FIND YOUR INNER ORGASM WITH A DILDO

Representing an artificial penis, the dildo is one of the pioneers in the sex toy industry. With as many designs and types in the market, you can never go wrong with the dildo. However, it is not all about the thrusting and vaginal penetration. There are numerous ways to enjoy the dildo to achieve your inner orgasm.

The quality of a product is determined by the kind of work it performs. The performance will also be determined by how well you know how to use it. Being a dreadful subject, not many will talk about sex toys. You know these things but wouldn't consider sharing with other people. However, those who use these toys have a different way of doing it, especially women. Not to say that sex toys are praised by everybody who uses them, but many can affirm their effectiveness and the pleasures that come with them. The popular sex toy is the dildo. It is common in all sex stores and is one of the girls' favorites. There are many ways to explore this toy other than the instructions that come with it. Here's how to achieve those deep orgasms with a dildo.

Things to Consider.

Getting in the Mood

Don't set the right mood for sex with your partner. You can also do this when going solo. Some petals, red light candles, and dim lights change the room's aura. This will do the trick to set the mood with your partner as it would do with you. Play a sexy vibe music playlist, and don't forget to lock the door. You don't want any intrusions.

Selecting the Right Dildo

Understand that there are different types of dildos. The manufacturers knew what they were doing With the variety ranging in size and shape. Go with what suits you best to serve your desires. Consider choosing hard glass, steel, or wooden if you want deep thrusting. Going for vibrating dildos is definitely the way if you are keen on sensations. A larger or inflatable dildo will do for those who love being stretched. There is something for everyone with different sizes, materials, and shapes.

Warming Up

Consider using a dildo as you do with a partner. This means incorporating foreplay even when alone. Consider warming up first by stimulating yourself manually before bringing in the dildo. Consider using lube if you don't produce lube naturally. According to Herbenick et al. (2014), lube will increase the pleasure and make it more enjoyable.

Dildo Techniques

A good workman knows how well to wield his tools. With the right techniques for using the dildo, you will reach the deep orgasms you desire. These include:

Deep Thrusting Technique

This is the most common technique that works like the penis to give you those deep intense sensations. You ought to find dildos heavily textured to ensure there are no bends when thrusting to achieve this. However, don't necessarily go for rigid toys but avoid too soft toys. Go for smooth or curved dildos for more comfort if you find heavily textured toys.

Short and Shallow Technique

Completely different from deep thrusting, you want to go for short, shallow thrusts. It is known that the vagina has twice as many nerve endings as the penis. These nerve endings exist in the first 1/3 of the vagina. It explains why women aren't necessarily pleased by penetrations. Short, shallow thrusts are rather easier with the dildo. It is quite simple as it gives you a better grip on the dildo and lightens the force used by the wrist.

Milking the G-spot

When it comes to women's orgasms, the clitoris and G-spot are part of the story. Stimulating or milking your G-spot with a dildo is quite simple. You want to drag the top part of the dildo across the g spot as you pull it out. Afterward, you can push it up to your vagina on the anterior wall as you slide it back in. There are curved dildos for this better G-spot stimulation, but you can also find rigid dildos preferably made from glass or wood for milking the G-spot.

Anal Play

You will enjoy the dildo up the ass if you are in for an anal play. It applies to women and men who are gay. However, you ought to be cautious. Use a lot of lube and consider hygiene in that you clean the dildo after you use it anally before using it again in the vagina. The last thing you want is a bacterial or fungal infection.

Double Penetration

You have ever wondered about double penetration. There are different ways to explore double penetration with a dildo: with two dildos, a dildo and a butt plug, a dildo and your fingers, and a dildo with your partner. It is advisable to do this on your own before incorporating your partner. Consider hygiene.

Keep on Turning

You can achieve the turning motion with a normal dildo or go for those known as 'juicers'. These dildos come with cranks which you turn around after they're inserted. Most dildos will work just fine with this motion as long as there are no sharp angles, which may be uncomfortable.

