Female-Only Threesomes: Have Your Cake and Eat It
When having a female-only threesome, also known as FFF, the women must have some communication before the encounter, sex toys, and lube, and plan how they will wind up the session.
Having a female-only threesome requires a coordinated effort between the three partners. A female-only threesome proves that threesomes are not reserved for men only. Women love threesomes too. Having a threesome will feature in the fantasies of almost every sexually adventurous person once in their lifetime. Valovirta (2021) noted that the threesome analogy is a prevalent sexual fantasy among women. Sometimes, a threesome may be a worthy adventure, but sometimes it may be a mistake. Not every sexual encounter will be a hit. Some will leave you with nothing to write about. The one thing that makes threesomes more challenging than one-on-one sex is that all three people must have some sexual chemistry for the encounter to be successful. The following are some tips for an all-female threesome;
Communication
Threesomes form differently in couples. Some couples might have been together for some time when they decide to invite a third person. The couple will talk first about what they want, and they will still have to talk when the third one joins. They will set some rules to avoid crossing boundaries or feeling hurt and isolated. You will also discuss how you will have sex. You may talk about who should not touch or kiss the other. Within the threesome, there might be a dominant and a submissive partner. If the third person is also dominant, the submissive may not want her dominant lover to touch the other dominant and vice versa. Just because they are all women does not mean that they are all the same and should relate to each other in the same way. There could be some discomfort and jealousy if boundaries are crossed.
Break the Ice
The three women may be uncomfortable with how to start the act. The disadvantaged person at this stage is the guest because there is nothing she can do. The third person came because she was interested in making the mood as comfortable as possible for her. The host's role is to make sure that everyone is comfortable. She has to set the stage, and everyone will adopt the positive vibes. Here are the tips that threesomes should follow to break the ice;
Getting in Bed Together
The three women can get in bed together for a nap or for some storytime or game. They can play games in bed, like truth and dare. Moreover, they need to do anything that will kill the awkwardness.
Just Start
The dominant female can start by kissing the submissive one. If there are two submissive women and one dominant lover, that's even better.
Watch Something
You could watch an erotic movie together. Nothing can be more arousing than an erotic movie, and very few people care about awkwardness when aroused.
Get Some Food
Do not go for a meal but something that can be an aphrodisiac, like chocolate or wine. You could smear ice cream on each other and guide each other into foreplay.
Have Some Lube
You may wonder what lube will be for since the vagina is naturally lubricated. Lube will make things sweeter and more fun. Döring (2021) explained that you can use lube on sex toys for more pleasure and arousal.
Incorporate Sex Toys
Threesome partners should bring in toys for more fun. You could stick to using fingers and oral sex, but there is no harm in having the fun that sex toys can bring. You may talk with the other partners about the toys you intend to bring to build the anticipation. If the three women intend to use toys internally, they may need condoms. Safe sex is essential.
Have a Winding-up Plan
It will be awkward when the sex ends. What happens next? Does the third person pick up her stuff and leave? You may all get into the shower and dress up in nice clothes and go out for a drink. Whatever happens, the third person should not walk herself to the door and leave. Make the departure fun, too, so all feel great about your experience together.
Conclusion
Getting in bed with an extra person can be intimidating. You may have fantasized about it for months, but it's different when it gets to reality. You are probably doing it for the first time, but you need to do it once only for you to be a pro. This will be the one chance you get to decide if you will ever want to do it again. This article is for positive vibes only. It will be a fantastic experience for you. However, be psychologically prepared for the next day because the sensitive areas will be hurting from all the sucking and squeezing, but it is usually a small price to pay for all the fun you had.
References
Valovirta, E. (2021). Repeated Pleasure: Reading The Threesome Ménage Romance As
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Döring, N. (2021). Sex toys. Encyclopedia of Sexuality and Gender. Cham, Switzerland:
Springer.