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There are many ways of achieving an orgasm and penetration or intercourse is just one of them. To some, a penis in the vagina or penis in the butt is not a pathway to mind-blowing orgasm. These people reach the O-town through oral and hand action. If this is you, we have good news for you. Allow us to introduce to you the Weird Fantasy Position. This position allows you to explore your partner's body in a more intimate way, which can give them outercourse orgasms. Keep reading to discover how to execute the position, how to enhance it, and its benefits.

What is the Weird Fantasy Position?

Weird fantasy is a non-penetrative sex position that allows the manner to lick their female partner's anus(analingus) or vagina (cunnilingus from the back. In this position, the male partner can easily access their partner’s sweet spots, which can lead to intense sensations and mind-blowing orgasms.

How to Get into The Weird Fantasy Position

The woman positions herself by getting on her knees on a chair and leaning forward. On the chair, she will hold the backrest for support and completely tilts her upper body forward. The man will stand beside her and use his hands to spread the woman’s buttocks. After that, he will lower himself to align his face with the woman’s anus and vagina.

Benefits of Putting the Weird Fantasy Position on Your Bucket List

Boosts Intimacy and Connection

The position requires partners to be vulnerable to each other, which can heighten intimacy and trust in the relationship.

Heightens Sensory Stimulation

The position allows for direct stimulation of erogenous zones like the anus and vagina. This can increase sensory stimulation, leading to intense sexual pleasure.

Encourages Partner to Break Away from Traditional Penetrative Sex

In the Weird Fantasy position, partners can understand the erogenous areas beyond the conventional, which can help them discover new sensations and pleasure points.

Provides Physical Comfort

For some couples, this position is a source of physical comfort they are less likely to get from penetration or intercourse. As a result, they are free to experiment with different angles and sensations.

Encourages Communication

 The position requires partners to communicate throughout the play, expressing how they feel, which can strengthen the bond in the relationship.

Expert Insights

Barbara Santini, Psychologist, and Relationship Expert

According to Barbara Santini, a respected Psychologist and relationship expert, "Sex positions that require vulnerability and trust such as Weird Fantasy can do wonders to the emotional connection in the relationship. The position presents new ways to experience sexual pleasure, focusing on trust, communication, and mutual respect within a relationship. It provides an opportunity for couples to break away from traditional penetrative sex and experience a stronger bond through shared vulnerability."

Tatyana Dyachenko, Sex Therapist

Tatyana Dyachenko, a leading sex therapist notes, "The Weird Fantasy position allows couples to discover new erogenous zones and sensations,  encouraging sexual exploration and openness. Experimenting with such positions can help couples feel free to communicate their desires and preferences, improving their sexual connection. Partners should approach this position with an open mind, ensuring mutual consent and comfort for a pleasurable and rewarding experience."

How to Make Weird Fantasy Position better

Lube Things Up

Apply a flavored lube around the anus and vaginal opening before eating out your woman to mask the smell and taste of genitals. The lube will also help reduce friction, allowing you to give her mind-boggling clitoral orgasms.

Bring in a Sex Toy

Vibrating wand massagers or wands come with intense vibrations that can intensify sensations in the Weird Fantasy position, leading to mind-blowing orgasms. If you choose toys made from silicon, opt for water-based lubes because silicone-based lubes can destroy them and shorten their lifespan.

Use a Feather Tickers

Brush feather ticklers against your partner's thighs or buttocks while pleasuring them with your tongue. This can increase sensitivity, which can make your partner experience more pleasure. These tools also create anticipation and excitement, which can elevate the overall sexual experience.

Aftercare

Once you and your partner get an orgasm in the Weird Position, prioritize physical and emotional care to increase comfort and connection. Here is how to go about it.

Physical Comfort

Cuddling and Embracing

Cuddle or embrace each other after the intimate act. By doing so, you will make each other feel a sense of physical closeness and comfort.

Personal Care

Help each other to clean up the body fluids or lube.

Emotional Support

Communication

Feel free to talk about your thoughts, feelings, and any concerns that you may have experienced while giving and receiving sexual pleasure.

Affirmation and Reassurance

Give each other verbal reassurance, appreciating each other for taking part in the intimate act. In doing so, you will strengthen the emotional connection and intimacy shared during the intimate act.

Debriefing and Feedback

Talk about what made you feel good and areas that need improvement. This will help both of you experience satisfaction when you get intimate.

Relaxation and Reassurance

Comforting Environment

Set up a comforting environment by dimming the lights, playing soothing music, or trying relaxation activities together.

Physical Well-being

Check whether one or both of you is experiencing discomfort and address any concerns.  This will help you and your partner feel relaxed.

Reflection

Reflection Time

Take time to reflect on the experience. This is the best way to give each other space to process thoughts and feelings.

Conclusion

The Weird Fantasy position is not just a physical position; it's a tool that can do wonders for your relationship. This sex position without penetration allows partners to break away from conventional norms, encouraging trust, communication, and vulnerability in the relationship. The Weird Fantasy position allows partners to discover new erogenous positions and sensations, which can build openness in the relationship. However, it is important to talk to your partner before trying new positions in your sexual routine. Being on the same page about a sexual act is key to a more fulfilling experience. Additionally, communicate throughout the intimate act. This will give you feedback that will help you know when to amplify sensations or stop.