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5 PERKS AND 6 PITFALLS OF DATING AN OLDER MAN

5 PERKS AND 6 PITFALLS OF DATING AN OLDER MAN

So, you have tried your luck with younger men and want to get yourself an older man? This could be a good idea, depending on how you are prepared for the journey. However, it would help if you learned more about the perks and pitfalls of dating older men, as discussed herein.

In today’s dating world, it is easier to get someone older or younger than you. Well, most of the time, you've heard that age doesn't matter as far as love is concerned. It is also true that currently, everyone has the freedom to choose what perfectly suits them, unlike in ancient days. For women, being on a date with an older person is considered normal because we believe a man has to marry someone younger than him. 

We have also seen more men and women who date people younger than them and are satisfied with their relations. However, while a woman dating an older man has numerous advantages, she may also face challenges in her relationship, which are not far different from normal dating scenarios. As such, let's look at the five perks and six pitfalls of women dating older men.

Perks

Financial Security

Every time a young lady is hanging out with an older man, the thought that always pops into our mind is an image of a sugar daddy. Currently, changes in society have made women more independent. Such a thing is now considered as old fashion. Most women are usually driven emotionally and always crave stability in their relation. Most of them will choose older men to enjoy their lifestyle since they know older men have money.

Psychological Needs

Older men have already been in many relationships ever since they were young and have learned a lot; hence, the chances of cheating are minimal. They crave one woman they will settle with and build a future at their age. Older men are never prone to drama and argument because they are mature enough and know how to handle most of the misunderstandings from their partners. Women rarely have sex with someone they aren't feeling comfortable with. For that reason, they'll choose older men since they tend to feel more secure and safer while dating them.

Maturity and Specialty

When you compare the maturity rate of women and men, it is clear that women grow much faster than men. Most women prefer older men, not because younger men are not mature, but because women need someone who is at least there in terms of maturity. Mature men rarely make boring conversations as younger men do. They've already realized the importance of a woman in their life. Younger men may easily be distracted by other women and can decide to break their current relationship for the other women. On the other side, older men are more confident socially and professionally, impacting positively into the relationship.

Communication and Support

Most relationships fail because one party may not communicate with the other for long. Most young people lack ideas and topics to discuss with their partners, while others forget the importance of communication in any relationship. When you fail to talk to a woman, she will likely feel you are cheating on her. Unlike young people, older men hold more conversations with their partners since they don't know what they want. This sense of clarity provides a certain level of reassurance for the woman.  Also, older men always support financially, mentally, or sometimes spiritually.

Pitfalls

Dating an older man might look cool at first, but here are some of the downfalls.

Criticism from Friends and Family

Most of your friends and even family members may not approve of your choice of older men. Often, they will keep discouraging you from breaking the relationship. Others will judge you negatively and even isolate you in their plans. Well, it's your life, and you are free to decide whatever you want. Don't let their judgments and views kill your new relationship, as long as you make the right choice.

Risk of Diseases

An older man probably had sex with different women before they met you, including unprotected sex.  Since most men would not like to ruin their relationships, they might not tell you they are sick. Instead, they will infect you with STDs and HIV and make you learn the hard way. To avoid such, you can advise your partner to use protection or visit a nearby medical center and check your status.

Hidden Families That Pose Threats to Your New Relationship

Most older men are fathers from their previous marriages or relationships, but they cannot tell you to keep the relationship. This could pose a challenge to you since some of his children may be your agemates. It also might be difficult for you to interact with the children since they might hate you, thinking you are the cause their father broke up with their mother.

Low Sexual Energy

People are more sexually active when young, and their bedroom energy reduces as they get older. This is due to reduced energy in the body, which prevents people from doing certain tasks they did when younger. Therefore, an older man may not be active as you would like him to be, especially during intimate moments. To avoid such, you can try sex positions that are more relaxed for him.

Trust Issues

It is difficult to tell whether a lady is in a relationship because of money or love. Older men might be anxious at first when they meet, but as time goes by, they will start questioning if the woman is trustworthy or not. This means they will take some time before trusting younger ladies with their money and other personal things.

Existing Jealous Among Friends

Every woman wants to be associated with a successful man. Having one will not prevent other ladies from hitting on him.  Your friends can also feel jealous and look for ways to sabotage your relationship. On the other hand, younger men interested in you will start hating when they finally realize you are dating an older man. However, you can deal with such by giving a deaf ear and focusing on your relationship.

Bottom Line

People often believe that age is just a number when dating, and love knows no limits. However, you will only face reality when you start dating older men. While dating an older guy comes with its benefits, women should know that not all friends will like it, and some will even work hard to end the relationship. However, both partners can make the relationship fruitful by talking things out and trusting each other. Remember, it is not what others say but what partners do to keep the relationship.

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