THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO SLOW SEX & MORE INTENSE ORGASMS

Although most couples don't give it attention, slow sex pays off. Slower sex builds intense pleasure that results in stronger orgasms. Do you always take things fast in the bedroom? Learn how to slow things down below?

Steamy sex occurs when partners are aroused. When of the best ways to ensure everyone is in the game is by taking things super slow. Women or vagina-having persons take longer to get fully aroused.  Ignoring this can ruin your partner's sexual experiences or, worse off, your relationship. Slow sex provides more pleasure and increases the emotional connection between partners. Slowing things down is also important when one partner is battling arthritis or recovering from serious injuries. Of course, slow sex is not for everyone. If your partner asks for a quickie, be ready to give them and take things slow next time using the following tips.

Start with Foreplay

Foreplay is the greatest way of slowing things down in the bedroom. Chances are, hitting the bedroom with penetrative sex in your mind can end the love-making session before it even starts.  You can do a lot together before you strip naked and spread your legs. For instance, if you are the dominant partner, caress the other partner's inner thighs and other hot zones, including the nipples. Foreplay does not mean avoiding your partner's genitals. After exploring their body, slowly find your way into their pants using your hands to play with their clit. Once you reach this zone, rub it in a circular motion. If they wet things up, spread the natural lube all over their vulva to create a smooth surface for amazing penetrations. Similarly, some women or vagina-having persons find direct clitoral stimulations overwhelming. If your partner is among them, rub around the clitoris, specifically on the clitoral hood. You can alternate handwork with your mouth. Yes, eating out your partner’s pussy.

Find the Right Pace

Finding the right pace for your sex is important.  The slow sex techniques you can use to create your pace include setting a slow sensual song that will add positive vibes to your love-making session. Hard-hitting rocks you use for quickies may not be helpful in slow sex. If you don’t have slow songs, consider adding them to your playlist if you want slow things next time you hit the bedroom with your sweetheart.

Mindful breathing can also help you set the pace for your slow romp. Mindfulness relaxes your body and mind, helping you stay focused in your sexcapades. Moreover, mindful practices can enhance lubrication, resulting in greater sexual satisfaction when you finally get down to the main business.

Introducing a timer to your play may also be a great way of setting the pace for your passionate romp. With the timer, you can set time for deep kissing and sensual massage before jumping to penetrative sex. Allocate 10 minutes for each activity to make your penetrative sex more pleasurable.

Use Plenty of Lubrication

Yes, your partner will naturally wet themselves, but that should not make you ignore a personal lube.  Enough lubrication can help you avoid sex issues, including sore vaginas. Common sex lubes include water-based lubes, silicone-based lubes, and oil-based lubes. Water-based lubes are compatible with all sex toy materials and latex condoms. However, they dry super-fast; hence may not be a great choice if you want to experiment with anal sex. Silicone-based lubes are not compatible with silicone sex toys. However, they last longer; hence can make a great choice if you want to try anal sex. Oil-based lubes are thick like silicone-based lubes. However, they are not compatible with latex condoms. Choose the lube that fits your needs before getting into it with your partner.

Include Breaks in Your Play

Including breaks in your slow sex can help you prolong your love-making session. You can take a break if your arms are tired, almost reaching climax, or you have a sore. This can help you catch your breath, making the session longer than you ever expected.  After the break, warm up your partner with clit or nipple stimulations using your hands before penetrating them again, in a slow and hot motion. Breaks can make the penetrating partner lose an erection, but that is normal. Use your hands or mouth to make them hard again for amazing penetrations.

Experiment With Products That Slow Sex

The sex world has products that can help the man or penis-having person delay ejaculation. These products include condoms, creams, and lubes made with benzocaine. Use these products as the last resort because they come with many side effects, including;

•  Difficulty in orgasming
• The love-making session may last too long
• The products can cause numbness, ruining the fun

Switch Up Things

Switching up things in the bedroom can slow things down, ensuring both of you reach climax. Leaving the man to control the penetration speed and rhythm can make them cum faster. For this reason, switch directions, allowing the receiving partner to control the intensity of the play. Similarly, switch positions, paying maxim attention to those less stimulating to the thrusting, including spooning. Switch from eating out their pussy or anus to penetrative sex to manual stimulation. You can wrap your legs around the penetrative partner's lower back to keep their penis or strap on a dildo inside your pleasure hole.

Experiment with Edging

Edging is the practice of delaying orgasms to thrust your partner for a little longer. Mastering these techniques allows you to reach a strong orgasm once you decide to get yourself off. Your partner also enjoys prolonged sex that adds a spark to their sexual experience.

The Bottom Line

Slow sex is the key to strong orgasms and fulfilling relationships. Although most people do not pay attention to slow sex, it can add a little spark to your rut stuck sex life. However, it may not be everyone since some partners like quickies. Slow sex may not be easy as it sounds.  For this reason, this blog rounds up essential tips that can make you get the best when you decide to take things slow in the bedroom. Read and practice the above tips to get or give the best slow sex of your life.