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3 PUSSY EATING MISTAKES YOU’RE PROBABLY MAKING

3 PUSSY EATING MISTAKES YOU’RE PROBABLY MAKING

Oral sex involves more than just licking the clit. Some of the pussy eating mistakes you probably are making include; going straight to her clit, being quiet while eating her out, and turning her on. 

One of the mistakes that you probably have is thinking that oral sex is just licking the clit, and you are done. Well, this is never the case. Pussy eating involves more than licking the pussy. It may sound simple, but it becomes difficult when you try, and you end up abandoning the whole mission. You may think that you have done your best when eating your partner out and even think that you satisfied her, but in the real sense, she was faking the orgasm or the feelings that she gave out. To be perfect, you need to pay a lot of attention when having oral sex to avoid stupid mistakes. Some of the mistakes that you can probably make include;

Going Straight to and for the Clit

Most times, you have heard that when planning for oral sex, the best thing is to go straight for the clit and lick it. It can or cannot be true. The best thing is to do this at the end of the sexual activity. If you go straight for the clit without arousing her first, you will overstimulate your partner, and they may end up not loving the moment. According to Kreuter et al. (2011), foreplay makes one relax and enjoy sex. The whole process should be enjoyed and not rushed. Going straight for the clit will probably arouse her, but you may rush the sexual activity. 

The best way to make your partner enjoy the whole pussy eating activity is by starting with licking her on any part of the body. Kiss the lips of the vagina and make your partner excited and eager about what you are planning to do next. Let her be anxious as you fuel her so that the most sensitive part is stimulated. Spread open the lips of the vagina and start licking the inner labia. Lick any part next to the clit but do not touch the clitoris. This will make them excited as they wait for you to start licking the clitoris. Once you feel like they have become receptive and aroused, you can lick their clitoris.

You can play the tease and deny game by licking the clitoris and then stopping before going back to lick it. This will make her enjoy the moment and also prolong the whole activity. When you take some time for them to be aroused, you allow them to get pleasured, and they may have a great orgasm and maybe even multiple. Let them feel like their pussy is loved by licking them all over, and they are guaranteed to appreciate you.

Not Touching Your Partner

Most guys keep their hands off their partner while eating her out. Their mouth may be on the game, but they are not touching their partner. This can turn off their partner. The great thing will be to involve their hands in the game just as they do with their mouth. Do not rest them on your partner's legs. The feeling of being touched by your significant other is always awesome. Start by holding on to their hips and pulling them closer to have them feel like they are being desired and wanted. Let them feel like they are being held firmly by their partner. You can also try and grab the breast or rub your fingers against the nipples. Finger her vagina as you are also eating her out. 

Try and stimulate her G-spot through fingering. Continue rubbing and massaging the G-spot so that they may get stimulated. There is always that pleasure that one feels when they are touched. Make sure that you do something with your hand that can make them feel stimulated. Your mouth can be the game changer but make sure they get to feel your touch. 

Being Silent

Having some talk while eating your partner out can be difficult.  This is because the tongue, or rather the mouth, is busy. The last thing that will cross your mind is if you should be talking while eating your partner out. Well, you can, and you should try it.

Getting to hear your partner getting hot and talking dirty on you as they eat you out is one of the best things you will ever feel. It shows that you are really into the game and enthusiastic about eating her out. Harris (1995) stated that dirty talking is one of the most distinguishing features of sex. Have some naughty talks with them and get to see how turned on they are. The dirty talks should be about how great they taste and how great you feel when you go down on them. You should not be doing this just because you expect them to return the favor. It should be because you want to give them some pleasure.

At times, some women are very self-conscious about their vaginas. They do not love it when people go down on them because they are unsure if they will enjoy the experience. When going down on them, you can try and assure them how great you feel when giving them head, and she may even get rid of the thoughts that make her not like oral sex. However, make sure not to talk when you feel she is about to achieve her orgasm. Continue with the stimulation until she reaches her climax. This will make her have a strong orgasm.

Conclusion

There is never a perfect way to eat your partner out, and you will never be a pro at it. You will always get nervous when you are about to do it the next time. The great thing is to know what you need to do to make them feel loved and pleasured and what you need not do. This article will help you know what you need to avoid to make your partner feel great and crave the activity and time you want to have some fun in the bedroom.

References

Kreuter, M., Taft, C., Siösteen, A., & Biering-Sørensen, F. (2011). Women's sexual functioning and sex life after spinal cord injury. Spinal cord49(1), 154-160.

Harris, D. (1995). Dirty Talk. The Baffler, (7), 91-97.

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