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Has your partner ever asked you to go deeper during sex? Here are sex positions that will help you achieve deeper penetration; the flatiron, happy babyface, the private dance, missionary, and scoop.

Deep penetration can feel good for everyone involved. You get stimulation along your shaft, and your partner gets the intense sensation of feeling full and maybe gets a G-spot action. There is something undeniable about being inside a person. The psychological arousal comes from deep penetration. It feels like two bodies are merging into one. If you're looking for a quick orgasm, you part of the percentage of people who don't orgasm from penetration alone. These sex positions for deep penetration are worth giving a try;

The Flatiron

Braun et al. (2021) explained that it is a flat, doggy style and cozy position where you can feel connected. Have your partner lay face down on the bed with their knees slightly bent and hips slightly raised for comfort? Place a pillow under her lower abdomen to increase the angle of her hips. Enter them behind and keep your weight off her by propping yourself up by your arms. If they like the feeling of the weight, grab them by their hips and thrust them. The closer the receiver's legs are together, the tighter things will feel for you. This position is the best for deep penetration for a man. It feels incredible; you'll find yourself orgasming quickly. You can heat up by propping a vibrator on a pillow under your hips as it gives a great G-spot stimulation.

Happy Baby Face

Taylor (2015) explained that it is like a baby yoga pose, but with sex. While lying on their back, have them raise their legs into the air. The legs should be slightly past shoulder length apart. They need to grip the soles of their feet with their hands for this to work. It's not only for deep penetration but also perfect for clitoral stimulation with fingers or vibrators. You can stimulate their clitoris the freehand and hold onto them for support with one hand. As they lay down and raise their legs past shoulders, they can slightly raise them up and out; you get your ankles as far back as your head. Their legs spread wide, lending to move way deeper. Your partner's pelvis will give you some clitoral stimulation as your partner grinds against you. Deep kissing could also kick things up a notch. Have them drape their legs on your shoulder. At a 90-degree angle, the legs on your shoulder movements are considered a staple. Tilth their pelvis upward by grabbing their butt towards you. Ask them what feels the best; a small tweak can be the difference between them not orgasming in minutes.

The Private Dance

One partner sits on the chair or edge of the bed, and the other stands atop you and sits on their lap, facing them; you can stay half-clothed or try crotchless lingerie. Because their legs are wide open, you are more open to receiving all your partner can offer. You can control the pace and just how deep you want your partner's penis or strap on to go. It keeps your hand free to wander all over your partner's body or own. Throw some deep kissing into the mix. It can be pleasurable and arousing, which may help the body relax and release tension in the pelvic areas so that deeper penetration is more comfortable. Have your partner get into position with their hands firmly planted on the floor when done with this position. Grab them by their hips, position their vagina over your penis and begin to penetrate. You can help them by holding their weight because the position can be strenuous for your partner. Their hands are to steady them when you are done sitting on the chair or bed, and you can decide to sit down on your bed or floor in the same position you were on the chair. Let your partner cross-legged, wrap your legs around your partner's back, pull them closer, and rock back and forth. Here you can get deep in more than one way. Lock your eyes with your partner as you climax for added intimacy. Try deep kissing or nipple play to make things even more intense.

Missionary

McGrow, (2014) explained that classic missionary, your partner lies on their back, and you crawl on top of them, facing them, and easily penetrate your partner. It allows deep penetration and a somewhat intimate position since you can kiss and make sustained eye contact while having sex. It also gives you stimulation combined with intimacy. While their legs are still wide in missionary position, let them get into bridge position with their weight resting on their shoulder, and enter them from your kneeling position.

Scoop

It's extra delicious because of the skin contact. Your partner has leverage and support on this one. They can move their body in a way that gives maximum depth. Your partner can easily wrap a hand around and stimulate your clitoris while thrusting. Hensel et al. (2021) explained that deep penetration and clitoral stimulation provide different stimulation and arousal to increase pleasure potential. While both lying on your sides, bend your knees slightly so your partner can enter you from behind. If you feel unable to penetrate them deeply, lean away from them. It allows you to reposition yourself to a perfect angle to penetrate them deeply. Spooning feels intimate and can create surrender relaxation for deep penetration, and it's comfortable if you use a pillow underneath your butt. It can be used while masturbating with a vibrator. While on your sides, you can switch positions, lie on your back, and come at the top with your back and shoulder on your chest. You can heat G-spot because most penis, when erect, isn't 90 degrees angle to the body. While your partner is still lying on their side, kneel and straddle their left leg, they should bend their right leg around the right side of your waist, allowing full access to the vulva. You can penetrate with a perfect angle if you push their upright leg back; there is no limit to how far you can go.

Conclusion

This exciting deep sex position may take a while to master, but once you have, they'll be no one stopping you from having fun. If it's working for you and your partner, then keep it.

References

Braun, T. D., Uebelacker, L. A., Ward, M., Holzhauer, C. G., McCallister, K., & Abrantes, A. (2021). “We really need this”: Trauma-informed yoga for Veteran women with a history of military sexual trauma. Complementary therapies in medicine, 59, 102729.

Hensel, D. J., von Hippel, C. D., Lapage, C. C., & Perkins, R. H. (2021). Women’s techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable: Results from a nationally representative study of adult women in the United States. PloS one, 16(4), e0249242.

McGrow, L. N. M. (2014). Missionary Positions—Sex Workers, Faith-based Outreach in Australia and a Postcolonial Feminist Perspective (Doctoral dissertation).

Taylor, S. (2015). Energy and awakening: A psycho-sexual interpretation of Kundalini awakening. Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, 47(2).