Why Do Women Fake Their Orgasm? The Facts And Figures

Most women agree that they have never had an orgasm; few have had it once or twice, and others do not even know how it feels like to have an orgasm.

 There is pleasure in having an orgasm that everyone would like to be experiencing. Still, for various reasons, most people are limited. People would call it the pick sexual excitement. Having an orgasm releases the feel-good hormones that will make you feel sleepy relaxed, or happy. During orgasm, there is an increase in pleasure, but this differs from one person to the other. Men get orgasms faster than women. Moreover, they forget and have no plan to make their ladies have the same. Therefore, women tend to fake an orgasm. This article highlights why women fake their orgasms, the facts, and the figures.

 Orgasm

According to Hensel et al. (2021), orgasm in women is more pleasurable and can occur when having penetrating sex or masturbation. Although there is no clear purpose for the female orgasm, it is still important since it gives the woman the urge to have sex, which is different in men.

 Increased blood flow in the genitals during orgasms makes them more sensitive. As arousal increases, there is a rise in blood flow, heart rate, and breathing. This further leads to a spasm in the vagina. Sayin (2012) stated that you can have more than one orgasm but need some rest before having another.

The Benefits of Having an Orgasm

Orgasm Improves Your Health

Schilling (2018) stated that feel-good hormones are secreted when experiencing an orgasm. This will excite you while suppressing the hormones that cause stress in the body and mind. Furthermore, orgasms will improve your general body health by reducing body pain and lowering blood pressure.

 Orgasm is Pleasurable

 You can find pleasure in having an orgasm. You can get good sleep to boost your immunity and foster better relationships. Nit will b also make you fancy being in a relationship and having a healthy sex life.

 Reasons Why Women  Fake Orgasm

 There are various reasons women fake their orgasms. They include;

 To Boost  Their Men's Ego and Confidence

 The most popular reason she would fake her orgasm is to boost the man's self-esteem and ego. Also, they do that to push him aside when they feel he is almost having his organism. Men get too many compliments when they are between the sheets, making them walk shoulder high and creating conviction for their next sexual agreement.

 To Enhance the Experience

Women fake orgasms to enhance their experience in bedroom antics. The moaning in the bed makes a man feel aroused, aiming for the entire game to be on the other level. It is like a way to fuel your man to do more than what he is already. Also, they go with a slogan like fake it until you make it. The way he will be sexually aroused by your moans is the same thing that happens when you watch porn and feel aroused.

To Get Over With

 At times women feel like they do not need the thrusts and these strokes; therefore they tend to fake the orgasm to get the deed over with. This mostly happens when sex is dull or maybe the guy they are with is not meeting their sexual needs, thus making the sex uninteresting.

 Spare His Feelings

 When you want to have that moment that will make you feel like you are sexually intimate, you do not want to have awkward moments of argument and conflicts. This will lead to the couple having that non-intimate section, such as cuddling and kissing. This will make the naman happy since people believe where a man can find peace and love is where they will stay.

 To reduce  suspicion

 Women who cheat tend to fake organisms, so their partners do not notice that they got laid by other men. This is a way to throw their partner off. And the reason behind it is that if she can moan and get an orgasm, that gives her no reason to move out.

 Why Do Women Stop Faking Orgasm

 Similarly, several women stop faking orgasms because of the following reasons;

• They feel more intimate when it comes to making love and being intimate with their partners with or without having an orgasm.
• When you feel more accepted by your partner, with or without orgasm, you will be free and be yourself when making love with your man.
• Gaining more self-confidence

Common Misconceptions About a Female Orgasm

• women who can not have an orgasm have mental problems. People who have had trauma, stress, and difficulties in their relationships or have poor mental health can affect one in having an organism. However, some people in good sexual relationships with healthy sexual attitudes still find it difficult to have an organism. Therefore, so many reasons will make it hard for a woman to climax and thus can not be pinned down to the mental state alone.
• The orgasm from penetrative sex is the healthiest.
• As much as a woman is sexually aroused and stimulated, they can get an orgasm whether they have had penetration or through masturbation.
• Women need to be in love to have an orgasm.
• Any sexual partner can make a woman have an organism so far as she is sexually aroused.

Conclusion

Faking orgasms is a common thing in women. Most of them do not want their partners to have lower self-esteem as they will think they cannot please  them sexually. Others fake orgasms to enhance the experience in bedroom matters. In as much as they aim to please their partners and boost their partners' esteem, they are the ones that end up being at a loss as their sexual needs will not be met. Therefore, women who fake orgasms hinder themselves from enjoying awesome sensations.

References

Hensel, D. J., von Hippel, C. D., Lapage, C. C., & Perkins, R. H. (2021). Women's techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Results from a nationally representative study of adult women in the United States. PloS one, 16(4), e0249242.

Sayin, U. (2012). Doors of female orgasmic consciousness: New theories on the peak experience and mechanisms of female orgasm and expanded sexual response. NeuroQuantology, 10(4).

Schilling, R. (2018). Sex Stimulates Your Brain.