How to Choose a Dildo That Fits Your Harness
How to Choose a Dildo That Fits Your Harness
Strap on sex is indulged in for a number of various reasons. From lady to lady action to the provision of some extra length and girth, strap on dildos are capable of keeping the bedroom play going on a high tempo. When it comes to strap on dildos, the need for a perfect harness is something that is of the utmost importance.
A strap on harness holds on to the dildo and allows for a hands free penetration session. This allows you to indulge your hands in other activities that are bound to increase the intensity of the sensations experienced. Choosing the right dildo comes down to a few different basics;
Harness
The harness is composed of a padded front. This allows you to indulge in vigorous penetrative action while still being shielded by the padding. The padding absorbs most of the power from the thrusts, ensuring that your crotch is not left in pain or uncomfortable due to the experienced friction.
The adjustable straps are a great addition to the harness. This allows you to adjust the straps for a comfortable fit around the waist and thighs. A loose fit would have the dildo shifting out of place with every movement making the session infuriating and exasperating at best. With the harness being too tight, you would be uncomfortable and every thrust would have the straps digging into your skin and causing intense pain.
Adjustable straps allow you to choose just the right fit that allows you to perform in peak condition, giving the session everything that you have. With the fitting straps all your power is delivered and the strokes match up perfectly with your tempo and power.
O Rings
Attached to the padded are O rings designed to hold the dildo in place. O rings differ in size, making the compatible dildos the ones that actually can fit through the O ring. There are harnesses that have detachable O rings while others have the O rings permanently attached to the harness.
If you intend to use a myriad of different dildos for your play time, it is advisable that you choose the detachable O ring option. This will allow you to collect O rings of different sizes which will allow you to play with a whole selection of compatible dildos.
The non-detachable O rings are only compatible with the dildos that have roughly the same circumference that can comfortably fit through the O ring. Taking the O ring measurement is very important as it allows you to make a dildo purchase that will serve its purpose with little fuss.
If you get a non-detachable O ring harness, always be prepared to purchase a whole new harness when you finally feel the need to upgrade to a different size of dildo. Purchasing a harness with a detachable O ring is a bit more expensive to start off but the harness allows you to indulge yourself in a wide array of dildos depending on your mood.
Dildos
The dildos are sometimes considered the most important aspect of the strap on harness. The dildos are either detachable or permanently attached to the harness. However, it is safe to say that most people prefer the detachable kind as it gives them more options. However, the non-detachable dildo has a lower chance of slipping out of place, making it the most stable harness. For the detachable dildos, the O rings hold the dildo in place during play.
Choosing a compatible dildo requires the ultimate accuracy lest you choose an ill fitting dildo. By either using the diameter or circumference, determine the size of the O ring. This will help you choose a dildo that can fit through the O ring opening to be held in place. The dildo has to have a flared base to prevent it from going through the ring and making it inherently useless for play time.
Harness Kits
Sometimes it is difficult to choose a harness and for this reason a beginner kit may be something you may think about getting. Beginner kits include the harness and the dildos that are compatible with the O ring that in attached to the padded front.