How to Use a Strap On Dildo

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A strap-on dildo is an artificial phallus typically attached to a waist belt or harness that can be used during sex play by either gender. A great starting point is exploring different types of dildos available. Many shapes and sizes are available, and they come in various materials ranging from plastic to silicone. Beginners must choose one made from body-safe materials as these will be easy and comfortable for both parties. Consider your partner's preferences when picking out your dildo. Different people like different things.

What is a Strap-on Dildo?

A strap-on dildo is an artificial phallus typically attached to a waist belt or harness that can be used during sex play by either gender. This type of toy has been around for centuries, but its popularity has surged in recent years as couples look for more creative ways to spice up their sex life.

A strap-on dildo is most commonly associated with pegging when it's used by a woman penetrating her partner anally. However, they are also popular among all genders who enjoy penetration and other sexual activities such as analingus, vaginal penetration and even double penetration. With so many shapes and sizes available these days, there isn't anything you cannot do with the right sized or shaped tool!

The main benefit of using a strap-on dildo is being able to pleasure areas where fingers aren't long enough or strong enough without discomfort for both parties involved. The slightly larger girth of the toy makes it easier for partners to hit just the right spot while maintaining control over speed and depth.

Beyond providing deeper pleasure than hands alone could offer, there's something incredibly hot about taking charge in bed with your lover wearing one, too - making them surrender completely. At the same time, you drive them wild with desire! Whether exploring together solo or bringing another person into play, it's easy enough once you get the hang of things. So don't be afraid – embrace your curiosity and keep exploring these incredible possibilities today!

How to Use a Strap-on Dildo

Choosing Your Strap On Harness: Before purchasing any sex toy, it's important to research and find out which type of harness best suits your needs. There are two main types of harnesses g-string/thong style and boxer style. Make sure that whichever one you choose fits comfortably around your waist and hips without slipping or shifting when you move around. Additionally, look for adjustable straps made from high-quality materials like nylon or leather, so they don't break apart easily during use.

Determining The Right Size Dildo

Once you've selected your ideal harness, it's time to pick a fitting dildo size based on personal preference and comfort level. If this is your first time experimenting with anal play,consider small (1-2 inches wide) before graduating up in size as desired; however, if vaginal penetration is more comfortable for both partners. Make sure that whichever material you choose (silicone vs jelly rubber) feels good against the skin for maximum enjoyment.

Positioning & Technique

When exploring the possibilities with a strap-on, countless positions are available, ranging from standing-up sex positions such as doggy style or missionary to lying down ones like spooning or reverse cowgirl, whatever works best, depending on individual preferences! As always, though, we recommend taking things slowly until everyone involved gets used to their surroundings before increasing speed or intensity; it's also important not to forget about using plenty of lube beforehand, as this helps reduce friction, thus allowing a pleasurable experience overall.

Practising Safety & Care

After using adult toys, it's essential to practice safety by cleaning them off properly afterwards; most silicone products can be wiped clean, while others may require a boiling water sterilization process before safely storing away. Check manufacturer instructions carefully to ensure everything is kept safe and hygienic next session. With proper preparation precautions taken care now sit back and enjoy the journey into

The Benefits of Strapping on a Dildo

Here are some of the many advantages that come with strapping on a dildo:

Enhanced Intimacy

 Strap-on play encourages greater connection between partners as they experiment for mutual satisfaction. The trust required for this activity helps increase emotional closeness and strengthens bonds between couples.

Increased Stimulation

 Dildos provide additional stimulation that can be used during regular sexual activities such as intercourse or oral sex to enhance pleasure for all involved parties. Depending upon preference, they can be used solo or with a partner to reach maximum arousal levels through creative use by both parties (or just one!).

 Reconfigurable Positions & Experiences

 With the help of strap-on harnesses, any position imaginable is now possible,making exploration and experimentation much easier than ever! Because these toys are adjustable, individuals can access completely different experiences each time they use them - meaning no two experiences will ever be alike.

Accessibility

 Strapping on a dildo does not require special skills or knowledge; anyone can do it! As long as you're comfortable using lube (which greatly enhances the sensations), then you're good to go! Plus, plenty of resources are available online if you need guidance about selecting the right type for you and your partner(s).

Choose the Right Strap On Dildo: Tips and Tricks

Choosing the right strap-on dildo is essential when exploring new possibilities in the bedroom. Below are some tips and tricks that you can use to select the perfect strap-on dildo for your needs.

Material

Different materials may feel different against the skin, so choosing something that will provide comfort and pleasure for both partners during use is important. Silicone and rubber are two of the most popular options due to their high level of flexibility. Still,other materials, such as glass or metal, are also available, depending on preference. It's a good idea to do a bit of research into different types before making any decisions.

Shape And Size

When choosing size and shape, consider both partners' physical capabilities. If one partner has limited mobility, they may find larger toys too uncomfortable or difficult to manage during playtime. If this is an issue,starting with something small might be better. On that note, discussing expectations beforehand between both partners is always beneficial, so everyone knows what kind of experiences all involved would like out of trying them together.

Colour

Vibrators come in various hues, from neutral shades such as grey or black to more vibrant pinks, blues, greens, purples etc., all designed to add a fun flair to bedroom activities. Plus, most brands offer designs with specific preferences – realistic curved double-ended shapes, whatever else might fit the bill perfectly. Whatever choice you make, take time, shop, and decide upon the product's best-suited needs and your partner'senjoyment!

Conclusion

Whether used with a partner or solo, there are many ways that you can experience pleasure using a strap-on dildo. From choosing different types of harnesses and dildos to experiment with positions and techniques, finding what works for both partners is key. It's also important to remember that communication is essential when it comes to strap-on sex - talking about boundaries in advance should ensure everyone involved feels comfortable and able to explore their desires without feeling inhibited. Don't be afraid to experiment. After all, having fun should be at the top of your priority list! With these tips in mind, enjoy exploring all that a strap-on dildo offers.