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How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

How to Pleasure Your Partner's Prostate

How to Pleasure Your Partner's Prostate

By Elena Ognivtseva

There are many misconceptions that exist about men's pleasure and sexual satisfaction. For most, men can only attain total sexual satisfaction when they are penetrating and thrusting a woman. The traditional concept of sex and biological anatomy of both male and female has really cemented this ideology, making it almost impossible for many men to enjoy sexual erotism.  

But the male body, just like the female body is created in such a way that it serves as your most profound source of pleasure that you can ever imagine. Like the female G-spot, men have a prostate gland (the P-spot), which is a pleasure point that if well stimulated, can turn up your orgasm levels to note 11. While you definitely have experienced penis orgasms, experts describe a prostate orgasm as “an intense, longer-lasting and heightened sensual exploration” that engulfs your whole body.  Prostate stimulation, whether done through external massage or internal stimulation using fingers, sex toys or pegging, is the most amazing sex dance you will ever engage. You can do it yourself, but is more arousing and easier when you’re dancing with a partner.

What is the Prostate?

The prostate is a gland located inside the rectum, just below the urinary bladder. It can be found between two-four inches up the anus, connected to the front belly wall. Biologically, the prostates gland is what produces a nourishing fluid which is mixed with sperms (forming semen) to propel ejaculation.  The Prostate gland is surrounded by sensitive nerve endings that are tremendously orgasmic when stimulated just right.

To find this magical place, you will need to go through the anus for direct contact. However, if anal play is a no-no for you, indirect stimulation through the taint or perineum, which the skin between the scrotum and anus is also possible, although not as rewarding as direct stimulation. 

When looking for it from the inside, the gland will feel like a fleshy bulb on the front rectal lining. Once you touch it, it will feel more swelled up and flesher than the rest of the surrounding tissue. From the outside, the prostate will be found at the back of your penis shaft, behind the scrotum. This part feels fleshier and softer. Once you locate the gland, you will feel like you need to pee, know you are on the right spot. Now you are ready for the party. It is time to deliver your partner those body-shuddering orgasms he has been longing for.

 Tips to Prostate orgasm

 Clean Up Properly

For many people, the idea that poop comes through the butt can be a put off even when they are playing with their own butt. So you want to be clean and flesh before receiving a direct prostate massage. Make sure to take a shower beforehand, paying special attention to the butthole. Consider using a douche or an enema for a thorough and refreshing cleanse before engaging in butt play. the experience will be more bearable if you use the bathroom for at least two hours before douching to allow the anal canal to clean itself. Using the bathroom is also necessary because prostate massage can give you a sensation like you need to poop and pee. While you will not do either, constantly worrying about it can spoil the fun.

For the giving partner, you also need to cut and file your nails to avoid tearing or scratching the delicate anal skin. Be sure to remove nail polish to avoid it chipping while inside your partner’s butthole. Also thoroughly wash your hands with soap and water even though you will be using a glove or condom over it during penetration.

If you will be playing with sex toys, make sure they are all cleaned, properly dried and disinfected before use. Proper hygiene is crucial to ensure you do to cause anal infections to your partner or yourself.  

Set the Mood

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

You want to be extra comfortable, relaxed and aroused if you are to enjoy a sensational prostate massage. As the giving partner, you, therefore, must help your partner get into the mood and have an extra level of arousal before you start. Get him a warm bath with essential oils and bath salts to help him relax and open up. You also want to set the room with candles and scents for a romantic experience. Then turn him on to his prime with foreplay, masturbation or even watching porn, whatever will trigger his animal instincts when it comes to sex. If it is his first time with prostate stimulation, it might need some getting used to. So be sure to practice and loosen his anus a bit with your fingers, and anal training sex toys such as butt plugs. Be patient and make sure to apply plenty of lube before play. Using plenty of anal lubricants will ease anal penetrations as well as make gliding more comfortable. Lube applies to both internal and external prostate stimulation.  

Try Different Techniques

As you experiment, you will definitely need a few different moves and techniques before you find the best that works.

Experts here at Peaches and Screams suggest that you start with your finger. First, try the “come hither” motion. Gently insert your finger into his anus and curl it upwards towards the belly button. Repeat until he gets used to the insertion sensation. You can also use other gentle techniques such as circling, doorbell and finger vibrations to bring him to the point of orgasm, but don't let him there yet!

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

Once at this level, now you can use prostate massagers and other anal sex toys designed for prostate stimulation. Simply insert a well-lubricated prostate massager and press it gently towards the belly button. But make sure that the toy has a curved tip and is bulb-shaped for a more sensual experience.  Choose toys that have a variety of vibrations and those with extra sensations such as external perineum stimulators to give your lover that extra sweetness during play.

If you are both up for it, you will find pegging also provide an amazing prostate stimulation while at the same time provide an extremely role reverse opportunity to spice up your bedroom plays. Wear a prostate massager strap-on and fuck the sweetness out of him.

