you feel is right.

Nipple Clamps And Vibrator

Gomes & Lu (2017) explained that nipple clamps and vibrators have been around the block because of their versatility. However, most times, they are used separately but simultaneously. If you have never tried this bad combo, then now is the time to purchase your nipple and vibrator toy for a mind-blowing kink session. The power of nipple clamps lies in how gentle you can be with the clamps. It would be best if you did not rush to clamp the nipple without a thought to it. The session is intended to be sensual. Therefore strive to be malicious about it. Once you clamp the nipples, pass the vibrator through them and watch your partner squirm with pleasure. You can also try the nipple clamps on the bum, clamp the meatier pieces of the bum, and then use the vibrator to stimulate the nipples. 

Conclusion 

Kink is an umbrella term for any sexual activity that is considered weird, and most often, it raises eyebrows when mentioned in a room full of people, which is the reason why most people keep mum when the topic of kink activities comes up because they harbor extreme kink thoughts that most people may find weird. However, no one should be made to feel weird due to their kink preferences, and as outlined above, there are many kink activities that most people subscribe to, the extreme and the mild. The kinks above are what you need to start for kink lovers looking to dip their toes into the wide pool of kink activities.

References

Gomes, L. M., & Wu, R. (2017, December). Neurodildo: A mind-controlled sex toy with e-stim feedback for people with disabilities. In International Conference on Love and Sex with Robots (pp. 65-82). Springer, Cham.

Lam, B. L., Mendoza-Santiestaban, C., Gonzalez, A., Rowaan, C., Liu, M., Martin, J., ... & Parel, J. M. (2020). Electroretinogram Recording for Infants and Children under Anesthesia to Achieve Optimal Dark Adaptation and International Standards. JoVE (Journal of Visualized Experiments), (163), e61734.

Schori, A., Jackowski, C., & Schön, C. A. (2021). How safe is BDSM? A literature review on fatal outcomes in BDSM play. International journal of legal medicine, 1-9.Spitz, A. (2018). The Penis Book: A Doctor's Complete Guide to the Penis—From Size to Function and Everything in Between. Rodale.