DOES ANAL HURT AND 9 OTHER BURNING QUESTIONS ANSWERED

When done the correct way, anal sex should not be painful. This article answers the different questions asked about anal sex.

Anal sex should not be painful or hurt if done correctly. It may be uncomfortable or not have some pleasure, but that is okay if you feel no pain. Once you feel some pain, the body is trying to send you a sign that not everything is going well. You need to talk to your partner and tell them you are hurting, and they should try and find some way to make it pleasurable. You should as well not expect your partner to read your mind. They are not psychic. Your partner will never know if they are doing it correctly or harming you if you do not talk and express yourself. Some of the questions asked about anal sex include;

Does Anal Hurt?     

It may be painful, but it is not supposed to be when done the right way. If you get to feel some pain, then that is a sign that you are doing it the wrong way. It would help if you used lube to avoid friction. Once you use too little or no lube, you will experience some pain during sex.

Why Use Lube During Anal?

The anus does not self-lubricate. According to Wilson et al. (2017), lubricants are used during procreative intercourse to moderate the amount of wetness in the genitals. To avoid painful anal sex, you need to use a lubricant to avoid being too rough and causing pain. Once you avoid using the lube, the sex will likely be painful.

Are Condoms Useful in Anal Sex?

It is very wise for you to use condoms. You may not get pregnant if you fail to use them, but the risk of getting sexually transmitted infections is very high, according to Tucker et al. (2012). It is also very easy when to clean yourself up after you are done with the deed. You will have to remove the condom and dispose of it. You may likely get some fecal matter when having sex. Avoid all the cleanup you will have to go through by just putting on a condom.

Can I Masturbate Anally?

Masturbation is the deliberate self-stimulation for sexual pleasure. According to Leonard (2010), masturbation is harmless and convenient for everybody. It is okay for you to masturbate. You can even use sex toys on yourself but make sure you use lubricants on the sex toys.

Can I Practice Anal Sex on My Man?

We always feel great when we get the G-spot stimulated. The pleasure and excitement we feel are always heavenly. Well, men will always want to feel the same pleasure. For them to get that feeling, their G-spot must be stimulated. A man's G-spot is located in the anal cavity. So it is totally okay for one to try anal sex on their man.

If I Feel the Pain, What Is Wrong?  

If you feel like you have done everything the right way but still feel pain, the best thing is to visit the hospital and talk to your doctor. Some of the reasons you are feeling some pain may be due to the rapture you experienced when you had sex previously or the scars you got during childbirth. Do not have anal sex if you still get to experience some pain. Get some treatment first.

Is It Normal That I Love Anal Sex?     

It is normal, and there is nothing wrong with your preference. People are not the same. Some people have included anal sex in their daily sexual life, while others love it when they get to experience some orgasms anally. 

What should I Do to Prepare for Anal Sex? 

Have a shower first before you decide to have anal sex. Make sure you have the condoms and lubricants on sight before engaging yourself in the activity. After you feel like you have all that is needed, you are free to have fun with your partner. Take it slow while at it.

Why Is It Sore?   

There are instances when you may be uncomfortable and feel some pain. You should stop the play and start the whole activity again when this happens. At times you may get that the penis may have felt like it was big enough. Try butt plugs or inserting fingers one by one. Once you feel like the anus has stretched enough, you can penetrate the anus using the penis. Be relaxed and make sure you have used a lot of lube. 

Conclusion  

You need to be mentally and physically ready before engaging yourself in anal sex. You may be physically ready at times, but your mind is not. You are pressured by thoughts of what if you don't get to enjoy the whole thing and hate it. At times you may be doing it just because your partner wants it. You will likely feel uncomfortable, and the whole experience will be hurtful and painful. Talk with your partner. Get on the same page and do it when both of you are ready. Remember to use lubricated condoms. If it is still painful, put a halt to it as it may cause more serious damage to you. Make sure you talk to the doctor and let them give you some treatment whenever you experience pain.    

References

Tucker, S., Krishna, R., Prabhakar, P., Panyam, S., & Anand, P. (2012). Exploring dynamics of anal sex among female sex workers in Andhra Pradesh. Indian Journal of Sexually Transmitted Diseases and AIDS, 33(1), 9.

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Wilson, S. L., Adam, J. K., & Krishna, S. B. N. (2017). Effects of vaginal lubricants on in-vitro progressive spermatozoa motility. African Journal of Reproductive Health, 21(3), 96-101.