Guide To Pegging And Strap-On Sex

What is pegging? Pegging is a sexual act where a lady penetrates her male partner anally using a dildo attached to a strap-on. As such, the pegging act is considered a violation of traditional gender beliefs. It was believed that ladies were the ones to receive their partner and not the other way round. However, this is what makes pegging to be enticing because it involves doing things out of normal view. Men's rectal duct has a prostate gland which is their source of pleasure during anal penetration. When a dildo is inserted into a man's anus, it pressurizes and massages this gland. The result is an eruption of multiple orgasms. This article discusses the key point to put into consideration during the pegging session.

How To Bring The Pegging Issue up

You cannot surprise your partner with a strap-on and a dildo and claim that you need pegging. Your partner should be both mentally and physically prepared for the act. To achieve that, the issue should be brought earlier before the actual time reaches.

You may say the following;

• ‘I came a cross an article about pegging and I would like to try it together with you. I will also share the article with you and let you think about it, right?’
• ‘I think it will be sensational to explore pegging act together. Have you ever though about stimulating your prostrate?’
• ‘I once stumbled onto a pegging series. I became curious and thought of giving it a try with you. Would you like to watch it with me?’
• ‘I love it when you insert your fingers in my butt hole during sex. So, I thought about something bigger. Would you like to figure it out with me?’

There are many different ways that you may use to bring the subject up. Maybe your partner is shy or nervous but he would like to give it a try once you show interest.

What Is Used for Pegging?

Harness and dildo.

These are the common sex toys used for pegging. You can either purchase a strap-on with a dildo as a set or buy them separately. It depends on what you like. For beginners, here is a strap-on pegging guide for women, Tantus Bend Over and Pegasus Curved Realistic Harness set is perfect for them because of their simplicity.

There is an advantage when buying a dildo and a harness separately. It gives you the freedom to customize and reach a perfect decision on a dildo that will make you feel comfortable. For example, the lady can select the strap-on that is compatible with her and the male can choose a dildo that he loves.

Also, there are two types of harnesses. They are the strap-on style and underwear style.

Strap-on style harness is perfect for every body shape and size since it's adjustable. It also enables the wearer to feel comfortable and in complete control.

As for the dildo, one can choose either big or small depending on preference. However, the most preferred ones are silicone-made dildos. They do not trigger allergic reactions and are easy to clean. It is also compatible with water-based lube making penetration easier. Dildos with bulbous ends such as the Riley Vibrating Silicone Dildo are ideal for stimulating the prostate gland.

Lube oil

Well, since the anus does not lubricate naturally like the vagina, you will need lube oil. That will enable you to penetrate your man with ease. Also, any possibility of injuries that may be a result of friction is eliminated.

Other Optional Accessories

You might consider adding anyone of the following sex toys depending on what you and your partner love:

• Vibrating cock rings e.g., We-Vibe Pivot.
• Wearable vaginal vibrator e.g., We-Vibe Chorus.
• Bullet vibratorse.g., Dame Zee.

How And Where Do You Begin?

Talk about pegging in detail.

That will make you and your partner familiarize with each other's moves.

• What vibe do you need to achieve?
• Are prepared to have safe words?
• What positions do you want to give a go?

After discussing the above questions with your partner, you are good to go.

Get your partner and yourself turned on.

Give your partner foreplay. That can be done by teasing the outer area of the butt hole using the tongue or fingers to massage. Also, you may kiss each other and give have oral sex before the main act. It is always enticing when your partner begs for penetration.

Move to fingering and massaging the butt hole.

Since the but hole consists of powerful muscles, it needs to be eased before penetration. That can be done by messaging the outer side of the butt using lube oil while slowly fingering the butt hole. Fingering should be done in the following manner:

• Make small circles around the anus using enough lube.
• Insert it in the anus as you continue thrusting in and out gently.
• Make the come-hither movement against the prostate gland. That should be about 2 inches in the front wall of the anus.

How To Peg – The Actual Act.

Lubricate the receiver's butt hole as well as the dildo with a lot of lube oil until it becomes slippery. You can use a lube applicator to apply the lube to the receiver's butt hole.

After lubricating, get your partner into an appropriate position. A missionary position is recommended as it will enable you to face each other thus enhancing intimacy. Use gentle speed as you press the tip of the dildo against his anus and press in. Continue with the rhythm until your receiver gets used to it and adjust positions until you get satisfied.

The Bottom Line

Although pegging is a comfortable sexual act, it comes with risks. So, you should always be careful not to invoke injuries in your partner's butt hole. The strap on and the dildo should be washed with warm water and mild soap. The soap should be unscented. After washing it, it should be dried using a towel and store in a safe place. Also, you may use latex condoms if the dildo is porous. That will prevent it from carrying germs that may cause infections.