ROMANTIC, KINKY, AND UNIQUE DATE NIGHT IDEAS

Date nights have significantly changed over the recent past. The days when simple dinners and movies made the difference is long gone; well, not all, but with technology and culture changes, people expect more. Read more as we outline the various unique date night ideas to consider and the benefits of date nights.

Today, most couples are not so keen on date nights because they feel that dates are costly and would rather put that money into other uses. This thought is unhealthy and might lead to a poor relationship and, worse, a break-up. Even if your partner is the laid-back type who prefers indoor date nights, encourage them to try an outdoor date.

Romantic Date Night Ideas

There is nothing as soulful as an exquisite date night with the love of your life surrounded by the beauty of good food and a good ambiance. Johri (2014) explained that if you are not a fan of romantic date nights, the ones listed below may spark your interest.

Role-play

Role play is when two people imitate a character. For example, your favorite TV show, a celebrity crush, or animals. When roleplaying, ensure that you and your partner keep things as authentic as possible. It helps everyone not to feel left out.

You must begin your journey from scratch if you are new to roleplay. Ask your partner what they are comfortable with and the boundaries they would love to observe when it comes to outdoor romance. If unsure where to start, you can roleplay an abduction fantasy or a stranger meets stranger scenario.

Learn Something New

There is power in bonding with your partner. It does not have to be a complicated activity, something as simple as ice skating or visiting an art gallery. Suppose you think both of you are prepared for something more complicated. In that case, you can try gourmet cooking, also known as culinary art, defined by intricate food preparations and five-star presentations. If you are looking for something kinky, you can try pole dancing lessons or the art of Shibari rope tying which can come in handy if you are a BDSM lover.

Re-live Your First Date

Most people forget what their partners looked like when they first met, especially if they have spent an eternity with each other. It is normal to forget the adrenaline rush you had when you and your partner met for the first time. You can plan to wear the same outfits, scent, and hairstyle you wore on your first date. That will likely evoke erotic feelings that cannot measure up to any date night idea. Also, strive to keep things on a budget. You do not have to overspend; keep it simple to get the most out of it.

Wear A Sex Toy in Public

Sex toys are one of the most underrated sources of sexual pleasure. Wearing a vibrating knicker in public can be a good idea if you are out of date night ideas. Döring (2020) explained that most vibrating knickers come with a remote-control feature that you can use to spice things up while you are outdoors. Through this, you will be at the mercy of your partner. This activity is perfect because, after that, you are sure you and your partner will go home to a mind-blowing sex session.

Try A Chocolate or Cake Shop

Fuller (2020) explained that chocolate shops are the perfect spots, especially if you and your partner are chocolate lovers. You can sample the different varieties at a chocolate shop; if your budget allows, you can even carry some home. Chocolate can also be a good addition to the bedroom. You must drizzle your favorite chocolate brand on your partner's body and lick it. You can also decide to line up pieces of cake on your partner's body and then eat them.

Get Matching Tattoos

Tattoos should have a special meaning; the best one to get is one with your partner. You can opt to tattoo your wedding date or the first letters of each other’s names. To spice things a bit, you could pick a tattoo for your partner, and they could also do the same. However, make sure that the tattoo you choose is something that your partner will squirm in excitement once they see it.

Benefits Of Date Nights

Boosts Connection

Spending time together on date nights ensures your relationship stays strong and healthy. Yuthika et al. (2018) explained that going on date nights reminds you of how much your partner and the relationship mean to you, the perfect doorway to cultivating an emotional bond.

Improves Communication

At this time and age, most people are up and running from Monday through the week, coupled with their 9-5 schedules, making it hard to cultivate meaningful relationships. However, through late-night dates, this can be averted. You get to spend time with your partner, which breeds the perfect relationship.

Breaks Your Routine

A routine is necessary for any relationship. However, too much of something is poisonous. Living through the same routine for months on end is monotonous and unhealthy. Routines can also be the source of negative issues in the relationship. Therefore, date nights are perfect if you want to reduce the boredom that comes with routines.

Conclusion

Romantic date nights are a must-have for any relationship to thrive. It does not mean that they are the backbone of any relationship but are equally important. If you are new to dating and want to keep things spicy, you and your partner should invest in date nights. It does not matter the number of times you choose to go for date nights as long as you spend quality time with your partner. As listed in the article above, there are many activities that you and your partner can choose from when it comes to date nights. Also, on a date, ensure you are not distracted by anything. Give your partner the undivided attention you would love to be given. This way, you will nurture your relationship to exquisite heights.

References

Döring, N. (2020). How is the COVID-19 pandemic affecting our sexualities? An overview of the current media narratives and research hypotheses. Archives of sexual behavior, 49(8), 2765-2778.

Fuller, L. K. (2020). Chocolate Fads, Folklore, & Fantasies: 1,000+ Chunks of Chocolate Information. Routledge.

Johri, A. (2014). Romantic Relationships among Late Adolescents: Meaning of Romance, Parental and Peer influences and Gender differences (Doctoral dissertation, CHRIST UNIVERSITY BANGALORE, INDIA).

Yuthika, U., Overall, N. C., & Faingataa, S. (2014). ‘Date Nights’ Take Two: The Maintenance Function of Shared Relationship Activities.