CRAB SEX POSTION

The crab sex position may not be familiar but remains one of the sex styles that brings enjoyment to the bedroom. This is because of the different sensations that one gets to feel. This article discusses what crab sex position is, the considerations one should take when engaging in the crab sex position, and what every gender plays in the position.

Different sex styles have been introduced in our sexual life. Most of these sex styles are meant to eliminate boredom in the bedroom and spice up the sexual life. This is why most people have started trying out different sex styles like the crab sex position. Thus, the position requires both parties to participate, but the woman is the most active. The man guides the lady by penetrating through the vagina, and the woman's main work is to ensure that they do not hurt the man's penis. It requires both of them to be flexible. The woman should be flexible in their thrusts, while the man should ensure that their penis is flexible enough. This article discusses a lot about what the crab sex position entails.

What Is the Crab Sex Position?

The crab sex position is the same as the cowgirl position. The only difference is the position that the woman faces. It demands that the man lies on their back while the woman is on top. The woman aligns their vagina with the penis, sits upright on their man, and then leans backward. They should support themselves with their hands stretched out behind them for support.

The man is supposed to keep their legs together. According to Lanciotti et al. (2018), the crab sex position allows the man's penis to cause stimulation, especially on the upper part of the vagina. The sensational feelings received are far better than those received from the cowgirl sex position.

Some people advocate that the best way to enjoy crab sex is if their partner has a flexible penis. Halberstam (2012) noted that a flexible penis is because the woman will be seated in a position that may slightly bend the penis backward. This means a woman should be in a position to avoid causing any harm to the penis of her partner. They should not go ahead with the sex position if the latter has any issues or doubts concerning the flexibility of their penis.

What Does the Man Do In the Crab Sex Positions?

The man leans in the back, ensuring they talk about their feelings. They need to communicate if they feel any pressure exerted on their penis. While they are comfortable, a woman can grind on the penis. A woman enjoys the different sensational feelings from grinding as the man feels the deeper penetration. The man can try to thrust into a woman while in the same position. The man can also grab on the women's hips and help them or move along with the rhythm of the thrusts as they grind and rotate against them. This causes different stimulations leading to mind-blowing orgasms.

What Does the Lady Do In the Crab Sex Position?

Shaka et al. (2012) stated that in the crab sex position, the woman is supposed to be in a position where they lean on their back while supporting themselves with their hands placed behind them. The woman is the one who is supposed to make sure that they are in the right position as they may pose a risk to her partner, especially if the penis of their partner is overstrained.

The woman can communicate with their man and ask them to guide them in getting the dick to penetrate the vagina. This way, they are in a position not to injure them during penetration. Once the woman is in a comfortable crab sex position, they can use their hands or arms to bring their body up and down, especially during thrusting. Women can get pleasure by thrusting their hips backward and forwards or grinding while rotating them. However, try not to do this quickly or forcefully not to harm your partner or yourself. 

Who Should Be the Active Party When Engaging In the Crab Sex Position

It is believed both parties should be active when engaging in sexual activities; this sexual position would demand otherwise. The man will be active, but most of the work is done by the woman. This is because the most vital role of the man in the crab sex position is to talk about the feelings they are getting and if they are uncomfortable in any way. On the other hand, the woman will have to lean backward and start to thrust on their partner as they grind and rotate against their body.

Considerations To Have When Engaging In Crab Sex Position

• Halt the whole sex position if both partners feel pain while thrusting. It should be about getting pleasure and enjoyment through the sensational feeling. According to Gardner (2011), you could ensure that you are in a comfortable position when engaging in a crab sex position. Your partner should also not feel any pain.
• The pleasure is not only when thrusting the penis but through the rotation and grinding of the hips. This can be done when the woman is on top of the man. The great thing about the rotation and grinding of the hips is that it may stimulate clitoral stimulation.
• Ensure to communicate with your significant other and have them control the way you lean through their legs. This will bring support, and the whole position will be comfortable.

Conclusion

Women mostly prefer this sex position because they have complete control over the men and their feelings. This means that they dominate when they get into the crab sex position. This is evident when they have to be in a position that should make their partner's penis flexible enough to bend in the direction they are leaning on. They may cause harm to the partner's penis if not. They also prefer it because they get g-spot stimulation as the penis gets thrust mostly on the upper wall of the clitoris. This means that they both get to have clitoral and g-spot stimulation. However, once you feel like the crab sex style is too much, you can always focus on another that will suit your needs. Communication while having sex is vital since it helps partners learn their sexual desires, enhancing bonding in sex life. Let your partner communicate when in pain and enjoying to know what to do to please them more. 

References

Gardner, C. J. (2011). Making Chastity Sexy: The Rhetoric Of Evangelical Abstinence Campaigns. Univ Of California Press.

Halberstam, J. J. (2012). Gaga Feminism: Sex, Gender, And The End Of Normal (Vol. 7). Beacon Press.

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Shaka, F. O., & Ola, U. (2012). Gender Representation In Nollywood Video Film Culture. The Crab: Journal Of Theatre And Media Arts, 7, 1-30.