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

Best Positions for Prostate Stimulation

The position will be dictated by the kind of massage you intend to give. If you want to use fingers and toys, the face-down and legs up positions are the best. The face-down allows you to have unlimited access to his anus and perineum for all your games. Moreover, the legs up (similar to women's missionary position) give you the best viewpoint and access to his entire groin and anus. So you can play with his penis, maybe even cock it with a plugging ring as you stimulate the prostate through the anus. It will be entirely to your freedom. If you plan on pegging and maximum toy fucking, then one side, one leg to chest and doggy are your best bits. These will let you dance in him so intensely he will feel his orgasm shattering his brain.

So, now that you are in the know, it is time to give him those continues exploding orgasms. Gift him one after another until he can remember his name no more. Let that lad worship your skills because that is the kind of diva you are!

Recommended Prostate Massagers from Peaches and Screams

Nexus GPlay Large Black Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

ENJOY INTENSE SENSATIONS WITH THE Nexus GPlay Large Black Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager

  • Made with smooth body friendly silicone
  • It is waterproof
  • It is recommended for experienced men

The nexus G-play range is a range of the best prostate massagers for men who want to start exploring their prostate and receiving the best orgasms of their lives. This product is the largest one in this line and despite its large size, you can get it even if you are new at prostate massages as you can quickly work your way to using bigger tools for a deeper more fulfilling massage.

The ergonomic design of the G-play large allows it to have the best-suited shape that will hit your prostate perfectly applying the pressure to it that will make the massage very intensely satisfying. The well-rounded head makes insertion really easy while the silicone covering makes it feel so good against your skin. The silicone is body friendly and warms up to your body’s temperature quickly to give you a comfortable feeling while in use. The toy has a strong hard shaft which combined with the steady vibrations of this device will not only please your prostate but your anal canal as well. The part left outside your body serves to pleasure your perineum leading to orgasms you won’t soon forget.

You can enjoy the use of this device a lone while masturbating or with your partner as you enjoy other playtime activities. Having sex while getting your prostate massage is the best way to ensure that you get the best orgasm that this device is designed to offer. You can use any water-based lubricant of your choice, ensure that you are well lubed up before you insert your Nexus GPlay Large Black Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager. Cleaning is very easy with an antibacterial toy cleaner.

Shop for the Nexus GPlay Large Black Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager now!

Specifications of Nexus GPlay Large Black Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager

Length : 4 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable : 1 to 5 inches
Diameter : 1.5 Inches
Width : 4 Inches
Colour : Black
Flexibility : Firm
For Who : Both
Features : 1 Speed
Brand : Nexus
Size : 4 Inches

4-Function Powerful Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

EXPERIENCE NEW SENSATIONS WITH THE 4-Function Powerful Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote

  • Made with soft pliable rubber
  • Has four different vibration and pulsation settings
  • Has a wired controller

This toy is endorsed by Dr. Joel Kaplan the renowned sex expert. It is designed to offer you a new experience in prostate massage. Made with an ergonomic design it is meant to reach your pleasure spot with ease. Its vibrator is powerful making the massager to wiggle and convulse while inside you giving your external pleasure spots a massage as well. The base of it is flared out making insertion easy and safe as you cannot over insert it and it can remain well seated outside your body thus freeing your hands to please yourself further. The toy also has a graduated ridged shape that makes the massage better as the shaft also stimulates the anal canal for added pleasure.

The toy is made of a smooth soft pliable rubber that is flexible and adapts to body temperature easily to give you a natural feel during insertion and use. With this gadget, water based lubricants are better than silicone formulas. The flexibility of the rubber means that it will adapt to your body’s inner contours and give you a feeling of fullness that only adds to the pleasure. During insertion, ensure that you lubricate thoroughly before you insert the prostate massager; being aroused at the time of insertion also makes the process so much easier. You can use this toy during masturbation or with your partner. Having sex while wearing this will give intense sensations and an unbelievable orgasm. The wired controller allows you to control the gadget easily and you can let your partner take control of your pleasure. Cleaning it is easy as you only have to use an antibacterial toy cleaner before and after use.

Shop for the 4-Function Powerful Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote now!

Specifications of the 4-Function Powerful Vibrating Prostate Massager with Remote

Length : 4.5 Inches
Washing : Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable : 1 to 5 inches
Diameter : 1.5 Inches
Width : 4.5 Inches
Colour : Black
Flexibility : Slight
Controller : Wired
For Who : Male
Brand : California Exotic
Power : 2 x AA (Included)
Size : 4.5 Inches

Nexus Lite Neo Prostate Massager Black

How to Pleasure Your Partner’s Prostate

Enhance your prostate massage experience with Nexus Neo. This dual prostate and perineum massager combines the firmness of polypropylene with the luxurious cushion of silicone to give dual sensations youll love. Its designed to fit comfortably within the male form with a shaft shaped to massage the prostate internally whilst the stainless steel rollerball gently rolls against the perineum, delivering a delicious licking sensation. Nexus Neo, combines the effective firmness of polypropylene and the cushion of luxurious silicone.

Length: 4.75 Inches
Washing: Hot soapy water and toy cleaner
Insertable: 1 to 5 inches
Diameter: 1.25 Inches
Width: 3.9 Inches
Colour: Black
Flexibility: Firm
For Who: Male
Features: Dual action prostate and perineum stimulation
Material: Smooth Coated Plastic
Brand: Nexus
Size: 4.75 Inches

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