Not So Fast! How To Enjoy Sex In The Slow Lane

Have you ever thought of having gentle and pleasurable sex in the slow lane? Here is all you need to know about slow sex.

Good things are often great when you take them slowly, and this includes mind-blowing pleasures during intercourse. Speeding up, especially during intimacy, makes the whole experience dull and less pleasurable. Experience something deeply sensuous and luxurious depending on your speed. Moreover, in slow motion, you will have the perfect moment to explore different sensations. Therefore, take your time and have the best sexual experience with your partner.

How to Enjoy Sex in the Slow Lane

The sexual feelings you have for your partner make it easy and comfortable to engage in slow sex. However, making passionate sex requires general preparation. Having a great sex mood and preparing mentally, emotionally, and psychologically makes it easy to have pleasurable sex in the slow lane. Here are the safety tips you can apply to give your partner passionate sex.

The Case for Leisurely Loving

How you treat your partner makes a great effect on your sexual relationship. Generally, having enough time to stimulate your partner’s clit and other sensitive parts of the body lets out all the senses. The clit is one of the most sensitive parts of the female body. Therefore, ensure you spend quality time on the clit before penetration. Taking it slowly gives you both imminent climax and a mind-blowing orgasmic plateau. This is something rarely experienced by quickies.

Kegels: They Are not Just for Women

Kegels are one of the most common bondage tools in the world of BDSM. These tools are amazingly beautiful and great for strengthening pelvic flow muscles. Moreover, they are widely known to be female tools. But did you know they can be a perfect choice for men? The men can also have the best sexual experience by regularly flexing their pelvic flow muscles. Moreover, stronger pelvic flow muscles help to boost your sexual stamina. Flexing with your kinky Kegels two to three times daily for better results.

Practice Pressure

Slow sex doesn't just depend on partnered sex alone. You always need to implement other things to have the best sexual experience. Therefore, practice slowing down your sexual speed by solo practice. Treating your sexual responses alone and figuring out what triggers you the most makes it easy to slow down during sexual intercourse.

Masturbations are the perfect way to train your penis. It is through masturbation that you can learn to start and stop during sexual intercourse. Self-sexual exploration is enough to know the right moments to break before ejaculation, then start again. The main goal here is to develop a perfect awareness of your body's responses and signals. You can bring this knowledge to the bedroom to experience enjoyable slow sex.

Kiss Bliss

Isn’t kissing romantic? To many, kissing takes center stage then penetration later. It is through kissing that the tempo is set and the partners get and keep the mood going for extended periods.

Edging Towards Pleasure

Edging towards pleasures is the art of getting closer to the climax before you take things down. A great way of technique for bettering your understanding of your body and having self-control. Furthermore, it can be extremely wonderful and kinky when you include blindfolds, restraints, and vibrators. You can also increase stimulation and sensations using your fingers, tongues, and hands. Prostate massager and rabbit vibe can also be the perfect choice for you.

During Sex: Coital Cruise Control

Once you have teased and titillated every sense, you can consider other essential steps to slow things down. Here, you can consider sex toys like kinky cock rings to safely restrict the blood for long-lasting and harder erections. Limiting your partner from deep penetration also gives you the chance to experience enjoyable sex in the slow lane. Also, sex positions like a spoon or lazy dog prevent deep penetrations for intense and mind-blowing thrusts.

Benefits of Engaging in Slow Sex

Here are some of the benefits of engaging in slow sex with your partners.

You Can Tantalize Each Other with Light Touch

There is great power in a gentle touch. Unlike quickies, partners who cherish slow sex have the chance to erotically and sensually touch each other. This helps ignite hunger and passion in your body. In faster sex, you might not have quality time to offer your partner sensual and passionate touches.

There is More Potential for Orgasms

Do you want to experience mind-blowing and endless orgasms? Consider having sex in a slow lane. The female body has numerous sensitive parts that can be stimulated to deliver stronger orgasms. Also, having slow sex allows both partners' bodies to relax and adapt to the feelings. This is an essential key in ensuring you experience frequent yet intensified orgasms.

It Allows for More Sexual Creativity

Slowing down during sex allows for more creativity and authenticity together.  With slow sex, you can have the chance to explore different sensations. Also, you can introduce different sex toys and other accessories like restraints, blindfolds, whips, and spankers for intensified sexual experience. Also, slow sex allows you to relax your mind, which gives you a chance to think of productive sexual activities.

You can have Tantric Sex.

Have you ever tried tantric sex? This is a holistic sexual practice of pleasing your partner. However, it can only be practiced with slow sex. Slow sex was made for tantric sexual pleasure.

Final Thoughts

Sexual pleasures and enjoyment depend on your speed during sexual intercourse. Partners who love faster sex are subjected to less pleasure. Moreover, they are also limited to their pleasures and sexual enjoyment. Always consider going slow on your partner to have the best sexual experience.