Temperature play involves using hot and cold materials on someone’s body for a romantic exploration. Changing the temperature according to the weather outside and your partner matters. Temperature play activates and turns on your partner’s dormant sensory glands. For some people, temperature play inflicts pain on them. Sometimes, you may want to spice up your intimacy with your partner by introducing new ideas. However, it is good to consider their opinion about the new adventures first. Observation will never be enough to draw conclusions about your partner. Here are some ideas you can employ for temperature play.

Ice Cubes

The most common tool for temperature play is ice cubes. You can use it depending on the weather. During a hot summer day, an ice cube cools your partner perfectly. Get the cubes from a freezer, and drag them on your partner’s body parts. Accompany this with a warm breath to make your partner itch. Try to use your tongue to clean up the ice cube trails.

Concentrate on the erogenous parts like the inner thighs, neck, collarbone, and wrists to turn them on and deepen the stimulation. Considering a male partner, it will be fun using cold ice in one hand while the other remains at body temperature. When giving a hand job, alternate the hands to cause fantastic sensations from your partner.

You can also suck an ice cube a few minutes before kissing or engaging in oral sex with your partner. The cool effect in your mouth brings a good feeling to your partner. Try to alternate ice cubes with a piece of frozen fruit like cucumber. It will still work as it has a high-water content and almost everybody is sensitive to cold. 

Ice cubes can be substituted with hot tea, coffee, or other hot drinks during cold winter days. Drink some right before engaging in oral sex or kissing. Avoid sweet and flavored drinks as some can cause infections to your partners’ organs and shake off their PH.  

Massage Oil Candle

Buy a massage candle, and burn it at a lower temperature for a warming massage. Kindle the candle for some time until the wax ponds. Put off the candle and test it on your skin before using it on your partner to ensure it will not burn them. Begin slowly in small quantities by dropping the wax from the candlewick onto your lover’s body. Hold the heated wax higher from your partner’s body so that when you are dripping it on them, your partner feels more pleasure than pain. There is some melted wax that is edible. If you prefer to wrap up the massage oil candle with your tongue, use the edible melted wax.

Note that candles have different burning points. Therefore, go for candles that burn at low temperatures and are made clearly for sensual play. Have an amazing pleasure time with your partner by choosing a suitable candle wax.

Sex Toys

Toys made of glass and metals effectively respond to cold and hot temperatures. To avoid burns, try to safeguard the toys. Insert a cloth in cold water and enclose your sex toy if you want it cold. Use warm water and not boiling water if you want your sex toy hot. Do not place your sex toys in a microwave or freezer because it will cause burns and even ruin the machine.

Not all couples want to get wet during temperature play. In this case, a couple can be high and use solid glass dildos to calm down. Let the dildo rest on a table or somewhere safe until it adjusts to room temperature. Use it in another place on your skin to test before using it on sensitive parts. Run the glass over your partners’ erogenous parts like the nipples and inner thighs. That temperature will take you to climax.

If you are planning for a vacation, talk to the room attendant of the hotel and ask them to try and provide you with an ice can in your room that you will use to cool the glass dildo. Make your vacation enjoyable with the cool penetration. Get a silicone sex toy as it is the best material that warms quickly. 

Lube

Buy cooling and warming lube for hot and cold temperatures, respectively. A combination also works in any weather. Go through the description of the lube to see what it is made of. Some ingredients used in making the lube, like menthol, cause irritation or infections when it gets into the sensitive parts like the vagina.  

Lubes increase sensations with time. Your partner may not feel it's worth considering temperature play initially. Try to be patient and apply more lube later.

Syrups Made of Chocolate

Who does not love chocolates? Chocolate is one of the most romantic things ladies love to get from their partners. Be creative and make a hot syrup from it for temperature play. Make it at room temperature and test it with your hands if it is fine and ready for use. Use it to massage your partner on their nipples. You can increase the sensations by adding some ice cubes to clean up the chocolate with your tongue. Be careful not to let it in the vagina since it can cause an infection. 

Conclusion

Select some items that both of you would prefer to use and try. Do not fail to consider the weather and how your partner loves it in the bedroom. Spice up your sensual encounters with the above items for mind-blowing sensations.