Spanking for Sexual Pleasure - Erotic Spanking
If you’ve not already read 50 Shades of Grey then it’s probably on your to do list. Even if you’re pretending that it is not your style of book you will have heard sayings such as “store your twitchy palm” over social networks. This is because Mr Christian Grey adores spanking. Yet Ana, his object of affection is completely turned off by the thought of pain for sexual pleasure -that is - until she tries it!
There’s an art to spanking for pleasure, a way to combine the pain and the thrills to bring a woman to climax. Some women can orgasm through spanking alone, whereas others may not climax but will become extremely aroused. The added sensation of having a lightly sore behind the day after only adds to the gratification as it serves as a constant reminder of the naughty night before.
Forget the Spanking Stereotype
Not all spanking involves pain, despite popular belief it is a formation of trust between lovers, leaving yourself at their mercy and trusting them to take care of your body is the ultimate turn on for both parties. Think of nipples. You may love your nipples being twisted or nibbled o and sometimes this may cause a little discomfort however this only adds to your arousal and unless it’s agony its not something we’d often complain about.
Being able to read a person is crucial to spanking success as this enables the spanker to go just a little bit further or to stop when the desired result is reached. Without being able to distinguish squirming away from squirming in pleasure you could leave you lover never wanting to be at the mercy of your twitchy palm again!
The Perfect Spanking Scenario
When starting out, try this scenario to bring your lover to climax. Don’t be disappointed if orgasm isn’t reached as they are sure to be aroused whatever happens. Pick the bed or a wide comfortable chair so they can lean over your knee face down. (Mr Grey basically plonked Ana on a bed and spanked her from the side however I do think it’s much more erotic if she can feel you getting hard in the side of her hip!) Prop yourself up on some pillows so you can lean forwards easily. You can begin with a little massage, a two in one lube is great for this, the stickiness will add to the sounds of the spanking too. Massage the lower back reaching around to the breasts and then concentrate on the behind, using the flat of your palm massage quite firmly, then lightly then lift and spank once. Rub the area where you’ve spanked, even stroke the inner thighs, and then repeat becoming a little harder each time. After the third spank investigate to see if you are turning her on by placing your fingers gently inside her. It’s the combination of tenderness and tough that will make her weak! You can progress to playing gently with her clitoris as you spank her again, taking your time and watching for the signals that show you are doing it right. Usually around 10 spanks are enough and if she hasn’t reached orgasm simply flip her over and give her oral sex before finding your own release.