Guide to Rimming and Analingus

By Ksenia Sobchak

Eating booty like groceries is a line that has been used so many times. This is the basic definition of rimming where the tongue, lips and teeth are used to stimulate the booty hole. Whether it is surface stimulation or some in depth sensational stimulation, there are a couple of things that you should pay attention to before starting off.

Communication

Sexual preferences among couples do not automatically align and rimming is one of those plays that are a hit or miss. It is impolite to shove your ass in someone’s face or even shove your face in someone’s ass. Always ensure that you broach the subject by talking about it. However, direct speech may be a bit difficult for some and this calls for a little thing called testing the waters.

As you start your play, direct your attention towards your partner’s anal region. If they seem receptive to this, start off slow and closely watch their response. If you feel like they are pulling away, stop it. If you want to receive the oral action, as your partner how they feel about it. If they are willing to try, take them slow, never demanding more than they can give at any particular point in time.

Rimming and Analingus Safety

Anal sex does not bar the spread of sexually transmitted disease. If you feel like you need to protect yourself against STIs, invest in some oral dams. These are created to ensure that even oral sex is kept as safe as penetrative sex. The oral dam fit most tongue sizes so getting a pack is enough to cover both you and your partner.

Rimming and Analingus Cleanliness

Needless to say, the anal cavity has the potential of releasing some unpleasant fluids that is bound to make your session gross and something straight out of a horror film. Before the rimming session, ensure that you clean your anal opening thoroughly. For a quick surface clean, use unscented soap and lots of water to get the anal region squeaky clean.

For a more intensive clean, you can invest in a good anal douche. Ensure that you keep your douche session 3 to 4 hours before the rimming session. To keep the session even friendlier, shave the anal region or trim the hairs to a very short length. The anal region may have more hair than you imagine so ensure that you do not overlook this step.

Simultaneous Stimulation

The rimming session goes well with a little extra stimulation. As you pay attention to the anal area with your tongue, employ your hands in other areas. This may include clitoral stimulation or scrotal stimulation. The compounded sensations will make the session even more intense, having your partner gripped by sensations like no other. This will have them craving for more rims in the future.

Incorporate Toys

Sex toys are a godsend when it comes to spicing up the bedroom scene. This is no different when it comes to rimming. As you are focused on the back, use a vibrator or stroker to get the front region sensationally activated. This multiple point focus ensures that the intensity of the sensations is raised and magnified, leading to an orgasmic blissful state.

There are so many toys that can be used, including anal sex toys. These allow you to keep the play going on a high tempo from the get go.

Lubrication

If your rimming is confined to the surface area of the anal opening, then the choice in lubrication is not so much of a big deal. However, if you choose to take your tongue inside, it is imperative that you choose a lube that will work wonders. Anal lube is designed to provide the glide that is required to keep the play going for a while. Long lasting lube is a great choice as it allows you to play a bit longer without the unwanted interruptions as you reapply the lube.

If you require a bit of help to get down to business, the flavored lubricant makes a great choice. Most people prefer not to perform oral sex of any kind because of the taste and flavored lube masks the natural taste with a more pleasant one.