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20+ INTENSE FOREPLAY TIPS & TECHNIQUES TO DRIVE HIM WILD

20+ INTENSE FOREPLAY TIPS & TECHNIQUES TO DRIVE HIM WILD

What is foreplay? How does one achieve a better foreplay/ what are some tips and techniques for making a man hard? This article explains some of the twenty foreplays tips and techniques to be used on a man. 

Foreplay involves the warm-up session before sexual activity filled with teasing and playful actions and is recommended before intercourse. However, individuals should know how long foreplay needs to take and to be able to master the art of foreplay and how best they can spice it up. Also, they should know on whom foreplay works best to utilize. Creativity is topnotch when bedroom activities are concerned. Foreplay is fantastic and loved by men and women. Warming up for sex is important and should be extended as long as possible to make sex more pleasurable. Several things can be applied, especially if you want to turn him on. The article explains some of how real men want to do it.

The Best Foreplay Tips to Turn Him On

Go With Him To Shop For Lingerie

While you think you're perfect at selecting lingerie that makes you erotic, it's a different case if he does it on your behalf because he thinks it looks sexier (Kimmel, 2017). Asking him to accompany you ensures he acquires the look that pleases his eyes, which initiates the look that heats that foreplay.

Dirty Talk Him

Spill out your dirty thoughts to him. Whisper the dirty words to his ears and get his pulse racing. Inform him how you want his arms all over your body. Let him know what you’re doing and the things you’ll do to him in that session. Mention how you feel and take his arousal to another height.

Tease Him The Entire Day

Kimmel (2017) explained that foreplay with your guy could be from the minutes you get finished with sex to the following time together. You'll have enough chances to build the anticipation and sexual tension in between. Text him a sexy message while in the office. You can also pass by at lunch break and kiss him seductively, and he'll look forward to meeting you after work.

Write Everything You Want Him To Do To You

The list should contain all the hacks and naughty activities you want your man to perform on you. It gives a chance to inform your urges uniquely that will leave him yearning to get closer to you.

Wear A Secret Erotic Outfit

While letting him accompany you shopping is fun, wearing surprise sexy cloth will arouse him, but it must not be lingerie. Rackelmann (2019) explained that perhaps on top of it, wear a nice trench not to reveal it. Suppose he requests that you remove the trench, tell him there's nothing. His mind will click on one thing, and that’s the moment for the surprise.

It Doesn't Have To Be In The Bedroom

When he’s busy on his laptop, kiss his neck or slip your hand in his pants while watching TV. Foreplay is superb in places outside the bedroom. You can even board a cheap hotel room overnight for fun.

Explore New Sensations

A man’s cock is simple but can react to varied sensations. Get warming lube or get down on him like never before. New sensations are great at arousing men.

Involve Sneaky Play

Seduce your man with some sneaky play, especially when it’s just the two of you. It may also be in public but ensure you go unnoticed. 

Massage Him with Oil

Tune in to cool music in an orderly bedroom with dim lights and a candle. Warm your olive or coconut oil and invite him for a spa service that will drive him crazy. Give sensual foreplay involving passionate and soft-touching. It feels pampering and adorable.

Offer Some Grinding

Sit on his lap and move your body against his as if grinding him. He won't wait long before getting to the real grinding. 

Take Control

According to Wassersug & Wibowo (2017), men are impressed by a woman who initiates and takes charge of the process. Perhaps you're shy about everything, and it's best to blindfold him or restrict his arms as in bondage play and do your thing to get him wild.

Play The Submissive In BDSM Game

There's something hot in letting your guy dominate in play. You may not prefer being the sub, but it doesn't hurt to have him control you.

Fulfill His Fantasy

Some guys have secretive fantasies that they wish to have accomplished during foreplay. You can ask him during the warm-up or text before your next session together. The pro tip is developing and maintaining his confidence and not laughing at him.

Text Or Call Him For An Erotic Invitation

A woman that's bothered, already, waiting, and invites his man over for sex is hot. The call implies you need your guy, and at that instant. Get your phone and do it. Be sure he'll be there in no time.

Accomplish His Fetishes

Monge-Nájera et al. (2017) stated that guys have varied fetishes, but you must understand it before feeding the fetish. Determine the object or activity he has an abnormally strong liking to offer him sexual pleasure. He’ll be thrilled and impressed. He’ll become more comfortable with his sexual interest and sexuality after that.

Go Down On Him

Most men find gratification in foreplay with oral sex. While you think he gets enough goodies from your service, oral sex always has some more creativity to steam it up better. Perhaps try new styles or change the location. You can also sprinkle his cock with chocolate or honey and lick it to turn him on. 

Watch A Sex Film With Him

Porn may not be your preference, but for his sake, do it. Men get aroused by what they see. Therefore, porn can be a great foreplay part. Select an erotic movie that will run him crazy.

Please Yourself As He Watches

Have your guy as the spectator in your self-pleasing endeavors. Watching you can be real arousal, and he won't forget that foreplay experience.

Introduce A New Toy

Why not get a vibrating ring or another sexy device to make foreplay more interesting? You can shop together to pick the best that pleases both of you.

Use Delay Spray For Desensitization

Try new positions and check to tease and please him differently. In cases with premature ejaculation issues, one needs to use delay sprays, such as promiscuity, which can desensitize his most sensitive areas to help hold him back for longer.

Conclusions

Icing sugar on a cake is similar to foreplay before sex. It helps establish anticipation for the major performance. Men and women need foreplay for pleasure and more excitement. You should be creative and conquer any limits to get you there. 

References 

Kimmel, M. (2017). Manhood in America (p. 173). New York: Oxford University Press.

Monge-Nájera, J., Rodríguez, M., & González, M. I. (2017). Time to deconstruct the concepts of “foreplay” and “intercourse”: the real structure of human sexual encounters. Cuadernos de Investigación UNED9(1), 59-64.

Rackelmann, M. (2019). " If you turn me into a fag, I'll kill you!" Body Psychotherapy and Its Potential Role to Help" Real Men" Become Real Men. International Body Psychotherapy Journal18(2).

Wassersug, R., & Wibowo, E. (2017). Non-pharmacological and non-surgical strategies to promote sexual recovery for men with erectile dysfunction. Translational Andrology and Urology6(Suppl 5), S776.

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