LADIES WHO LIKE BEING IN CHARGE: EXPLAINING FEMDOM

The kink community is home to many sexual acts and ideas. The domination field is an umbrella term that includes all acts of humiliation, degradation, and pain. Are you a lady who likes being in charge? Below is everything you need to know about femdom, including the acts involved.

Femdom stands for female domination or dominatrix. It is a consensual activity spearheaded by the femme partner in the relationship. Femdom is a preferred method of dominance because women are viewed as more loving and affectionate than typical male domination. There is a lot that involves femdom relationships and how it works. This article gives the nitty-gritty of femdom and all there is to it.

All You Need To Know About Femdom

There is no right answer to why some people may prefer female-led relationships, but there are many theories that may offer a mild explanation for this phenomenon. Such theories may include;

• Femdom gives a chance to two mature people to have a raw bond. The dominant person, the male, recognizes her submissive and charms him in a way he can't resist. The sub then becomes the center of attention because, although not entirely, the dominant's full attention is on her sub. She checks if he is getting the right attention and if his mental health is okay.
• People who have spent their childhood days in violent homes or neighborhoods may be inclined to engage in sexual acts that some people do not see as normal such as BDSM acts. However, the mind has its way of making things beautiful. The trauma may turn into something sensual that you may never know existed. 
• Some men grow up with single fathers and lack the emotional affection between mother and child. For this reason, they may prefer femdom society to get a taste of what maternal affection feels like. 

Modern-day femdom is gaining traction, thanks to the growing number of sex education blogs and websites. This topic is no longer a taboo, and many people are open to trying this submission method due to the feminine thrill. According to Jozifkova et al. (2014), femdom relationships have received positive accolades even from people who do not know anything about it. This has led to many reaching out to the online sphere to glimpse what it is all about. In relationships, people break laid-down rules probably because their adrenaline rushed too high or felt like being at the top of the game. There is a huge presence of femdom fetish lovers on almost all social media spaces today. However, most people are afraid that these acts may get worse in the future due to the evolving acts that femdom lovers engage in. 

Acts That People In Femdom Relationships Engage In

Femdom Strapon

Femdom strapon is an act in which the female uses toys to perform anal sex on her submissive partner. The female can opt for a strapon, a vibrator, or a classic dildo for this act. This activity can also be referred to as pegging, which involves a woman performing anal sex on her partner using a strapon dildo. 

Sissification

Ekins (2002) noted that sissification is derived from the word sissy, a male who does not have the masculine habits expected of a man. Sissy men are often associated with homosexual acts, and most people view them as cowards. However, females who derive pleasure from seeing their males acting sissy can force this plan on them. They may want them to dress feminine and put on make-up. Most of the time, this act may be accompanied by verbal acts of humiliation like name-calling.

Facesitting

This act has many names: smothering, kinging, or queening. It is an erotic act in which the female sits on her submissive's face. It may involve the female asking her submissive to lick her genitals and ass while sitting on him. The female sits on the submissive’s face and rocks back and forth for intense stimulation. The couple may use a goddess stool. It is equated to a goddess stool because the female can smother her submissive at any time or place.

Spanking and Caning

According to Ayunda (2015), spanking is the most preferred method of corporal punishment that involves inflicting pain to the bum. This act is associated with the humiliation and degradation of a person. Erotic spanking births red buttocks, but in severe punishment, the femme may use a paddle or a cane which may cause bruises on the submissive’s bum. This may, in turn, affect the way he sits. Women who have been in the spanking field for longer may have various spanking tools to help them gain the desired effect.

Cock and Balls Torture

Commonly known as CBT, this is a brutal act in which the female inflicts pain on her submissive’s genitalia. Mostly, pain in the crotch can make the men unconscious. You can use various tools for this act, including wax, cock trampling, urethral play, and cock piercing. If not handled by a professional, these acts can result in fertility issues and death in the most severe cases. 

Bottom Line

When viewed from a different set of eyes, female domination may be seen as a deranged activity that men who cannot stand up for themselves engage in. In a real sense, femdom is an act that has its roots in the matriarchal societies that existed in the ancient days. For males who feel like being dominated by a female is an experience they want to try, they should join groups and websites focusing on this play. As outlined, there is so much to learn about femdom. This article points you in the right direction. 

References

Ayunda, N. A. (2015). OPPOSING BONDAGE, DOMINATION, SADISM, AND MASOCHISM (BDSM) IN FIFTY SHADES OF GREY: RADICAL FEMINISM PERSPECTIVE. In UNNES International Conference On ELTLT (English Language Teaching, Literature, And Translation) (Pp. 524-534).

Ekins, R. (2002). The Case Of The Girl-A-Matic Guides To Sissification. In Conference

Report Of The 7th International Gender Dysphoria Conference. London: BM Gendys (Pp. 22-30).Jozifkova, E., Konvicka, M., & Flegr, J. (2014). Why Do Some Women Prefer Submissive Men? Hierarchically Disparate Couples Reach Higher Reproductive Success In European Urban Humans. Neuroendocrinology Letters, 35(7), 594-601.