14 POWERFUL WAYS TO BUILD INTENSE SEXUAL CHEMISTRY

What is sexual chemistry? What are some ways that an individual can build up better sexual chemistry with their partners? What are some ways that individuals can build a better and more intense sexual chemistry? This article explains some powerful ways an individual can build intense sexual chemistry. 

Things will start passionately when a relationship is new as you are both intimate and your bond is quite new. You have to understand that no long-term relationship keeps the sexual chemistry they had at first intact. Over time this chemistry weakens and reduces. It is due to various reasons, but don't lose hope just yet. There are many ways to build that intense sexual chemistry back to it.

Imagine finding a partner who loves you for who you are. Someone who looks at your bad doesn't find fault. Someone who brings out the best every other day. It is said that true love is rare, but if you happen to find it, then you are lucky. This person touching you could cause a meltdown in your system and a tingly sensation that will roll down your spine. Sexual chemistry can cause all of this as it is the sexual attraction you feel towards someone. Sexual chemistry is the electric feeling that runs through you when you see that guy you are so attracted to. This feeling brings out passion from the inside, the key to a healthy sexual relationship. There are ways to increase your partner's sexual attraction to you; here are some:

Play Hard to Get 

Don’t be that lady who can be won over anytime. Don’t be that cheap. I understand you are also attracted to this guy but don't just give into him that easy; let him earn it. Let him work to get your time and attention. Guys love a good challenge; this makes them more attracted to you. According to Cameroon (2017), they love the chase; it is how men prove themselves to their peers. But again, don't be too much; reward him for the little things he does; this way, he will see that at least the chase is headed somewhere. When he finally wins your heart, you will see that it was worth it.

Tease Him

Give him that electric feeling whenever you are talking. Send tingly sensations down his body by touching him over and over. Whenever you are together, slip your hands time after time and touch him. Play with his hair when he is lying on your lap. Touch him throughout the day whenever you're close to him and at night, be sure he will be craving your touch.

Complement Him when Necessary

Men love it when you notice little things as it gives them a good feeling and a feeling of belonging. Complement his good looks and his dress code. It is the little things that matter. It shows an effort when you compliment him but don't do this every other time only when it is genuine; otherwise, he'll find no meaning to your compliments over time.

Show Interest in Your partner's Interests

Recently we have seen ladies psyched up about football just as men do. Men find this sexy, especially men who love football themselves. Williams et al. (2017) stated that it means a lot to him whenever you show interest in what he loves doing. So go on pick up the other video game controller and play his favorite game with him. Enjoy doing these things with him and wager a bet to make it even more interesting.

Flirt Around

After the initial stages of the relationship, people forget what led them there in the first place. If he had not flirted with you in the first place, maybe you wouldn’t be in a relationship. It is so sad that flirting dies after the first days of dating. It means that the sexual chemistry will gradually die as time goes by. It makes no difference in the length of your relationship; it is still great to flirt around once in a while. This way, you will still keep the fire burning in the relationship.

Display Your Love publicly

Not many fans of PDA are fans, but individuals should give it a try and see how it turns out. Most men enjoy PDA; it shows that you are not ashamed of them and are happy to be with them. So kiss him a little longer when you are off shopping, inside the mall. Hold his hand when you are out together; this will rekindle the already dead chemistry.

Keep Fit

The reality of life is that physical attraction is the largest contributor to sexual chemistry. You don't want to get fat from that junk you are eating. So consider eating healthy and eat healthily. Keep a balanced diet and hit the gym once in a while. Men pick up on looks which also includes how you look physically. Plus, keeping fit will also build up your confidence.

Explore Together 

Having a better relationship in the start was because you always found new things to do. It is the fun things that you used together that made you stay. Don't just kill the vibe yet; plan on new places to visit and exciting things that you can participate in together. When the relationship becomes boring, it is easy for the sexual chemistry to meltdown.

Don’t be Retentive

Let me give you the fastest way of killing sexual chemistry, being retentive. Don’t be that clingy girl who calls their partner repeatedly to find out what they are doing. Hazan & Shaver (2017) explained that girls should give their partner some space; if he wants to hang out with their friends, don't include themselves in their plans if not invited. Retentive people always have trust issues with their partners, and this way, your man will start to lose interest. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Therefore the time you get to spend together will be special, improving your sexual chemistry.

Dress Sexy 

Show off your shape, and put on something figure-flattering clothing. Yes, you get comfortable with your partner, but turn him on with your dress code. Don't just be too cozy with him all the time; sometimes, play with his imagination. Combine your normal clothing with sexier pieces. So put on those short tight shorts, lingerie, or those lacy bras on those sunny days that you are chilling at home.

Boost the Breast

Unless a guy is gay, there is no way he won't be attracted to the boobs, and the bigger, the better. Buss & Schmitt (2017) stated that men had been known to be obsessed with breasts since time immemorial. So put on that padded bra or a top that reveals your cleavage. Make your breast the principal of your outfit. Let it be the center of attraction.   

Reveal Some Skin

There is always a sexual attraction toward ladies who wear miniskirts. There is always that turn-on that hits a guy when he sees some skin. That is why they have become so popular these days. You can put on those short miniskirts or shorts to give him a glance at your features. But if you're not the people who like to put yourself out there for display, you can just put on your long dress but lift it when with him to give him a private show. 

Be Redolent 

Like animals, humans are also attracted to the opposite sex by odor. Though there is the aspect of natural scent, consider perfume to boost your natural odor. But individuals are boosting their natural scent, not covering it up. Avoid using very strong perfumes or lots of deodorants. Don't show up smelling like you took a bath in a pool filled with perfume. Just use the right amount.

Keep it Simple

Individuals should keep their relationships strong and healthy simple. Communicate with your partner; this is the key to all healthy relationships. So tell him about the little details about your day-to-day activities, and involve him in your life. Remind them why you love them. Find something you appreciate in your partner. Check in on them.

Conclusion

You can agree that rekindling the spark of your sexual attraction is not such a hard task depending on where your relationship stands. It just requires commitment and patience. With the tips above, I can now bet that you have gained a few ideas on how to spark up the chemistry again. Get to know what works and doesn't; it's all about trial and error, and you'll finally get it right.

References 

Buss, D. M., & Schmitt, D. P. (2021). Sexual strategies theory. In Encyclopedia of evolutionary psychological science (pp. 7509-7513). Cham: Springer International Publishing.

Cameron, E. (2017). Sexual orientation and the constitution: A test case for human rights. In Sexual Orientation and Rights (pp. 159-181). Routledge.

Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (2017). Romantic love is conceptualized as an attachment process. In Interpersonal Development (pp. 283-296). Routledge.Williams, M. J., Gruenfeld, D. H., & Guillory, L. E. (2017). Sexual aggression when power is new: Effects of acute high power on chronically low-power individuals. Journal of personality and social psychology, 112(2), 201.