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DISABLED SEX: HOW TO HAVE GREAT SEX WITH LIMITED MOBILITY

Disabled Sex: How To Have Great Sex With Limited Mobility

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Disabled Sex: How To Have Great Sex With Limited Mobility

  • by Jekaterina Gussarova

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Written by:
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Sex and Relationship Adviser
Veronika Matutyte
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Medical Doctor
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Psychologist and Sex and Relationships Advisor

💡 Key Points to Remember 💡

  • 🔑 Embrace creativity in the bedroom - every movement counts!
  • 💪 Prioritise comfort - Cushions and supports work wonders!
  • 🧠 Communication is key – don’t be afraid to discuss your needs!
  • 🛋️ Experiment with positions and find what works best for you!
  • ❤️ Always focus on fun and intimacy over perfection!

💬 Expert Tips & Advice 💬

  • 🔄 Try adaptive tools to make certain positions easier.
  • 💬 Regular check-ins with your partner will help create a relaxed atmosphere.
  • 🧘‍♀️ Stretch and warm-up before any fun – it makes all the difference!
  • ⚡ Explore new sensations and experiment without pressure.

Sex in disabled people is one of the least talked about erotic topics. Most people view disabled people as asexual. Herein is about disabled sex and how to have great sex with limited mobility, including; wheelchair position, oral sex, and face-to-face intercourse.

 Did you know that disabled people can enjoy sex too when given support? This blog features helpful tips on how to disabled individuals can make love, wheelchair sex positions such as oral, seated doggy, and how they can make the encounter merrier. 

People must begin to talk more openly about issues related to intimacy and disability. One out of every four adults has a disability, and mobility problems, impacting one out of every seven people.

According to Sugiyama (2004), people with age-related physical changes, accidents, or chronic which have a longer lifespan tend to develop a disability at one point in life, whether from sickness or accidents. Having a significant awareness of disability sex will help you manage your sexual life more efficiently in the future. Engaging in sex is beneficial to your physical and psychological well-being. It's a type of exercise that may lift your spirits, increase your feeling of purpose in life, and strengthen your bonds with your spouses. Below is a guide on sexuality and disability from the perspective of wheelchair users and some of the concerns.

What Is the Best Way for Persons In Wheelchairs To Have Sex?

Some people wrongly believe that anything between your legs won't operate because you're in a wheelchair; nevertheless, it couldn't be further from the fact. People use wheelchairs for various purposes. Avoid assuming things about what a wheelchair user is or isn't physically capable of, though they enjoy being in bed.

There are numerous sexual stereotypes about the crippled body. Some individuals with immobility have genital mobility, while others do not. Failure for their genitalia to function normally doesn't imply they aren't having fun. This implies that people with limited mobility may indulge in vaginal or anal sexual activity, oral sex, or anything available to non-disabled people, such as kink/BDSM. Sex may be off the menu for some, but alternative options exist.

Make no judgments about whether your spouse is non-disabled or impaired; rather, communicate. Inquire about each other's sexual urges, needs, and limitations, and be prepared to listen.

Wheelchair Sex Positions

Some people believe using a wheelchair restricts the angles you can explore during sex which is not normally the case. The wheelchair can perform varying versions of several "traditional" sex positions. The viability of a specified position is highly determined by the physical status of both partners, the lovers' comfortability, the kind of disability, and interests. Some individuals choose to have sex while sitting in their chairs, whereas others choose to use a bed. Here are some effective positions for disabled or people with a partner disability; 

Oral sex

An individual seated in a wheelchair can give and enjoy oral sex by moving the chair to the bed and letting their lover lean over through the side. Their thighs can create a comfortable posture for oral and manual pleasure. You can go down on their penis and provide a hand or a blow job. You can sit on their laps and ride them. According to Li & Yau (2006), a partner sitting in a wheelchair can widely spread their legs to ease oral access. This position enables closeness causing more intimacy.

Face-To-Face Intercourse in A Seated Position

This can be a terrific position for integrated spouses. Let the non-disabled lover straddles and rests on their lover's lap. It may also enable easy insertion while allowing you to connect more intimately as you gaze into their eyes.

Seated Doggy Style

The wheelchair can provide a varying doggie position, especially for integrated couples. The receiver or person with a disability gets on the wheelchair slightly bent, while the non-disabled partner penetrates from behind using the bed for support.

According to Starbuck (2011), while on the Wheelchairs or bed, you can also try other kinky sex positions such as the missionary, 69, and reverse cowgirl. Effective communication, trying new sex positions, learning your partner's sexual desires, and figuring out what feels right help develop mutual enjoyment. 

Individuals dating people with disability should have a wider discussion with their spouses about their access requirements and limits. Speak about what you'd like to do and why it might not be possible. Be willing to attempt sex that incorporates slings, pillows, wheelchairs, cushions, and other items that don't look like you're used to. Tell your partner before introducing them to avoid being judged. These enhance comfort and mind-blowing orgasms.

Individuals with Restricted Mobility Can Enjoy Sex in A Variety of ways.

Innovation and agility are essential for having pleasurable sex with your partner. Disabled people must often alter their daily lives to match their demands, similar to their romantic lives. There is no "proper" manner to make love. According to Sherry* (2004), disabled sex entails deconstructing standard and heteronormative concepts of "sex" in favor of a wider perspective. Disability enables people to expand their definition of what sex is. Many of the conceptions of what sex must be provided are false and demotivating. A disabled person should define sex as whatever is enjoyable and attainable to their challenged bodies.

However, intercourse can be whatever you need, and that's a useful lesson for everybody to understand, irrespective of their ability level. Sex never has to look or act in a specific way, and it wouldn't have to stick to a script. Concerning what might be doable and delightful, you can adapt it for your body.

Intercourse may or may not be involved in disabled sex. 

Conclusion

Sex and disability have been pushed to the fringes for a long time. Sharing and communicating openly about sex among those living with a disability can increases sexual awareness about the same and improve more people's sexual lives. The disabled can enjoy sex like other people. They can incorporate different sex positions to attain a mind-blowing orgasm. Dating a disabled person is challenging, but you can help them accept their nature and enjoy sexual life by introducing sex toys during sexual intercourse.

Reference:

Li, C. M. N., & Yau, M. K. S. (2006). Sexual Issues And Concerns: Tales Of Chinese Women With Spinal Cord Impairments. Sexuality And Disability, 24(1), 1-26.

Sherry*, M. (2004). Overlaps And Contradictions Between Queer Theory And Disability Studies. Disability & Society, 19(7), 769-783.

Starbuck, M. (2011). Unsqueezed: Springing Free From Skinny Jeans, Nose Jobs, Highlights, And Stilettos. Readhowyouwant. Com.

Sugiyama, L. S. (2004). Illness, Injury, And Disability Among Shiwiar Forager‐Horticulturalists: Implications Of Health‐Risk Buffering For The Evolution Of Human Life History. American Journal Of Physical Anthropology: The Official Publication Of The American Association Of Physical Anthropologists, 123(4), 371-389.


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