6 TYPES OF ORGASM- HOW TO HAVE THEM ALL

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To ensure that you’re enjoying the best orgasm of your life, it’s helpful to understand how orgasms work and what they feel like, and even how to have multiple types of orgasms in one session. 

Anyone who’s ever had an orgasm knows the feeling well- it’s hard to describe, but I guess you could say that it’s a full-body experience; there are no other words to describe this type of pleasure in my opinion. Some people think that all orgasms are the same, but here are six different types of orgasms. Which type do you prefer? Find out in this article!

Clitoral Orgasms

Although they may seem simpler than other types, Scully & Bart (2003) commented that clitoral orgasms are still extremely fun, simple, and powerful. Whether it’s via your partner or a device like a vibrator, there are plenty of ways to get yourself off using just your clit. Start with some heavy petting in different spots on your vulva, then try these tricks: Stimulate yourself by sucking (yes — sucking) on your nipples; rub one or two against your partner's thigh while you're grinding against them (or vice versa); stick something in between two fingers (think cucumber or an anal toy) while rubbing a certain part of your vulva.

According to Hajare (2019), the clit has over 8000 nerve endings which is why it is the number one option to go for when an orgasm is in mind. It might be an easy ride for some, but some need a helping hand by using toys. Some might even take longer to have an orgasm than others, but generally, the clit is the most famous and favorite option for an easier orgasm.

Vaginal Orgasms

This is another famous and favorite orgasm. This orgasm can be easily achieved when the G-spot particularly is stimulated. This spot is located about 2 inches inside the front vaginal wall when this area is stimulated: it might usually include a pulsation of the arm on the vaginal wall.  These are one of many orgasms that women experience during sex.  The first step in getting a vaginal orgasm is learning how to stimulate your G-Spot correctly. The G-Spot isn’t always easy to find, but once you do you will know because there will be an intense feeling of pleasure like nothing else you have ever felt before. To stimulate your G-Spot, you need to make sure that your partner has some sort of lubricant ready as well as their fingers at hand. You can then angle the fingers or penis towards the belly button and make a rubbing movement to stimulate the G-spot.

Nipple Orgasm

Another way to orgasm during intercourse is by stimulating your nipples. Take a bit of time to get him familiar with playing with them and what turns you on, then get naked and head into bed. Touch each other with open palms as he massages your breasts and tugs at your nipples. Tell him when he’s getting it right because you’ll want him doing it again!  If he can stimulate them while they’re still covered by clothing before you undress, that's even better. The anticipation will get both of you even more in sync once everything comes off. Men are always looking for new ways to please their partners so if you have another way that works for both of you, feel free to share it!

Stimulating a less intense erogenous part like the nipple or neck can result in this type of orgasm. Many people have compared this type of orgasm with other orgasms and have confessed that it feels more full-bodied than others. This is one to try!

Anal Orgasms

Here is an orgasm that is perfect for both men and women. Anal orgasm is a type of orgasm that can be experienced when there is stimulation in the P-spot, although this type of orgasm might be less common among women: many do report an immense pleasure and arousal from it. You can easily achieve this type of orgasm by rubbing the outer surface or gently inserting a lubricated finger inside the anus. For those that are accustomed to toys, you can vibrate the outer layer or insert an anal toy to stimulate your sensitive areas. An anal orgasm might be a little different from other orgasms because, as Messelink et al. (2005) argued, the muscle contractions are usually felt in the anal sphincter rather than the vaginal area.

Double Penetration (Anal/Vaginal) Orgasm

Double penetration is a sex act in which two penises (or dildos) are inserted into a woman's vagina or anus at once. Though some men find that feeling an orgasm with two objects inside them is too intense, it’s certainly possible with practice. Double penetration sex toys can make vaginal or anal penetration even more pleasurable when used in conjunction with another penis during sex. If you want to try double penetration but are nervous about putting something larger than your partner’s penis in your anus, start by using a finger and a small toy—maybe one that vibrates—during solo masturbation sessions so you can get used to having something larger inside you before having intercourse.

This more intensive orgasm is a favorite among many, to achieve this kind of orgasm- you can try having simultaneous or opposite rhythms of penetration. You can even alternate clitoral or vaginal orgasm for a more full-body trembling orgasm.

Sleep Orgasm

Your body knows that sleep is a good time for recovery and growth, and a great time to give you pleasure too. Sleep orgasm has been described as an energy orgasm but some people also feel waves of relaxation during these nocturnal orgasms. According to Schenck et al. (2007), around half of women experience sleep orgasms at least once a month; about 30% experience them two or three times a week; 10% more than three times a week. These orgasms can be so strong that it wakes you up.  While most sleep orgasms happen when both partners are asleep, they can also occur when one partner is awake and focused on pleasuring their sleeping lover with their hands or mouth (oral sex). 

Conclusion

You can experience them all or just a few, these orgasms are a must experience. Although there is no real hierarchy or orgasms, your mind try to reach them all and get to know your favorite. No matter what kind of pleasure you're seeking, whether it's alone or with your partner, learning how to enjoy each type of orgasm will give you an incredible sense of empowerment. Knowing how to make yourself feel good is something that we don't always get taught growing up but that's where we come in! If one type doesn't work for you then another might - so keep experimenting until something feels right!

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