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DEALING WITH A DICK THAT IS TOO BIG? READ THIS!

Dealing With A Dick That Is Too Big? Read This!

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Dealing With A Dick That Is Too Big? Read This!

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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🍑 Quick Bites of Wisdom 🍑

  • 🔑 Start slow, take your time – patience is key!
  • 💡 Try different positions for comfort and control.
  • 💪 Strengthen pelvic muscles for better control.
  • 🥰 Communication is the secret sauce to a good time.
  • 💖 Lubrication is your best friend – never underestimate it!

🧠 Key Advice & Tips from Our Experts 🧠

  • 🔸 Experiment with positions that give you more control.
  • 🔸 Take regular breaks to avoid discomfort or strain.
  • 🔸 Keep the mood light and fun – laughter is always a good idea!

Do you ever wonder how it is dealing with a big dick? Below are useful tips to take you through big dicks, including foreplay, finding the right position, and investing in lube.

The challenge for most women whose partners have big dicks is that sex is not as satisfying as they see in pornographic films. Sex with a man who has a big dick can be painful,l and it may put the woman off. A big dick can be a traumatic experience for a woman who cannot cope. How does a woman continue having sex with a man whose dick size is too big? Below are some useful tips to help you through it:

Foreplay is Very Important

Foreplay is very important because it prepares the body physically and psychologically. According to PALERMO et al. (2004), foreplay should occur before penetration. The couple should kiss, caress, and hug. Since the woman is intimidated by the man's dick size, there is no chance for a quickie without at least a lubricant. The couple should use foreplay as an opportunity to relax their minds and also maintain intimacy. Intimacy is important because the woman will be able to trust the man. The foreplay will ease her mind and create a mood where she is comfortable having sex with him. If the foreplay is bad, the sex will also be bad. 

Foreplay has been described as the key to enjoyable sex. It seems like a waste of time for most men, especially when he is already erect. Most men want to go straight to penetration. However, for big-dicked men, lubrication is very important. Stimulating the woman’s mind is also very important. The man should be patient enough to warm up the woman and focus on every other part of her body before touching her genitals. He can finger her to check if she is ready for sex. If not ready, they may need to use lubrication.

Penetration Should Be Gradual

The man should be gentle with the woman. If he goes on with a too rough thrust, she will not enjoy the sex. He will tear her vagina. The man should try penetrating gradually to give her time to continue lubricating. The aim should be to ensure that she finds the sexual experience enjoyable. While penetrating her, he should kiss and caress her to distract her mind. The more she finds it sensual, the more she will lubricate. The foreplay could have ended, but it needs to continue even during sex so that she can relax and hence subconsciously be willing to take in the entire dick because it will not be painful. Penetration with a dick of whichever size is usually painful because the woman is already afraid and is not aroused enough. 

Find the Right Position

When having sex with a man whose dick is too big, the couple should consider different sex positions. No matter how lubricated the woman is, the man cannot start with a style such as a doggy style. People who watch porn may think it is okay to have sex like that, but pornography lacks sensualism. The positions will depend on how much a woman is lubricated and if she is enjoying the sex. If she is enjoying the sex, she might even be the one initiating the styles. If she was not lubricated enough, she would be afraid to get penetrated and might not even have sex with the man. The best position to start with is missionary style so that the man can continue holding her in an embrace. Hugging her gives her reassurance and comfort. He should penetrate gradually until her vagina is relaxed enough for the whole dick. After that, they can enjoy every other position that they may like.

Invest on Lube

The couple must invest in lube. According to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. There are days when they will not have the time to have a 10-minute long foreplay. It can be frustrating when they want sex, but they cannot because the man's dick is too big for a quickie. If they have lube, they will be able to get right into it, and she will never have to worry about tearing up and getting injuries. Sometimes, having a big dick can scare the woman into not wanting to have sex because the pain she will have to endure freaks her out. But if they have lube, she can only focus on the pleasure, and she will not be nervous.

Conclusion

People's fascination has always been with the bigger dicks. Bigger is better has been the mantra. But in real life, the partners of big-sized men may be living a nightmare, especially if their men lack the right bedroom skills. However, if they can communicate with each other, they will be able to have a healthy sex life like any other couple. The dick size never matters if a couple wants to enjoy sex. Even men with small dick sizes can please a partner sometimes more and better than men with bigger-sized dick. The couple only needs to understand intimacy to have an enjoyable experience.

References

PALERMO, J. P., SEXUALITY, H., & LAVASTIDA, F. J. I. (2004). THE MORALITY OF ORAL SEX WITHIN SACRAMENTAL MARRIAGE.Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of vaginal lubricants on in-vitro progressive spermatozoa motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health21(3), 96-101.


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