10 INTENSELY SEXY TEXT MESSAGES TO KEEP SEXTING RED HOT
The uncertainty that comes with new relationships is enough to keep things interesting in the first few weeks. The sexual tension it creates and the new things you keep learning daily all work towards making things between you expectedly hot.
Usually, sexting falls into place after collecting sufficient information about their sexual fantasies, what they feel comfortable about, what irks them most, and other related information. This is what helps you to build the profile of your partner. Without this, you are essentially treading on foreign land. A wrong text could be misconstrued to mean something else. Or, it can paint you as someone who is obsessed with sex. This could be quite unsettling, for the relationship is quite young.
The purpose of sexting is to keep the sexual tension in your partner alive and needing you. It is all about keeping the fire burning with you as the catalyst. Sexting can take several angles depending on what you know about your partner. The most common is dirty talk.
Sometimes it's just things to remind them that you are thinking about them. For instance, “you were in my dream last night”. Or, “I can’t stop thinking about you. Get out of my head!”. You could decide and add a little dirt. Like, “I can’t walk well after last night. Thanks to you!”
Sexting is an ideal tool to keep your relationship solid while at the same time spicing it a little. It basically gives you and your partner the necessary tools to keep your relations afloat. I have a few recommendations of what you can put in those ‘sexts’; however, let us look at what are the dos and don’ts in sexting.
Sexting Dos
Be direct
Vagueness in your texts loses it its significance and impact. It leaves the message breathless and flat, far from the lip-biting reaction you expected. Now, as much as communicating with your partner may require some form of fuzziness, let it be calculated for teasing purposes. This works well if you know and understand each other's ways of communicating. Otherwise, it bites a huge chunk of fineness out of your text. The safest bet is remaining direct.
Make the text short and sweet.
As much as the temptation to write a huge romantic paragraph may kick in strong, ensure you keep things short, punchy, and sweet. Keeping your 'sexts' easily digestible goes a long way to ensure your partners can preview and get instant meaning, promptly revealing our intention. Otherwise, delivering a long novella could only lead them to put a pin on it until breaks or when they get home. You need a casual erotic text, which is short and to the point.
Be descriptive
In addition to being direct, your texts need to be sensory-provoking, providing a little bit of sensual erotic descriptions to drive the point home. Recapping past memories helps to elicit those hot moments which surely shape the immediate future. They are quite a turn-on.
Personalize it
Try to customize the text such that it depicts the moments or situations you have had together or about them. This would make them feel important, appreciated, and special. Sexting will evoke feelings of sexiness and importance if there's a clear link between the texts you send and them.
Ease into it.
Unless you know them well, or it is a one-night-stand arrangement, do not just straight into it. It would help if you cultivated the mood by enhancing the other party's safety and confidence.
Be Creative.
Don't just be boring with texts; make the chat more figurative and graphic with emojis and GIFs. Add that extra touch that people before us didn't have. Some of these could help deliver the text well with the intended message.
Don’ts
Using offensive language
Offensive to some people may be simple words like 'cum' or 'fuck'. In sexting, there is no dictionary for safe, conservative phrases or offensive ones. This is why you need to learn which side your partner sides with.
Sending unsolicited sexual parts pics, esp. dick pics.
So many times, I have seen people complaining of receiving dick pics when they haven’t requested for them. Sometimes this can be a turn-off or just outright sexual harassment. Leave your dick out of the picture until when they want it or when you want to spice things up in your relationship.
Sending bad pictures
Bad lighting, blurry, or blacked-out images are disastrous if you are trying to impress your partner. The best photos are those you try to play with angles to reveal silhouettes in soft sexy lighting.
Sexting at the wrong time
Don't be weird or just insensitive to the situation in their lives. If you know them, you will know if they are stressed out, busy, or just in a bad mood. Try dealing with these impediments first before sending those dirty erotic texts.
10 examples of sexy texts to send to your partner
- “I’m so unproductive today in the office. Can’t get last night out of my head…”
- “I’m tired of changing my undies today. Just soaked the last fresh one I had with you in my head…”
- “I’ll try undressing you right from the entrance today”
- “I’m thinking about your perfect body…”
- “I might camp in between your legs. It’s become my favorite home now...”
- “Mmm… your little sexy voice is intoxicating.”
- “Mmm. Your powerful muscled arms leave me in awe.”
- “Your explosive fingers are a work of pure magic”
- “I have been sharpening my teeth and nails. You are going to be marked tonight!”
- “Kissing you has become my newly found obsession”
The bottom line
There are thousands of things you can write to your partner. That is if you listen to them and know their desires, preferences, and fetishes. You actually don't even need to get creative with someone you've known for a while. New relationships, however, need patience and understanding. Get more sexting ideas from here.