Rocking It Out

Bent or straight, there are numerous things to do with the dildo. According to Povinelli (2016), rocking a dildo involves moving it back and forth at an angle such that the tipoff the dildo applies pressure to the posterior wall of the vagina. You will get sensations the same as those of thrusting, but you will also get added stimulations from the clitoris. It works best with curved dildos or rather soft ones like silicone ones.

Explore and Experiment

Don't sit and play with the dildo like everybody else. Use some techniques into play and see what works for you and what doesn't. You can discover new pleasurable ways to enjoy the dildo from the internet, even for those full-body orgasms that you crave. Experiment through trial and error to find the perfect technique for your pleasures.

The A-spot

The A-spot is maybe new to some since many people are only familiar with the G-spot. According to Sayin(2012), A-spot is located deeper but around the same area as the G-spot by the cervix. It is also a sensitive area that a dildo can stimulate. It is not that common due to its position, and not many know how it is stimulated. You don't want to thrust the dildo in and out; you won't stimulate the A-spot. However, you need to hold the dildo on the A-spot and apply just enough pressure. In some cases, you might need a little more pressure for stimulations.

Temperature Play

Ever placed a dildo and send a cold chin down your spine due to the cold temperature of the dildo. It will be pleasurable to brush a cold object over your nipples, but with the vagina, you can go into shock. Temperature play is often with steel or glass, but with other materials, it just won't work. You want to place your waterproof toys in a bowl of warm water or rinse them with warm water.

Proper Positioning

Access what you are not doing right before you charge off that technique or depreciate the toy. Experiment with new positions with a dildo. People masturbate while lying down, facing upwards, or sitting down. This works, but try out other positions and re-align your pillows just right to experience sensations with or without your partner. Enjoy the dildo with different positions just like you would have with your partner.

Lying Down

Forget about the typical lying down and facing the ceiling. Try pulling your knees to your chest to vary the angles to better the experience. It also makes it easier to stimulate your G spot and A-spot. Consider placing a pillow under your hips to incline your vagina while masturbating with a dildo, as Moon (2015) showed.

Sitting

This is not a lateral sitting position. Consider leaning your feet on a wall or desk to avoid restricting access to your vagina by the dildo. It works best when enjoying some visuals like porn when flying solo.

Sideways

Lying on your side with your legs together will make the toy feel bigger. You can also keep your legs straight or bend the knees for a better sensation.

Facing Down

You can also lie face down. Reaching your vagina won't be hard if you have long arms. Pillows can also support your hips and incline your vagina for greater angles.

Riding the Dildo

You will need to stick your dildo onto something to achieve riding on a dildo. Consider the shower wall or the table or ground and have yourself a hands-free stimulation.

Conclusion

Avoid the instructions that come with dildo brands. When it comes to dildos, some are termed as those for men while others for women are dictated by color. In a true sense, there is no difference in the toys. Some are curved for prostate stimulation if this is what you want to get it. It may come in handy for G-spot stimulation. Like sex, you may not enjoy the dildo every day. Your moods and emotions may determine this. Some techniques may not work for you but give everything a try before lashing it out.

References

Herbenick, D., Reece, M., Schick, V., Sanders, S. A., & Fortenberry, J. D. (2014). Women's Use And Perceptions Of Commercial Lubricants: Prevalence And Characteristics In A Nationally Representative Sample Of American Adults. The Journal Of Sexual Medicine, 11(3), 642-652.

Moon, A. (2015). Girl Sex 101. Allison Moon.

Povinelli, E. A. (2006). The Empire Of Love. In The Empire Of Love. Duke University Press.Sayin, U. (2012). Doors Of Female Orgasmic Consciousness: New Theories On The Peak Experience And Mechanisms Of Female Orgasm And Expanded Sexual Response. Neuroquantology, 10(4).