DREAM PLACES TO HAVE SEX (AND THEIR ALTERNATIVES)

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People have fantasies of places where they dream of having sex, from swanky places to waterfalls. Some of these places are not reachable, and some might be expensive. However, you can look at alternatives and work with whatever you have around. This will not be as sensational as the dream places you fantasize about, but they'll serve you right.   

Everybody has fantasies and dreams concerning everything in life. Sex also has its fantasies as you take pleasure in lust. It's not that you want to fling in the bedroom every other day. Change of scenery is very important as different locations offer different ambiances, and different moods can also make sex awesome. You change the location of the fling once in a while, maybe from the bedroom to a hotel room or even the kitchen or couch. Have you ever thought of taking it a step further and having sex in other places, possibly outside the country? You have fantasized about having sex in an area that resembles the one you saw in a magazine or a movie. It seems like a pipe dream, but this doesn't mean you can't re-create the same location with a viable option. Here are some ideas.

An Expensive Place Where History Meets Art      

Picture an artistic place with historic designs, a true definition of sexy and sophisticated. According to Yacowar (2010), you could imagine sitting with your partner sipping a cocktail or champagne in expensive lingerie or something casual, chilling. This location is perfect for some awesome role-playing, like teacher-student or ordinary strangers. The Gramercy Park Hotel is one example of such a place. But are you ready to spend about $500 for a night to realize your dream? 

You can re-create this location with a viable option such as a library. You could make things interesting by suggesting a museum but stick with what's on the table. This place can also serve as an expensive yet sophisticated location. This is a common fantasy for many with the intellectual stimulation from the books around. Many libraries also have private study, so don't be worried about some little privacy.

Around a Waterfall    

You've seen this in television shows and movies, where a scene is shot behind a waterfall or around it, and thought to yourself, "how would a fling feel like in that location?" It's the perfect location for an adventurous and extreme Sexcapade. There is also the interaction of nature that comes with this location. You can Google these locations, but you can also re-create them at home.

According to Hassell (2012), the shower is a good re-creation of the waterfall and what's better is that you decide on your water temperature. the water from your shower is clean, and here there is the aspect of privacy, unlike the waterfall. Remember that water is not a lubricant, so throwing in a little water-resistant lube will be revolutionary. 

In a Cable Car Zipping Between the Alps     

Some action movies have a scene shot in such an area where the actors are being shot at or fighting in a cable car. The shaking around and stirring in a bus-sized contraption thousands of feet above the ground makes the blood boil. This scenery is a sensation even though these places are cold and you need to stay warm.

A more viable and less fright-inducing option is the subway. However, this option is still risky, and you want to go with a low-key route and avoid rush hours. According to Son et al. (2014), you could also go with elevated subway lines, but you will have to avoid the awkward judgmental stares from other commuters. This will serve you right but will not be easy to pull off.

In an Igloo                  

The temperatures are below zero all around but this doesn't rule out the fact that you can enjoy some pleasures inside an Igloo. Picture a well-lit fire to keep warm in a small ice hut with the Northern lights dancing around the stars to set in a unique mood as you get comfy with your lover. A fling is a perfect way to stay warm as nothing beats body temperature, as Sidman (2014) suggested   

It's winter, and snow seems to be the only thing on the news; how about you give yourself time away from everything. A cabin can be the best replacement for an Igloo and what's even better is that you interact with nature. The temperatures won't match those of the poles, but it will be fairly cold. What better way to escape reality than in a cabin in the woods.  

Underwater Suites

Picture your normal hotel room underwater and the pleasures that will come with seeing fish swim around through glass walls. Imagining this makes you fantasize about spending time inside there. The palm in Dubai is one such place, but you don't have any idea of how much this suite will cost you a night. You can realize your fantasies with $8,200 per night, but there is always a viable option.  

Instead of going out of your way, not to mention the cost involved, how about you go to your local aquarium. You need to be clever, and if you have the guts, you can pull this off successfully. When in a group tour, you can tailback a few meters behind and wait for a gap in the group tour for the perfect timing. You will enjoy the ogling fish around as you and your partner in crime indulge in your pleasures. However, you need to be careful not to get hooked while in the act.   

Conclusion 

Don’t lush out your fantasies of having sex in certain areas because they look like pipe dreams. You can make the most of the areas around you and re-create your dream places you want to have around. It's often said that risky is fun. Some of these areas are public, and the last thing you want is to fall on the wrong side of the law or get caught pants down by unsuspecting people. Be careful as you endeavor to satisfy your fantasies, and this way, it will be even the more worthwhile.

References

Hassell, S. (2012). The Camping Experience In Western Australian National Parks: Exploring The Relationships Between People And The Natural Environment (Doctoral Dissertation, Murdoch University).

Sidman, J. (2014). Winter Bees & Other Poems Of The Cold. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.

Son, Y. S., Jeon, J. S., Lee, H. J., Ryu, I. C., & Kim, J. C. (2014). Installation Of Platform Screen Doors And Their Impact On Indoor Air Quality: Seoul Subway Trains. Journal Of The Air & Waste Management Association, 64(9), 1054-1061.Yacowar, M. (2010). Hitchcock's British Films. Wayne State University Press.