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Tatyana Dyachenko
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Katie Lasson
Sex and Relationship Adviser

Sex is an activity that adults wish to enjoy. Sex is not about pleasure alone but comes with benefits for growth. Couples use sex to create a bond in their relationship.

Consider ideas that spice your relationship, whether you are a starter or a pro in sex. Nobody wants a boring partner. Here are 25 ideas that spice a relationship.

Talk Dirty

Add dirty talk to your list of things to try. This aspect challenges your partner to think about sex. Do this through chatting or verbally.

Wear Blindfold

Introducing a blindfold to your bedroom sounds kinky. However, it is easy and effective. The absence of sight enhances other senses, taste or hearing, to help you focus on the touches.

Play Sex Truth or Dare

The game helps you learn your partner’s preferences. It allows both of you to share secrets outside of a normal conversation.

Giving A Lap Dance

Giving a lap dance is fun to both and acts as foreplay. Ensure you have a comfortable chair that gives space to lap dance. Use a guide if you are new to the game to avoid messing up.

Finding The G-Spot

G-spot is a place of pleasure in a woman. Locate it using a finger, dick or sex toy for orgasms.

Phone Sex

You may be in the mood for sex, but distance hinders you. Make a dirty phone call and touch your genitals while talking. It leaves you sexually satisfied and raises your intimacy.

Fulfill a Sexual Fantasy

Relish sexual fantasies with your partner. People find it erotic to fantasize when reaching orgasm. This act fuels the process to climax.

Having Sexy Scavenger Hunt

Scavenger hunts spice your relationship. Leave a clue at strategic places and have a scavenger at the end of the hunt to make it enjoyable.

Getting Nasty in the Hot Tub

Have a hot bath together. Pop champagne and wine to enjoy the game. Chilling while drinking with your partners creates romance.

Role-Play

Choose a character that fits you. Put on Halloween costumes

Play Naked Twister

Twisters are games for children and adults. Play the game when naked to spice things.

Play Body Paint

Body paints are used in the bedroom. People eat them because they have different flavors.

Take Sexy Photos

Send your partner sexy photos when at work to keep them in the mood. Put on lingerie for attraction.

Play Strip Poker

The rule of this game is that whatever happens to the loser is decided by both partners. It helps to get dimensions for a stronger relationship.

Take Bath Together

The bubble bath is sensual as it adds a layer of romance.

Get sexy in New Location.

Taking sex to a different location adds excitement to your sex life. Make sure the location is legal.

Try New Position

The same-sex position creates boredom. Try different positions from a movie.

Add Food to the Mix

Apply cream to your partner's sensitive areas and lick as you give intense pleasure. Use chocolate or fruits.

Create Sex Song Playlist

Having sex while listening to music is intimate. It creates an erotic atmosphere to leave both of you with memories.

Take your lover to the beach and lose your swimsuits for a great experience. It is a killer combo to try while on the beach.

• Having Quickie

Having sex when you are still dressed or about to see off your lover is pleasurable.

Being Tied up

It is nerve-wracking but steamy. Trust your partner as he needs to treat you right when tied up.

Use of Sex Toy

Toys stimulate sensations. Use vibrators for a pleasurable experience.

Masturbation

It is important if you need a non-penetrative type of sex.

Sex with No Kisses

Set a rule before bed for happy moments.

The bottom Line

Sex is about having fun and creating memories. Try different things to spice your relationship. The results are not only orgasmic but also memorable.