HOW TO FLIRT WITH A GUY: 9 TIPS TO MAKE HIM UNCONTROLLABLY ATTRACTED TO YOU

Flirting is tied to sexual intercourse and it's a biological instinct. It is done back in time in the reign of ancestors. You may have issues flirting with a guy if you have a low level of trust. However, push and gather your trust and courage, and flirt with a guy of your liking. The following are scientific ways to back you up when flirting with a guy: 

Build Your Confidence 

Build your confidence before flirting. Don't be overconfident as it is risky. Being confident is attractive to both genders because humans are social and hate rejection. Rejection sucks as it is embarrassing, shameful and miserable. It makes you feel valueless. Sometimes. People want to protect their pride and worth.

You can reach out to anyone and flirt when you are confident. However, you can be confident but rejected. Rejection is normal. Everyone has a different personality, and you expect anything to happen and it should not make you cringe.

Have Small Talks 

Being good at having small talk helps. Flirting with your body language and lacking a standpoint to strike a conversation make it tough. Talking small doesn’t mean asking about the weather. It is a talk about creating an environment. Don't reveal your secrets when talking to a new person. Lighthearted conversations create a friendly environment. 

Smile And Laugh Where Necessary 

Smiling and laughing are forms of body language. Men are physically motivated compared to ladies. They try to attract the lady by talking, which makes them proud. However,  not all men are sleazy and want to bed you. 

To make yourself attractive to a man, smile or laugh gently. 

Casual Touching 

Touch him casually. It is a form of body language since it is a direct move. Pat him on the knee or brush off your arms against his. The guy will think you are interested in him, providing a start for flirting. Open your body language, welcoming your man to think positively. 

Tease Him 

Making fun of a guy or teasing him is sexy. Be careful of taking things far to avoid crossing boundaries. The guy might lose interest. 

Reflect His Actions and Energy

Don't act too strong to be defeated. It may turn off the guy and give the impression that you are interested in sex alone. Mirror him. Pull out on touching and cracking jokes if he doesn’t respond. Stay on his level and don’t overdo it. 

Focus On Target Audience 

The target is a man. Men love to flirt compared to women. Ladies like complements and mind games while like direct things, which raises their impression. 

Share their likes 

Give experienced hints to your flirt. For example, "I can't ride a bike as you do. You could give me pointers."

The Bottom Line

Flirting with a guy is easy and should flow in your veins. There is nothing to be afraid of. Go through the context before flirting. It gives you a  guideline on the dos and don’ts of flirting. Don't go overboard when flirting, for it may drive the guy out of interest. Pull back after flirting. A good connection is built with elements of anticipation.