10 BLOWJOB TECHNIQUES NOT FOR THE FAINT-HEARTED
You might think you know how to give blowjobs until you do some research and find out that you have very little knowledge. Giving a guy head is not all about dick sucking. If you can pull off several techniques, you can also be on the road to being the best in giving blowjobs and receiving praise from your partner.
Everyone has their definition of pleasure when it comes to sex. Sex is an act that can involve many activities. Everybody has their way of finding pleasure. Some enjoy penetrative sex, others anal sex, blowjobs, hand jobs, and some love incorporating toys. Blowjobs are one way of finding sexual pleasure. A good blowjob will surely make a man obsessed with you. Keep in mind that oral sex, leave alone blowjobs, have its techniques just like sexual intercourse does. It's not all about putting the pecker in your mouth and thrusting it in and out, and blowjobs have a variety of techniques. However, some blowjob techniques are extreme and will not work for everyone, but if you think you have the guts to pull off the techniques, then here are some.
Tease Him
The best pleasures come when one is horny. However, arousal is not just a walk in the park; getting aroused or getting someone aroused is not easy. Arousal is a spectrum. When giving your partner a blowjob, first make sure he is properly aroused. You can achieve this by taking it slow when untying and pulling down his pants. Play with his cork, give his shaft little flicks with the tongue, and consider dirty talk. Harris (1995) stated that dirty talking is one of the most distinguishing features of sex. Remember, the more aroused he feels, the more sensitive his cock will be and the stronger the ejaculation.
Switch Between the Mouth and Hands
The mouth can work magic on the shaft, but this doesn't mean that your mouth should do the entire job. You can also incorporate your hands for a handjob as you suck his cock for a better experience. You can also switch between the handjob and blowjob for a varied experience, as Matthews (2015) described. Consider doing this while sucking his balls, and if you make some eye contact, you can talk dirty to keep him aroused.
Stimulate the Frenulum
As a first-timer, you have no idea about the most sensitive parts of the cock. It is pleasurable to give the shaft a good blowjob, but you can give a man serious pleasure when you concentrate more on the corona. If you also want to get more specific, the edge of the head where it curves in and meets with the shaft is the spot.
Give it a Great Suck
Don't just thrust the dick in and out your mouth. Consider bringing the dick out of your mouth and let your tongue and lips work. Kiss and lick the cock all over for a pleasurable experience. Doing this will also help you catch your breath since much sucking can wear your mouth out. Keep in mind that suction means pressure which in turn heightens the stimulation. You want to make him groan with pleasure, so pump his cork into your mouth while sucking it hard.
The Washing Machine Technique
Break the monotony when sucking the cock; try this technique to give him mind-blowing ejaculations. This technique involves taking his dick into your mouth, resting it between your lips, and swirling your tongue around the head. The mouth will be setting the warm temperature while the tongue works to stimulate the cock. Pulling this technique will get him groaning with pleasure.
The Deeper, the Better
Deep-throating is not for everyone, and it’s not as easy as it may sound, but if you happen to the deepthroating skills, then the better. Deep suctions will keep a man just thinking about you. However, if you can't deepthroat, consider just thrusting the cock as deep as your mouth can take. You can use throat-numbing sprays to help you with your gag reflex, but good practice can also take you there with time. Put in some effort to take the cock as deep as possible to give him more pleasure.
Try Oral Fucking
Not everyone is into face fucking, but just try to see if it works for you. Moreover, not everyone is into choking or gagging on a dick, and for some, it's even a turn-off. However, there are great ways to get face fucked that don't necessarily involve the throat. The easiest way is to wrap your hands around your partner's cock base to regulate his depth by creating a bumper. Keeping it shallow if you are not into throat choking is a way of keeping it shallow.
Light up the Sensations
None of you wants the blowjob to last forever, but you also don't want the fun to be over quick. Take your time to dive in and enjoy it. Vary the sensations by starting slow as you build up the pressure and speed to light up the sensations. You don't want him to cum at the start of the blowjob, so let him enjoy the sensations. Consider soft licks, slow tongue swirls, quick sucks, teasing laps, soft slurps, and fast, aggressive bobbing.
Be Tantalizing
Sex is great when it involves both the physical and mental. Don't just give a blow job for its sake; suck his dick with enthusiasm. Moan when he's thrusting your mouth and giggle or grin when he gives you an unexpected reaction. Consider some dirty talk and make sure you are also aroused yourself; this will give you both pleasure as you tune things up. Throw a little glimpse at his reaction when sucking his dick to see how he feels when you vary the sensations.
Determine Where he Will Cum
You are the one in control, so you are the one to decide where he will cum. Things will get messy with a good blowjob. Some are not into swallowing cum while others don't like it on their face, so be sure to know when he is about to blow. You can avoid all these and let him platter all over your cute boobs or finish it off with your hands instead. Whatever the case, make sure that your reaction is eager; pick a finish that will suit you, and you'll truly delight in it.
Conclusion
Blowjobs, just like any other form of sexual pleasure, have their unique techniques. So don't just suck the dick like you normally do; switch things up. Incorporating new techniques, going harder, and blowing longer will make sucking cock look complex, but it is what it is. Giving an intricate, compelling, and highly stimulated blowjob is not for the gutless putting it into try won't hurt and is worth it.
References
Harris, D. (1995). Dirty Talk. The Baffler, (7), 91-97.
Matthews, D. M. (2015). Every Man Sees You Naked: An Insider's Guide to How Men Think. Wheatmark, Inc..