Chastity Devices - Which Type Is For Me?
Chastity belts, while often referred to jokingly, are actually used as bondage and role play sex toys. Sometimes one partner will wear a chastity belt to make sure that sexual intercourse does not occur while on a trip or at work. The main feature that all chastity devices have in common is that they are locked into place over the genitals. The specific device that a couple chooses will depend on the level of experience and desire for either pain or comfort. You may find yourself unsure of where to begin with so many options available.
Male chastity belts usually involve the holding of the penis into a tube made of steel, leather, cloth, plastic or other material. Many of the belts are so restricting that they do not permit erections to occur. Male chastity devices typically include a hole or tube designed with urination in mind. Female chastity devices, like those made for males, allow urination and defecation hygienically. They often come in the form of belts, thongs or briefs.
Some couples are very concerned with comfort and take the time to shop different materials, sizes and shapes. If you are a man who is well-endowed you might have a more difficult time finding a chastity device that fits the right curve and length. The most comfortable devices will be those that follow the natural lines of the penis and are soft enough to wear under clothing. For women who desire comfort, it is also important to find a belt with an adjustable waistband or lined with rubber. Even the devices made of steel and leather can be comfortable though, if you find the correct size.
You may be looking for a chastity belt that will serve as a punishment for you or your partner. In this case, look for options that include spikes. The instant a man twitches toward arousal, the spikes will provide a severe punishment to remind him that he is no longer in charge of his body. If you don't want to go that far, try out clamps with adjustable diameters. Made out of steel, some of these allow for movement and others do not. If you want the most intense experience possible, look for briefs that lock and include adult toys attached to them. It is common for these chastity belts to include anal dildos for men and women.
Beginners might be looking for something nonthreatening and simple to start with. Steel cuffs are great or beginners because they don't include much material and come in several sizes. The lock is similar to a handcuff. Another great chastity device for beginners is one made of thong underwear that secures the genitals with Velcro.
No matter your purpose for chastity belts, there is something for everybody. Just be sure to consider your goals and what you are willing to try. The key to using adult toys with a partner is to communicate your desires.