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PLEASURE IN PAIN: TRY A SPANKING PADDLE!

PLEASURE IN PAIN: TRY A SPANKING PADDLE!

PLEASURE IN PAIN: TRY A SPANKING PADDLE!

A spanking paddle is used during submissive sex plays for discipline, pleasure, and pain. It is designed to give a sharp stinging pain on the thighs or the butt. It produces intense stimulation and creates a powerful dynamic where one partner controls the other. There are various types of paddles, including leather, wood, silicone, and glass, depending on the levels of impact. Here are tips to consider when introducing spanking paddles to your bedroom. Here are some tips to guide you to a pleasurable experience with a spanking paddle:

Who Spanks?

There is a difference between spanking and slapping. Spanking requires skills and does not include getting a licensed therapist. It is mostly done by incredibly skilled sex workers who specialize in BDSM. Some specialize in spanking, while others do full-service work. A session with a sex worker will cost you a good amount of money. This means you have to budget for it. If you can’t afford it, try the social media platform. However, be careful since you might come across some creeps. 

What is Interesting About Spanking

Most people believe that spanking is all about punishment and pain. However, it is incredibly erotic and powerful when done consensually and well-controlled. When you feel stressed, spanking can be a great therapy to awaken you and show you the joys of life. This is what makes it more interesting. It has various positive effects, including trauma processing and pleasure. 

How To Spank

Spanking is mainly done on the butt cheeks. They are usually fleshy, making it more pleasurable. Fantasize with the cheeks and think of them being split into quadrants. The lower and innermost quadrant is the most sensitive part, and the spanker should aim for this part for a great response. Both partners should warm up to incredible sensations. Also, beginners are advised to use their hands. Invest in paddles as you become more advanced for a different sensation. Let the spanker get into a rhythm with varying speeds. If you and your partner are not skilled, hire a sex worker who specializes in spanking to teach you. 

Have a Pre-Spanking Talk

Communication is important when it comes to BDSM. Discuss what you want to experience and know how your fantasies play out. You can also decide to include a safe word. The more you talk about your desires, the more you can let loose and enjoy spanking. This is a way to get closer to your partner. 

Spanking is sexy when done right. Trying out different spanking versions is a thrilling way to explore your sexuality. Find the kink that works best for you. Being completely open to exploring BDSM will help you know the parts of your partner’s sexuality that they are not even aware of. 

Where Should You Spank?

The best place to spank is the butt and the thighs. Avoid the spine and other vital organs. You can also spank the vagina and breasts if you have your partner’s consent but be careful in these areas. Pay attention to her body when spanking. Turn her on and give her some good spanking. You can pleasure and spank her simultaneously. Your girlfriend will love the sensations that arise from pleasure and pain.

Choose the Best BDSM Paddles

Here are some of the best paddles to try out;

Scarlet Couture Spank Me Paddle

This is a great beginner paddle that is easy to clean since its material is vegan leather. This paddle is easy to control, and most interestingly, it has enough sting. The paddle has textured and smooth sides, with each side providing a different feeling. It has a red rope connected to the paddle that is perfect for tying up your girl. 

The Fur-Lined Paddle

The most interesting part about this paddle is that it has two sides. One side has a hard texture, while the other has a soft fur. When alternating the two sides, it offers her a chance to experience two unique sensations. Stroke her body and give her some spanks using the fur-lined side. Before the real punishment, tease her a little bit. When she’s ready for serious spanking, flip to the leather side. This side has a whack that has some sting and is loud. 

Thwack Paddle

This paddle is thick and rigid, making it good for spanking with just a flick of the wrist. It is great for beginners and pros. The most interesting part about this paddle is that it produces intense sensations with low effort. This is a great paddle to use while giving your naughty girlfriend the punishment she deserves. Thwack paddle is made from pure silicone, thus making it easy to clean and long-lasting. It produces a wonderful and amazing red-hot bum. 

The Bottom Line

It is your preference on how hard you use your paddle but be careful not to contact the sensitive parts of the skin to avoid hurting your partner. Hitting areas such as the neck, spine, and ribs causes fatal injuries. Always keep the paddles flat. The spanker should start slowly and communicate the force to be used. Beginners should go for paddles made of silicone, carbon fibers, or faux leather before investing in harsher materials. Spanking paddles range from safe paddles for beginners to more advanced for pros.

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