EXPLORING THE BENEFITS OF YONI MASSAGE

Yoni massage, popularly known as vagina massage, is a form of vaginal beauty and self-care sweeping the sex world. Originally practiced in India and China, yoni massage exists in the same universe as vaginal steaming and labiaplasty procedures that people use to show their vulvas love. Yoni massage can result in an orgasm. Since this is not the goal of the practice, you can also experience other benefits. This blog looks at yoni massage benefits, including weight loss, relaxation, hormonal balance, and proper flow to sexual organs.

Yoni massage has been around for decades, helping people with female biochemistry connect with their bodies. The practice is believed to have originated in China and India to provide various benefits attached to female health. Yoni massage can be a standalone activity or part of love-making. In the latter, you can do it before or after sex to make the play more fun, exciting and pleasurable. Yoni massage can involve friends (both same-sex or opposite sex), lovers, or a therapist. This form of tantra massage is based on three aspects: pleasure, therapy, and spirituality. All these aspects positively affect your physical and psychological well-being.

What is Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage is one of the two tantric massage forms that aim at pleasure, therapy, and spirituality. The other form of tantric massage is lingam massage. Yoni massage involves touching, arousing, and massaging various body parts, including breasts, buttocks, shoulders, neck, hip joint, and inside and outside your vagina (Yoni). Unlike sexual massage, yoni massage works your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual well-being, thanks largely to its effects on your chakras. According to Lorius (1999), yoni massage is like a therapy that focuses on the sensual feeling of the body, not the sexual.

What Is the Difference Between Yoni Massage and Sexual Massage?

Sexual massage only touches your physical level to create a way for hot sex. On the other hand, yoni massage touches on your physical, emotional, spiritual, and mental levels, allowing you to connect with your body.

What are the Three Aspects of Yoni Massage?

Pleasure

Yoni massage is used as a form of foreplay. Touching, arousing, and massaging the erogenous zones and the vagina can result in sex and deep orgasms.

Therapy

Diaz (2018) stated that yoni massage has long been used as a therapy for women battling sexual shame and trauma. This massage makes you feel your partner loves, worships, and honors you, elbowing out the sexual pain and trauma.

Spirituality

According to Odier (1997), yoni massage strengthens the connection between you and your feminine core and God. Spirituality stems from orgasms which mostly come through openness, stillness, oneness, surrender, dissolution, and trust. 

How to Perform a Yoni Massage

Set the Environment

Yoni massage is a holistic practice, meaning it is less focused on orgasms. For this reason, you may need an accommodating environment that brings your body and mind into play and elbow out stress. Here is how to set the Yoni massage environment.

Find Comfortable Space

A comfortable space allows you to move freely during the space. It can be on your bed, sofa or the floor. You may also want cushions to get the best from certain positions.

Whip out the Massage Items

For a pleasurable Yoni massage, you may need oil or cream. These items heighten sensations and also improve skin health. Talk of win-win. Since tons of oils and creams are on the market, you may want hypo-allergic items to avoid compromising your safety.

Set the Right Temperature

If it is too cold, bring a heater into the mix. However, if it is too cold, you may want to open the windows to encourage fresh air circulation. 

Create the Mood 

Here, you can dim the lights or bring a scented candle into play. 

Play Sensual Music 

Again, the choice of music will depend on the type of atmosphere you want. You can play energetic or calm jams to prepare you mentally and create a rhythm for the play.

Switch Your Phone Off

Assuming you chose the private venue, you can switch off your phone and put it in silent or airplane mode to further enhance privacy. 

Practice Relaxation Techniques 

Before a yoni session, practice relaxation techniques, including meditation. They help elbow out stress and anxieties, cleansing your mind.

Get your Body Ready for the Play

Preparing your body includes taking a shower with your partner (if you have one), staying moisturized, and trimming fingernails to avoid inconveniences during the play. If trimming fingernails is not a good idea, wrap them in latex gloves.

Engage in Tantric Breathing 

Tantric breathing allows blood to flow to the vagina as Johari (2000) described. Here is how to perform this breathing technique.

• On your space (bed, couch, or floor), assume an upright posture and face your partner (If you have one)
• Breath out deeply while channeling the energy around your belly
• Close your mouth and breath in gently
• With your mouth still closed, hold your breath for five to seven seconds
• Exhale through the mouth while engaging your lower abdomen
• Repeat the procedure 2 or three times

Start Massaging the Upper Body and Breasts

Since a women take a little longer to reach an orgasm, you may want to start the play with your upper body and breasts. This makes you fully aroused, opening the gates to the world of intense orgasms. Stimulating other erogenous zones and finishing with the vagina also allows you to tap into your body energy and improve the blood floor.

Start with the naval and stomach area. Apply the oil or cream and slowly start working on your belly, chest area, and lower belly, between the breasts and rib cage. As things warm up, shift your attention to the breasts and nipple. Caress your breasts, and then show your areola some love. As the body starts responding, move to your nipples. Pinch, tease, and play with them in a circular action. Now fully aroused, work your way up to the genitals.

Benefits of Yoni Massage

Elbows Out Sexual Trauma

Yoni massage allows you to learn how to touch and stay connected with your yoni. As a result, any past negative emotions attached to your genitalia are released, promoting mental healing. Yoni massage converts shame and sexual trauma into a pleasurable feeling, improving your mental health.

Allows You to Connect with Your Body, mind, and soul

Yoni massage harmonizes your mind, body, and soul. This gives you the potential to connect with others spiritually easily.

A Direct Ticket To the World of Serious Orgasms

Women who have tried the yoni massage can testify it increases the intensity of orgasms. Bringing harmony between your body, mind, and soul positively affects the intensity of orgasms, adding value to your sex life.

Strengthens Sexual Relationships

Yoni massage heightens trust in sexual relationships. It also improves the emotional connection between you and your partner, strengthening your sexual relationship.

The Bottom Line

Yoni massage is a fun and exciting, sensual massage, whether in your solo time or partnered play. Want to try? The Yoni massage techniques you can employ include cupping, circling, pushing and pulling, rolling, and tugging. The positions to try in the yoni session include lotus, hand on the heart, and spooning. Before experimenting with this form of tantra massage, ensure you and your partner are on the same page. Being on the same page makes yoni massage more fun, exciting and pleasurable. What's more, maintain communication during the yoni session. Stop the play when your partner gets uncomfortable.

References

Lorius, C. (1999). Tantric Sex: Making Love Last. Thorsons.

Diaz, G. (2018). How to Use the Yoni Egg for Sensual Healing. Xlibris Corporation.

Odier, D. (1997). Tantric quest: An encounter with absolute love. Simon and Schuster.

Johari, H. (2000). Chakras: Energy centers of transformation. Simon and Schuste.