SUCKING ON A DILDO IS SURPRISINGLY AROUSING

Sucking on a dildo might seem like a weird fetish, but it is a real thing and the new trend nowadays. Many times, one would love to have the dildo in their mouth and pretend like they are giving their partner a blowjob. You can be naughty and playful through sucking and may turn your partner on. Some of the reasons why sucking on a dildo is surprisingly arousing include; it helps cover a blowjob, is a major turn-on, and can help prepare your partner for sexual activities. 

The good thing about sucking on a dildo is that you do not depend on your partner, but it can well happen in solo sessions. Dildo sucking has always been a thing. One would think it is only done in porn movies, and no one would ever do it in real-life scenarios. Visually sucking on a dildo makes sense. There is always that fun and excitement feeling that one gets when you see people sliding the phallic toy in their mouth and even getting sloppy with some spit. It at times makes one very hot. What makes the whole thing even better is hearing someone moan while they are mimicking blowjobs on the silicone dildos. The artificial blowjobs are naughty and playful. They can, at times, be used to tease to get someone in the mood and for them to see what you can do with their penis in your mouth. Some of the reasons why sucking on a dildo is surprisingly arousing include;

It Is a Major Turn-On

Graham (2018) explained that there is always that anticipation of what next will happen when you suck on a dildo. The feelings given out when you hear someone moan with a dildo in their mouth turn their person on and make them look forward to the real activities. It is sometimes a reflection of what you can do to your partner when you have their cock in your mouth and how you will enjoy the feelings given out. Sucking on a dildo can be a turn-on not only for your partner but also for yourself. 

Takes The Place Of A Blowjob

Cornelius & Monk-Turner, (2019) explained that not everyone is good at giving blowjobs. Sometimes you may be good at it but do not enjoy doing it with your partner. It may be that you are not turned on, you don't get hot by the act, or the feelings are not being reciprocated by your significant other. Sucking on a dildo can help as it may arouse you in ways you never thought of. Blowing a dildo may be something that is furthest from your mind. You may have that thought when you are drunk or probably want to show off, but not when you are with your partner. The great thing about sucking on a dildo is that you can do it during solo sessions. You are guaranteed to awaken different feelings that you never thought you could feel.

Sucking The Dildo During Foreplay

Most people suck on a dildo during their masturbation sessions. When you are shy to engage in role-play activities with your partner, you can always try and suck on a dildo during the foreplay sessions. The dildo is great because it has a soft feeling, and one cannot resist the texture feeling that it gives out. Wassersug & Wibowo (2017) explained that when turning it on, allow the dildo to face fuck you, and you will notice that the arousal will intensify. You will feel the head of the dildo gliding past your lips and passing across your tongue. 

Makes Partnered Sex Feel Like A Threesome

Sucking on a dildo does not mean you can do it in solo sessions only; you can also try it during partnered sessions. If you have ever thought or fantasized about the idea of a threesome, sucking on a dildo while having sexual activities with your partner will always do you justice. Your partner fucking you while you are sucking on the dildo will always give the vibes of being in a threesome. It is because you may feel like two people are working you over.

Sayin (2017) explained that sucking the dildo while having penetrative sex with your partner also gives the vibes of a person receiving double penetration. It is visible in that you have a dildo that works as a penis in your mouth that counts as oral penetration, and then the presence of your partner's cock in your vagina or anus counts as anal or vaginal penetration. Both of the penetrations may give you intense stimulations, and you may end up achieving an orgasm.

Warm-Up For Sexual Activities

When sucking on a dildo, especially when your partner is around, they get turned on and look forward to having their cock in your mouth. They want the feeling that the dildo may get to be transferred to their real penis. The best thing about sucking on a dildo is that it can be used to seduce their partners. You can seductively play with the dildo while it is in the mouth, and your partner can get turned on just by seeing how much fun you are having with the dildo inside your mouth. one thing may lead to another, and you may find yourselves having penetrative sex with your partner. However, even if things do not lead to penetrative sex, you are guaranteed to have fun with yourself as you will get some pleasure.

Conclusion

People have different fetishes, and it just happens that sucking on a dildo seems to be other people's favorite fetish. There is no need to shame people just because of what they love doing. You may be shaming the sucking on a dildo just because you have never tried it. Once you try it, you will be part of the people that sing praises to the sexual act because of the excitement it gives you. There is always that fun and excitement that one feels when they suck on a dildo or see their partner sucking on the dildo. Both parties are guaranteed to be turned on.

Reference

Cornelius, C., & Monk-Turner, E. (2019). I’ll trade you Skittles for a blowjob: Assessing the role of anti-female memes in military sexual harassment and assault. Journal of Political & Military Sociology, 46(1), 221-260.

Graham, R. F. R. (2018). a dildo but for your soul (Doctoral dissertation).

Sayin, H. Ü. (2017). Female orgasmic consciousness: New horizons. SexuS Journal, 2(4), 117-145.

Wassersug, R., & Wibowo, E. (2017). Non-pharmacological and non-surgical strategies to promote sexual recovery for men with erectile dysfunction. Translational Andrology and Urology, 6(Suppl 5), S776.